Xie Lan, who had been DINK with her husband for 12 years, unexpectedly gave birth to a child at the age of 39. How is she doing now?

In 1999, Xie Lan was invited to participate in the lead female role in the TV series "Yellow Earth, Blue Earth".

When she first arrived on the set, she made a "joke".

At that time, Xie Lan didn’t know who the male lead was playing with, so he asked the director.

The director casually said: "Teacher Xiaohong."

Upon hearing these three words, Xie Lan frowned and asked subconsciously: "Isn't this a woman?"

As soon as he finished speaking, he walked out of the door. A tall, dark-skinned, burly-looking man walked in.

Upon seeing this, the director immediately stood up and introduced that the strong man in front of him was Shi Xiaohong, the male lead in the play.

At that moment, Xie Lan was shocked.

From then on, her fate with Shi Xiaohong was completely connected.

Shi Xiaohong likes Xie Lan very much. After learning that her family has a pair of deaf-mute parents, he takes care of her in every possible way, but Xie Lan always refuses his kindness.

Later, the two finally fell in love and got married, and they decided to become a DINK family together.

No one expected at that time that in their 12th year as DINK, Xie Lan unexpectedly became pregnant and gave birth to a son at the age of 39.

Now 10 years have passed, what happened to Xie Lan who unexpectedly gave birth to a child after insisting on Dink for many years?

Xie Lan was born in Zhenjiang City, Jiangsu Province in 1973.

She had a hard time growing up. Because her parents were deaf-mute, she was often laughed at by her classmates.

When she was 8 years old, Xie Lan was practicing gymnastics in the training room of the sports school. Suddenly, several girls broke into her and pushed her to the ground: "We are using this training room, you go away."

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A group of little girls had domineering expressions on their faces. At that time, Xie Lan didn’t know why she was being bullied like this.

Until later, she overheard these little girls talking about their parents.

At that moment, Xie Lan felt that his self-esteem had been severely hit.

She ran home frantically and cried bitterly.

Upon seeing this, the parents wanted to come forward to comfort them, but their daughter ignored them at all. Later, the old couple went to the school to investigate and found out that their daughter was being bullied.

From then on, whenever Xie Lan was picked up or dropped off, Xie's parents would always stand far away, never approaching the school or entering the campus. They did not want to cause any trouble to their daughter.

Xie Lan can feel the subtle changes in her parents. She was also very sad at a young age, but now she can only become stronger.

She felt that as long as she became stronger, she would not be bullied and could protect her parents.

So Xie Lan worked hard to study and practice gymnastics.

However, at the moment when Xie Lan worked hard and made the most progress, fate dealt her a fatal blow.

When Xie Lan was 11 years old, he accidentally fell off the balance beam while practicing gymnastics and broke his arm.

This moment directly ruined her gymnastics career.

During that time, Xie Lan was very sad and powerless. She looked at her parents' hard work and tired eyes, and decided to help her family share the pain.

So after Xie Lan recovered from her injury, she dragged her luggage and went out to work.

The Xie family’s parents did not want their daughter to follow in their footsteps and wanted her to continue studying and enter college, so they tried hard to dissuade her.

But at that time, Xie Lan was young and energetic, as stubborn as a cow, and wanted to work.

The Xie family's parents had no choice but to kneel down and cry, begging Xie Lan to let her not leave.

Seeing his parents' faces full of tears, Xie Lan finally gave in.

How could she make her parents feel sad?

Xie Lan finally understood what her parents meant, so she put down her luggage, returned to her room, picked up her books, and started studying intently.

She secretly vowed to let her parents live a good life.

In 1992, Xie Lan successfully passed the written examination and interview of the Beijing Film Academy and entered the school with excellent results.

Later, she started the work-study model. When there were classes, she would concentrate on class and study hard, and when there were no classes, she would go out to work.

In this way, the burden on parents can finally be relieved.

Later, she was lucky enough to be spotted by the director of "Sisters from the Mountain" and starred in this drama, which improved her acting skills a lot.

