Common manifestations in the life of resentful women

Introduction: What does a resentful woman look like? Literally, it is the image of a married woman with great resentment. So where do their resentments manifest themselves in their daily lives? Here I will take you to understand. . The description of the characteristics of a resentful wife in the Buddhist scriptures

"Buddha Speaks of the Yuye Nu Sutra": What kind of resentment is there for a housewife? She is unhappy when she sees her husband and is always filled with anger; she prays for wishes day and night and wants to be far away; even though they are a couple , the heart is always as good as it is; the head is messy, sleeping hard, without fear; not making a living, raising children; the body is lascivious, without shame; falling into sinful laws, destroying the family; the husband and the husband hate each other, and they want to kill each other: this is called resentment Housewife. ?

Comments: ?What is a resentful woman? She is unhappy when she sees her husband and always harbors resentment in her heart. She prays and makes vows day and night, just wanting to stay away from her husband as soon as possible. Although they are a couple in name, their hearts are Disapproval is like boarding; being unkempt and disheveled, having no inhibitions about sleeping all day long; never caring about the livelihood of the family, and unwilling to have children; being unscrupulous and dissolute, never knowing what shame is; being imprisoned for wrongdoing, being immoral and humiliating to relatives and neighbors ; She hates her husband extremely and wants to curse her and wish him to die quickly: those with the above characteristics are called resentful women. Common manifestations of resentful women in life

1. She is full of doubts about men. For example, once a man comes home late, she keeps asking questions. If the man answers once, she will still find excuses to ask again!

2. I feel less and less confident when I look in the mirror. When buying clothes, I like to choose clothes with a bit weird shapes.

3. If you call a man and he doesn’t answer immediately, he will keep calling.

4. I like to chat online for two hours every day, and I also like to chat with strange boys younger than myself.

5. Become more angry than before, and occasionally become hysterical without caring about the occasion.

6. I like to speak in forums, and I will give myself a name with "er", such as "Hua'er", "Ye'er", "Die'er", etc.

7. When I see a beautiful, sweet-looking girl with a great figure on the street, I will always feel inexplicable jealousy. In serious cases, I will even curse her in my heart.

8. I am becoming increasingly impatient with my children and easily lose my temper with them. The top ten criteria for resenting women on the Internet

1. Not willing to live with the parents-in-law occasionally.

Many men grew up in single families or were favored by their parents since childhood. When choosing marriage, they are very concerned about whether their future wives are willing to live with their parents-in-law. Such men have a strong sense of dependence on family affection. If a man asks this question before marriage, the woman must answer sincerely. Although in contemporary marriages, I do not recommend living with the parents-in-law after marriage, many practical problems will touch upon the necessity of living with the parents-in-law. Never ruin a marriage because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

For a woman who is unwilling to live with her parents-in-law occasionally, her husband will definitely be dissatisfied. Because not long ago, I received such a letter from a reader? I don’t want to live with my parents-in-law, but they like to come and go frequently. Now that I have given birth to a baby, they plan to come and help take care of the baby. It is estimated that they will live with me for a year or two or more. I'm going crazy, I regret getting married, I regret having children, I regret knowing my husband. ?The premise of this case is that her parents-in-law come to help her take care of the children. Not only does she not appreciate it, but she is troubled by it. So I would think, what's wrong with women nowadays? As the husband's parents, the parents-in-law should accept it even if they don't help take care of the children and stay at home temporarily for a year or two. Supporting parents is an obligation and a virtue in China. How many men would feel comfortable if they struggled with this kind of thing?

2. Try to change men's behavior.

Each person's existence as an individual has a variety of occupations due to differences in quality, opportunities, abilities, and interests. The existence of each occupation is a supply and demand requirement.

This supply and demand is a relationship between buyers and sellers. In this case, there must be losses when there is profit. When a loss-making business comes, women should complain less and encourage and support more, because no man will be in a happy mood after losing money. Yours Complaining will only add insult to injury and will have no effect.

A woman can give a man some reasonable sexual advice after he fails, but it is not mandatory advice. Don't deny men exploring new careers and live your life according to your ideas.

3. Frequently struggle with things that come out of nothing.

Every woman is sensitive to her husband’s text messages or phone calls. Since it is a sensitive zone, don’t touch it if you can’t bear it. However, many women don’t and insist on touching the minefield driven by curiosity. . When lewd jokes or ambiguous text messages appear on a man’s mobile phone, a woman will assume that she is the third party and make unreasonable troubles with the man before she understands the true situation. I admit that there must be something fishy about those who text frequently, but one or two ambiguous text messages occasionally cannot explain the actual problem at all. Some women understand what men say about text messages, but many women often struggle with it. Many things were originally made out of nothing. They were really women's reluctance, which annoyed men to the core and then acted as if they were true.

