"My mother can't take care of you, so let your mother take care of you during confinement": What should I do if I meet Phoenix Man's family?

Perhaps the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to get along with. This is everyone's default view, and it is also a problem that has always been difficult for everyone to deal with. But looking at the source, it's just that one woman loves her son, and another woman loves her husband. As long as the middleman as the link handles all kinds of conflicts properly, many problems will no longer exist, let alone talk about it. As we said, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult.

But if being a middleman does not coordinate the relationship properly, but instead adds fuel to the fire, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can also be imagined, because after all, everyone wants to be unique and does not want to be exploited by others. The love you get. There is also a saying circulating in the market that the hatred of confinement cannot be overthrown by Dai Tian, ??especially if you abandon her and let her bear all the pain and helplessness alone, then some marriages are really broken.

Chen Tian was introduced by Lin Jing through relatives and friends. Overall, he seemed pretty good, honest, honest, and kind-hearted, so he told his family to spend some time with him first.

After a period of time, Chen Tian treated Lin Jing well. Although it was not something he could hold in his hands, compared with other young lovers in love, Chen Tian did consider it properly. Show your love freely, but don't let your love be hidden. This is the most suitable for marriage.

After half a year of getting along, Lin Jing also made up her mind that she wanted to marry this man. Her parents also agreed to the marriage, so the wedding was held in full swing. Because we are all from an ordinary family, we don’t have much to worry about when it comes to betrothal gifts and dowries, we can just do whatever we want.

Lin Jing, who married Chen Tian, ??soon lived with her mother-in-law. Because the home was only such a big place, there would be friction to some extent. Even though Lin Jing repeatedly avoided it, there was always a situation. Will cause trouble. At the beginning, Chen Tian would still be in the middle to coordinate, but as a big man, he found it annoying to go back and forth. Later, he didn't want to take care of it anymore and let his mother-in-law and Lin Jing handle it by themselves. Lin Jing was also a little disappointed.

But these disappointments were diluted with the fact that Lin Jing was pregnant. The family was immersed in joy. Even the mother-in-law did not want to quarrel with her. Everyone was looking forward to the birth of the child.

Perhaps because she had a baby, her mother-in-law, who originally didn’t care about food matching, actually tried to make a variety of meals for pregnant women. This also made Lin Jing happy. After all, she was focused on quarreling with her mother-in-law. Now, I don’t care about my mother-in-law’s cooking skills at all. On the contrary, I get to enjoy her mother-in-law’s cooking skills during my pregnancy, which is really a blessing.

But in fact, there are occasional quarrels, because the mother-in-law and husband often discuss the gender of the child behind her back. Although the husband says that it can be a boy or a girl, his words are full of appreciation for the boy, while the mother-in-law He kept praising boys, and also told Chen Tian to note that if she didn't get pregnant this time, she could continue to give birth to a boy next time until she gave birth to a boy. But Lin Jing, who cared about her children, no longer wanted to make trouble. She only focused on taking care of herself and giving birth to the child with peace of mind. Besides, the treatment she received during this period was not bad.

The day finally came for Lin Jing to give birth. Both her mother-in-law and her husband looked extremely anxious. Until their daughter was born, the smiles on their faces disappeared, leaving only boredom and disdain.

Less than two days after Lin Jing returned home for confinement, Chen Tian couldn't stand it anymore and shouted directly at Lin Jing, "My mother can't take care of you, so let your mother do the confinement." Come on." Lin Jing, who was already fragile, collapsed at that moment. She hurriedly called her home, and her mother said she would pick her up right away.

After returning home, her mother said nothing about Lin Jing and Chen Tian, ??for fear of hurting Lin Jing's fragile heart. Perhaps as a mother, she understands a mother's heart better. Lin Jing's mother ran up and down to take care of Lin Jing, and she also paid more attention to her diet. At the same time, in order to relieve her pain, she kept chatting with Lin Jing about neighborhood jokes, which gave Lin Jing a buffer.

How could Lin Jing not understand her mother's heart? She had tried her best to hide her sadness. After all, the days to come were more difficult, and there was a child waiting to be fed that she needed to take care of. She couldn't be vulnerable.

Time passed very quickly. Not long after, Lin Jing was about to give birth. During this period, she also thought about many things clearly. It turns out that some people’s personalities can change even if you give them half a year before marriage. You can't see clearly the time, but maybe it's just one month of confinement, so you can see it more clearly. She prepared the divorce agreement and sent it directly to Chen Tian.

When Chen Tian received the express delivery, he was completely confused. Even his mother-in-law regretted it. She originally hoped that her daughter-in-law would give him a son, but now it was all in vain.

Later, Lin Jing also took her daughter to live the life she wanted. Although it was incomplete, it was happy.

Although in the eyes of many women, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is indeed difficult to get along with, in the eyes of most men, they think that it is difficult to maintain the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is why there are so many conflicts today. . But in fact, if you think about it carefully, it is not that difficult to resolve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

As long as you play your own role in this family relationship, love your wife and honor your mother, these two things do not conflict, as long as you put them on the same platform, and there is no bias. Whoever handles this matter rationally will solve the problem.