Then in her sophomore year, she collaborated with the famous movie star Leslie Cheung in "Midnight Song", in which she played the heroine Juliet.

At that time, Xie Lan seemed to be shrouded in a light of luck. Not only were film contracts coming in a steady stream, but his income was also increasing.

She is very glad that she listened to her parents and continued studying, otherwise her life would never be as smooth as it is now.

Time flies, and Xie Lan is already 26 years old before he knows it.

In that era, when girls reached this age, their parents would frantically urge them to find a partner.

Xie Lan is no exception.

Every time she comes home, her parents drag her into various "investigations" to see if she has a partner.

But every time his parents asked, Xie Lan always shook his head.

At that time, she did not plan to get married. She just wanted to stay with her parents all her life and take good care of them.

Until she met actor Shi Xiaohong on the set of "Yellow Earth, Blue Earth".

At that time, Shi Xiaohong felt that Xie Lan was different from other girls when she first saw her.

The other actresses were chatting away during their breaks. Only she sat quietly, reading the script and doing her own work.

At that moment, Shi Xiaohong felt that "she is the woman I need."

So from then on, the pursuit mode started, giving her snacks and fruits every day, and basically never fell behind.

Later, during filming, Xie Lan caught a cold.

After Shi Xiaohong learned about it, she quickly ran to the drugstore and bought a bunch of cold medicine, thinking of sending it to Xie Lan.

Unexpectedly, when he stood at the door of the hotel room and told Xie Lan that he was here to deliver medicine.

Xie Lan only said, "Thank you, just in front of the pharmacy."

This sentence was like a basin of cold water poured on Shi Xiaohong. He did not expect that he would come all the way When he came to deliver medicine, Xie Lan didn't even open the door.

This kind of frustration made Shi Xiaohong very sad. He decided to give up pursuing Xie Lan and never give up his pursuit of Xie Lan.

But fate is wonderful.

A year later, the two met again at the awards night of "Yellow Earth, Blue Earth".

When they met again, they originally just said hello, but unexpectedly, Shi Xiaohong accidentally learned about Xie Lan's troubled life experience.

Only then did he find out that Xie Lan's parents were deaf-mute, and he also realized how difficult and sad Xie Lan's journey had been.

He felt sorry for Xie Lan, wanted to protect her, care about her, and even wanted to give her a home.

So, Shi Xiaohong plucked up the courage and asked for Xie Lan's contact information, and told her very proudly: "We have worked together once, and we are considered friends. If you have any difficulties in the future, just come to me." , I'll definitely be there!"

Xie Lan nodded politely. She originally thought that Shi Xiaohong was just making a simple greeting, but she didn't expect that he actually did it.

One time Xie Lan wanted to move. She was always thrifty and didn't want to ask someone from a moving company to help.

But few of her friends were free, so she had to call Shi Xiaohong and ask him if he had time to help.

At that time, Shi Xiaohong only said 4 words, "I will be there soon."

It was said too late and then it was too soon.

Not long after the phone was hung up, Shi Xiaohong appeared in front of Xie Lan.

That day, Shi Xiaohong helped Xie Lan, and Xie Lan treated him to a meal, and their relationship took a big step forward.

After this experience, Shi Xiaohong will never forget Xie Lan.

No matter what he was doing, the first thing that came to his mind was Xie Lan.

He sends messages to Xie Lan every day, but Xie Lan only replies sometimes and is not enthusiastic.

Because Xie Lan didn’t have much affection for Shi Xiaohong at that time and just regarded him as a friend.

Later one night in 2000, Shi Xiaohong and her friends had a car accident on their way to a dinner party.

Although there was nothing serious, the thrilling scene made Shi Xiaohong feel very scared.

