Boys come to answer, do girls who don't want bride price really don't cherish it?

As a boy, I think there is no necessary causal relationship between whether a woman wants a bride price and whether a girl will be cherished in the future.

Whether girls will be cherished in the future depends on many factors, such as the ability to manage feelings, the ability to control emotions and the ability to socialize. Therefore, it does not mean that you have all the above abilities without bride price.

We all know that emotional management is not an easy task. If you don't know how to manage, you will be on the road of marriage failure sooner or later.

I have a classmate who got married naked with her boyfriend three years later and asked him for nothing. However, she divorced less than a year after marriage, and her classmates cried about domestic violence and various grievances of her mother-in-law.

Soon after they got married, the house was rented out, and her mother-in-law had savings, but she didn't take them out to pay the down payment. After the child was born, the mother-in-law didn't look after the child and asked the young couple to give the pension money.

They just graduated and finally found jobs, one in sales and the other as a teacher in a private school. Their wages add up to less than 8000, and the rent alone is 2500. I can't go to work with my students and children, so I rely on her husband's salary of four or five thousand, and my parents-in-law have no support for them.

My classmate's husband asked my classmate to ask her parents for some money for alimony. My classmate is very angry. Her husband's parents don't give alimony, but also let my classmate's parents pay. Moreover, her parents are in the countryside, and she relies on her father to help others plow the fields to earn some money when they are busy at home. There is also a younger brother at home who is at school.

My classmate later figured it out that this kind of life could not go on at all, so he filed for divorce. When I got divorced, I couldn't even afford a ticket to my parents' house.

This is real life. My classmate didn't ask for a penny of the bride price, and the ending was like this.

I also have a college roommate who married her husband in a flash and got married within three months. When her husband married her, everything was ready, with a house and a car. He gave my roommate a bride price of 300,000 yuan, and wished her that it was her pre-marital property, so she wouldn't spend the money after marriage and let her take good care of it.

Shortly after their marriage, she gave birth to a big fat boy and hired Yue Yue as a nanny. Rest when it is time to rest, and exercise when it is time to exercise without any delay. I've been married for six years now and I'm still radiant. Her husband dotes on her and her son is lovely. They don't live with their in-laws, so they live a comfortable life.

We went to their house to play the other day, and her husband has been with us. You can tell at a glance that he is a warm man. This is a suitable marriage partner.

Therefore, there is no necessary causal relationship between whether a woman is happy after marriage and whether she can be cherished. Men and women with high EQ have basic judgment ability, knowing what ability they and the other party should have to manage a good marriage, while men and women with low EQ have a good woman and a good man standing beside them and don't know how to cherish them.

Sometimes, there are many external factors, such as family background, and human factors are interfering with their marriage life. In this case, the value of the bride price factor in marriage is even smaller.

Therefore, there is no necessary causal relationship between whether a bride price is required before marriage and whether a girl can be cherished.

Girls must think about this problem before they get married, and don't blindly compromise, blindly cater to each other and lose themselves.