4. Talk to men on the phone more than three times a day.

Emergencies will happen on the earth, not to mention families? So when facing difficult family problems, women can discuss the matter itself with men. But some women are bored every day and frequently flirt with men on the phone or have ambiguous text messages, and many of the contents are relatively boring topics. It is true that a man invests a lot of romance in the emotional world, but emotions are not everything for a man. He also has to face work, communication, and getting along with his boss every day. In this process, if a woman is ambiguous with a man regardless of time and occasion, Men will regard this ambiguity as a burden. As a couple, we already spend a lot of time together at home every day. If there is nothing special to do at work, it is best not to bombard men with phone calls or text messages, because men don’t like it. As a resentful woman, when faced with phone calls or text messages, she must also let her men respond in a timely manner. Otherwise, she will lose her temper and keep complaining to her men.

5. Show off a man’s face in front of friends.

Data shows that men’s lifetime social activities are ten times that of women. This is inseparable from the role men play in society. As a resentful woman, she likes to cling to men. When faced with men’s social activities, resentful women Either you scold a man on the phone, you scold him through text messages, or you go directly to a social place to show off your strength to a man. Regardless of whether a man is really socializing or hanging out with his friends, a woman's impulsive behavior is nothing to be ashamed of. When this kind of behavior is carried out, the man loses face, but the woman loses her worth. The result will be that the man develops a rebellious mentality and is unwilling to go home again.

6. Run away from home once there is a quarrel.

My understanding of leaving home when there is a quarrel is: 1. Women do not have strong self-confidence to reason with men. 2. Women want to use this extreme behavior to get men to say good things about themselves. The consequences that often result are: 1. Men feel that their wives are unreasonable. 2. When the trivial things are known to both parents, it will make the man feel unhappy from now on. 3. If the Cold War cycle lasts too long, it will make a man feel lonely in his lower body and lead to physical infidelity, which is very likely to turn into emotional betrayal or marital breakdown.

A woman can practice running away from home up to twice in her life. If the number is too frequent, it will basically be difficult to build up enough enthusiasm in the minds of men.

7. Reveal old scores and ridicule men.

As a husband and wife or lovers, it is impossible not to have disputes. When arguing, it is best to discuss the matter and never bring up old scores, otherwise it will anger the man's bottom line. Maybe settling old scores can make an angry man silence himself, but the implications are not just as simple as making a man silence himself. Because women’s behavior of settling old scores is that they are brooding over many things in the past.

Men will feel that no matter how hard they try to change, they can't get a woman's understanding, so are the changes they make meaningless? Rather than being meaningless, I might as well just do what I love. In the end, it is not the man who suffers, but the woman who returns home and faces the cold back of the man.

8. There are too many questions waiting for men to answer every day.

I firmly believe that when two people in love are together, if a woman takes the initiative to ask a man, "Who do you love most?", the man will definitely say "Love you" without any hesitation, but such questions often fail. When it comes to his mouth, a man will answer like this when he is in a bad mood: Are you annoyed, but it’s not you I love?, so the woman immediately becomes furious, so why bother?

9. Yes Do not pay attention to household chores.

It is not a shortcoming but a shortcoming that a woman cannot do housework, unless you have enough capital to bring more money to the family. If a woman's income is not as high as that of a man's, or if her income is basically the same as that of a man's, it is better for her to be more relaxed about housework. Because there are a lot of chauvinistic men in China, as a woman, never believe that your husband is the best, let alone believe that your best husband can live without you doing housework, because under normal circumstances, doing housework is a woman’s mission . Of course, don't take over all the housework, as this will spoil the man.

10. Cuckold a man.

In addition to being full of words, resentful women are also full of emotions, because more than 70% of resentful women do not have high material requirements, but have very high spiritual requirements. Some of the romance that cannot be obtained from their husbands is It will be carried out with the help of other men's hands. Men outside marriage only use you as bedding material. In order to consume your fat, they will do everything they can to please you. During this cheating process, resentful women will think that their lover is better than their husband in every aspect. If this is the truth, try divorcing and see if your married lover will divorce you. Even if he divorces you and reorganizes your marriage, see if what he gives you is still the romance of the affair? No, no. As long as you continue to find the mistress, you can have some fun.