Fan Bingbing admits to chasing Jerry Lee backwards. Is it true that women chasing men are separated from each other?

As the old saying goes, "Men chase after women, separated by a mountain; Women chasing men, interlayer yarn. " It seems that everyone has long recognized that it is often difficult for boys to chase girls, while it is relatively easy for girls to chase boys. But is this really the case? I do not think this is necessarily the case.

? I think the so-called "women chasing men, barrier yarn" is actually only aimed at some phenomena and some people. First of all, the easiest one, that is, the one with the greatest possibility of success, is of course that both men and women are relatively matched, with similar conditions, perfect looks and both sides are interested, but neither of them has pierced the thin screen paper yet. In this case, most of the boys are just not confident enough or worried that they are too hesitant to make a decision. If girls can be brave enough to choose to catch up, it will usually be easier to succeed. Secondly, after all, this is a world of looking at faces. If a girl is good-looking or has an outstanding figure, then she is much more likely to succeed in catching up with those girls who are plain. Because after all, appearance will leave a first impression on people. If the first impression is good, then the road behind nature will be easier.

? Similarly, it's not just superficial. If a girl is versatile, or full of poetry, or cheerful, kind-hearted and sincere, then such a girl will easily impress the other party and successfully attract the other party. However, not all girls can easily catch up with their favorite object as they wish. The most typical examples are Yuan Xiangqin and Jiang Zhishu in The Kiss of Pranks. Although this is only a TV series, their chasing love in the play is a high concentration of many people in real life. In real life, many girls, like Yuan Xiangqin, were not regarded by their favorite objects at first, but were disliked, vomited and even bored. However, they are persistent, never give up, love each other sincerely, and warm each other with their own hearts. Finally, after many people's blocking and many people and things, they finally let their favorite object like themselves. Can this arduous process of chasing after each other be said to be the difficulty of "barrier yarn"? Compared with the "interlayer yarn", there are many brave girls whose difficulty in catching up should be "it is difficult to go to the sky"! Because most of them are not looked at by their favorite objects, let alone have the opportunity to impress each other! The most miserable one is that the man has a favorite object or a favorite type, and the girl who falls in love with him does not belong to this category. This is the so-called "falling out of the flower intentionally, running water ruthlessly". In this case, the woman chasing the man is basically not a "barrier yarn", but it is basically impossible to succeed.

? Therefore, although Fan Bingbing admits to chasing Jerry Lee, it is because Fan Bingbing is confident enough to attract Jerry Lee, and in fact, she does have this charm and strength, but not all people are Fan Bingbing or Jerry Lee, women chasing men, and not all of them are as simple as gauze.