How to wake up someone who is pretending to sleep?

Can’t wake up. You can never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep, just like you can never touch someone who doesn't love you. Most people will feel sad when they see this sentence, but most people focus on the second half of the sentence, and what we are going to talk about today is the first half: You can never wake up someone who is pretending to sleep.

Sleeping is a person’s physiological state, while pretending to sleep is a psychological state. You can change a person’s physiological state, for example, wake up a sleeping person, but you may never It cannot change a person's mental state. Of course, there is no good or bad thing about pretending to sleep. A person must have his own reasons for pretending to sleep. It is possible that when he wakes up, he will have to face far more than he can bear. Or maybe he just wants to escape from something he doesn't want to face, or it's called self-deception.

When a person is unwilling to admit reality in his heart. It is difficult for people to recognize their own shortcomings and to admit their shortcomings. We often recommend to our friends how to wear clothes that look better, or which clothes make us look less fat...

But some friends may say that fat people wear the same clothes. I just need to be like ordinary people. Beauty belongs to those who are thin. If she thinks this way, then what we think is good for her is actually meaningless, because she thinks she is good just like this.

Or it may be a job. You may think that this job has no development prospects at all, you can’t make much money, and you can’t learn anything. However, there may be people who stay in this job for several years or even For a longer time, they think that money and other things are enough, and it doesn’t matter if there is no development prospect. This job is leisurely and easy enough...

Actually, to be honest Everyone in society is pretending to be asleep. In reality, there are so many examples of intrigues and forced smiles that you can’t even count them all. Sometimes there is really no need to take it too seriously. If you have blurry glasses, you may live a happier life. If It would be awkward to wake her up, and being a human being would be boring if you were unhappy.

So, in fact, we don’t have to try to wake up a person who is pretending to sleep, after all, it is definitely a useless effort. You can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep unless he wants to wake up.