So he immediately picked up his cell phone and called Xie Lan. He told Xie Lan very sincerely:

"I had a car accident just now, and suddenly I felt that human lifespan is really long. Briefly, I want to tell you my feelings without leaving any regrets. You are the girl I have always liked. I want to be with you and marry you. Are you willing? ”

Shi Xiaohong? Xie Lan was surprised when he proposed marriage as soon as possible. After all, they had not started dating at that time and were just friends.

However, Shi Xiaohong's words really moved her, and her heart was pounding.

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This sentence made Xie Lan feel a little inferior in her heart, so she rejected Shi Xiaohong.

But Xiaohong is not a person who will give up when encountering setbacks. He just doesn't want to let go of the person he likes easily.

So when he heard that Xie Lan was going to Jiangxi to film a movie, he specially made an appointment with the director of the movie, saying that he didn't want a salary and didn't care about the number of roles, he just wanted a role.

He just wanted to keep getting closer to Xie Lan and use actions to prove that he was sincere.

In this way, Shi Xiaohong successfully squeezed into the crew and became colleagues with Xie Lan again.

He knew that Xie Lan liked to eat noodles, so he took the initiative to serve as the chef of the crew, making noodles in different ways from time to time, such as sauerkraut noodles, hand mixed noodles, etc.

During that time, Xie Lan gained several pounds because of his eating.

Perhaps it was because Shi Xiaohong was so considerate that when he confessed his love again, Xie Lan agreed.

Before agreeing to him, Xie Lan asked Shi Xiaohong a question: "Do you mind if you know my family situation?"

Upon hearing this, Shi Xiaohong was a little unhappy. He asked, "Don't you believe that I will be good to you and your family?"

The firmness in Shi Xiaohong's eyes made Xie Lan once again confirm her heart, she believed in him.

I originally thought that after a couple got together, their relationship would go from strong to dull.

Unexpectedly, Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong were not like this.

After getting together, it can be said that no one can't see Shi Xiaohong's love for Xie Lan.

Once, Shi Xiaohong’s friend Liu Jiaoxin went to him to discuss the script. Unexpectedly, he was frightened as soon as he entered his room.

The entire wall and door are covered with Xie Lan’s photos.

At that time, Liu Jiaoxin was still very surprised. Who was this girl?

Upon hearing this question, Shi Xiaohong immediately stood up and answered with great pride: "This is my girlfriend Xie Lan!"

At that time, none of them knew that Shi Xiaohong and Liu Jiaoxin's brief exchange made Liu Jiaoxin become Xie Lan's nobleman.

After that day, a director named Wang Wei approached Liu Jiaoxin and asked him to help find the heroine for a new drama.

Upon hearing this, Liu Jiaoxin immediately thought of Xie Lan, who was beautiful and good at acting, so she introduced her to director Wang Wei.

Later, Xie Lan successfully starred in the drama "Walking Through the Severe Winter", and later she won the "China Film Huabiao Award for Outstanding Actress."

During their relationship, Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong had always had a good relationship, but as Shi Xiaohong got older, he suddenly proposed to Xie Lan again.

At first, Xie Lan was still hesitant. After all, she had never thought about getting married.

Later I learned that Shi Xiaohong had made that promise: "I will be good to you, and I will be good to you all my life."

This sentence was like a warm beacon, and Xie Lan My heart suddenly lit up.

In 2000, 27-year-old Xie Lan took the hand of Shi Xiaohong, who was 11 years older than her, and entered the palace of marriage.

After marriage, the two are like two children who have not grown up, often joking together.

One time, when Xie Lan came home, Shi Xiaohong heard his wife's footsteps outside the door, so he hid in the cabinet and played hide-and-seek for her, hoping to scare her.

Xie Lan didn't know about this at all at the time. After returning home, he sent a message to Shi Xiaohong, but no one answered the call. He was very worried. < /p>

Not only that, after marriage, whenever Xie Lan was filming, Shi Xiaohong would always be with her.

One Valentine's Day, Xie Lan happened to be filming in a rural area, and there were no restaurants or flower shops around.

