Why do Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu always talk nonsense and do stupid things?

When I was a child, I always thought that what Baoyu and Daiyu said was "nonsense". Read it again now, only to find that love stories are often nonsense.

The nineteenth time, Baoyu woke up Daiyu who was taking a nap. Daiyu told him to play somewhere else, and Baoyu said, "Where am I going? I am tired of watching others. " Daiyu smiled "before": "Go and sit down honestly and let's talk." Baoyu said, "I'm crooked, too." Daiyu said, "You are crooked." Baoyu licked his face and said, "There is no pillow. We are on the same pillow. " Daiyu said, "Bullshit! Isn't it a pillow outside? Take a pillow. " Baoyu smirked and said, "I don't want that, and I don't know if it belongs to that bitch." Two people fell opposite. Daiyu covered her face with a handkerchief. Baoyu said something that one build did not build, but Daiyu ignored it. "。 Baoyu asked him how old he was when he went to Beijing, what places of interest he saw on the way, what remains and stories there were in Yangzhou, and the local customs and folk customs. Daiyu only didn't answer. "Here, what Baoyu said is basically nonsense, with only one purpose, not to let Daiyu sleep, for fear that Daiyu might get sick from food accumulation.

The twentieth time, Baoyu asked Daiyu, "Are you angry again?" Lin Daiyu said, "You care about me!" Baoyu felt sorry for her: "I naturally dare not care about you, but no one is watching you, bring disgrace to oneself." Lin Daiyu said, "I have ruined my health. What does my death have to do with you? " Baoyu said, "Why come? In the first month, the deceased was born. " Lin Daiyu said, "I am partial to death! I'm dying now! You're afraid of death. How about your long life? " Baoyu said with a smile, I'm still afraid of death after all this noise. Might as well be dead and clean. Daiyu said quickly, "Exactly. "。 If you make such a noise, you might as well die clean. Baoyu said, "I said I died clean. "。 Don't get me wrong, blame others. "This long list of nonsense in the eyes of others is actually two people testing each other and testing their own weight in each other's hearts.

Baoyu even treats nonsense as a joke.

Twenty-eight times, the two men had another argument. One day, when Baoyu saw Daiyu walking in front, he hurried to catch up and said, "I just want to say one word and let go from now on." Lin Daiyu turned her head and said, "Go ahead." Baoyu said with a smile, "Will you listen to a few words?"

Besides talking nonsense, Daiyu and Baoyu will do some stupid things that others find incredible.

In the 23rd chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions, Baoyu is reading The Story of the Meeting of Qin Fang Gate and Bridge. A gust of wind blew peach blossoms all over the floor, and Baoyu picked them up one by one and put them into the water. Daiyu came up and said, "It's not good in the water. You see, the water here is very clean, and it only goes out of first class. Some people's places are dirty and smelly, and the flowers still collapse. I have a Hua Zhong in that corner. Now I have swept him, put him in this silk bag and buried him with soil. After a long time, it will only become clean with the soil. " So they buried the flowers together.

Even now, whoever digs a hole and buries flowers in the park will make people feel that they have mental disorders, not to mention that era. However, it was in the process of doing this stupid thing that Baoyu and Daiyu became more loving.

The best emotional state, two people together, do not talk, do not feel embarrassed; As soon as she talks, she never stops talking, and she doesn't bother at all. No matter how boring she is, she is happy, and he listens with relish.

If love exists, all nonsense is love words; If there is no love, no matter how considerate and caring, it is just unbearable verbosity! In fact, love never needs any earth-shattering love words. Whether a person loves you or not lies not in whether he can say "I love you", but in whether he is willing to listen to your nonsense and do stupid things with you.