Originally, Xie Lan had not planned on this Valentine's Day, but Shi Xiaohong insisted on giving her a sense of ceremony.

So he traveled throughout the countryside and finally ran to a vegetable market.

He saw cucumbers sold in the market with cucumber flowers, so he bought a bucket and gave it to Xie Lan.

Xie Lan couldn’t laugh or cry when she saw the cucumber flowers.

Although Cucumber Flower looks a little sad, she likes it very much, likes Shi Xiaohong's sense of ritual, and likes Shi Xiaohong's concern for her.

Seeing the couple so close, Shi Xiaohong’s mother had doubts.

She pulled her son aside and asked with great melancholy: "You have been married for so long and your relationship is so good. Why don't you have a child?"

In fact, marriage is The last two people made it clear that they didn't really want children. Because of their careers and the elderly at home, they were afraid that they would be too distracted to take care of their children, so they agreed to become a DINK family.

But fate did not give them this opportunity at all.

Just in 2012, this couple who had been DINK for 12 years received a surprise.

Xie Lan was unexpectedly pregnant.

The sudden arrival of the child surprised both Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong.

The two stared at each other, you looked at me, I looked at you, and finally asked in unison, "What should I do?"

Maybe they had a tacit understanding, and then the two of them met again. They unanimously decided to give birth to the child.

Both Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong felt that this was a treasure given to them by God, so they should not throw it away and cherish it.

So 39-year-old Xie Lan gave birth to her child by caesarean section despite the risks of advanced maternal age.

The child is a boy named Dandan.

The little guy is very cute and has a strong body. The most important thing is that he is bald like his father.

When Xie Lan was on the show, the host asked her if she didn't mind her husband and son's hairstyle.

Xie Lan said: "I like how they look bald, they are very energetic."

Perhaps Xie Lan’s words took it to heart. From then on, Shi Xiaohong shaved off her hair as soon as it grew out, leaving only the side of Xie Lan that liked her.

As the saying goes, love is contagious.

Shi Xiaohong’s love for Xie Lan was seen by their son.

So whenever Dandan is about to go out, she will always confess to Xie Lan, "Mom, I love you more today than yesterday."

Every time I hear this sentence, Xie Lan's heart turned into a puddle of warmth.

On the contrary, Dandan's attitude towards his father Shi Xiaohong is different.

Whenever Shi Xiaohong goes out, Dandan will tell him: "Come back early after get off work, don't let mom worry."

Hearing this, Shi Xiaohong felt happy and jealous at the same time. .

In their family, Xie Lan is a treasure.

It seems that as long as she is there, there will be happiness.

Later, as her son grew older, Xie Lan reduced her work a lot and focused on being with her children. Sometimes she would take her son to her parents' place.

She taught her son sign language and told him to be polite. With little accumulation, Xie Lan took care of his life happily.

In order to better take care of his family, Shi Xiaohong has also reduced his work. He only accepts some positive and meaningful scripts.

Because he knew that he had to create a good impression on his son.

As of 2022, Xie Lan is 49 years old, and her relationship with Shi Xiaohong is still as beautiful as the love period.

They often take their son out for travel and vacation.

This is not teaching children how to enjoy life, but teaching them to broaden their horizons and see more of the outside world.

Looking back on Xie Lan’s experiences, she is really a strong and difficult woman.

For the sake of her deaf-mute parents, she tried her best to help them share the pressure and studied hard to repay her parents.

At that time, she was lonely inside. She never thought that she would get married or have children, or even have a happy family in the future.

Until Shi Xiaohong appeared.

Shi Xiaohong’s unyielding, heart-warming, caring and loving attitude made Xie Lan feel warm from the inside.

So when the two of them are together, life is still interesting.

Although they agreed to be a DINK family later on, when their son appeared, they were not unhappy, but the whole family was happy.

Times are changing. For many families, children are not the only way to create happiness, but the appearance of a child is enough to make the whole family happy.

The world is so big, it is not easy for people who have children. Cherish the people in front of you and the happy time now.