There are more and more older women and divorced women. Is "poisoned chicken soup" too influential?

Nowadays, more and more videos and articles call for women's independence, which is understandable, but those poisoned chicken soup that tells women that marriage has various disadvantages is not as good as living alone will inevitably produce more and more older women and divorced women.

In those small videos, many people told women to be their own masters, not to be dominated by family life, not to give up self-esteem for family and men, and not to treat anyone and anything with arrogance. These poisoned chicken soups put women's status at the commanding heights, making many people feel that they can find any kind of man they want. It also makes many people think that men should be humble and treat a woman with all kinds of love.

These poisonous chicken soups suddenly turn school-age women into older women and drag married women into divorced women. This reminds me of a joke I have seen before. A woman who graduated from college without a car or a house offered a blind date to find a high-educated and high-income object, which made many people laugh. First of all, the identities of the two are not equal, and we can't just ask one party to pay, and the other party accepts the goodwill of others without pressure. Poisonous chicken soup makes many women overestimate their own value and expect something that they can't meet. Poisonous chicken soup makes them feel good now. When talking about your own advantages, you must say that those who are gentle and diligent never think deeply about their own shortcomings.

Women's independence is not a bad thing, but it is more important to correct their attitude, fully recognize their identity, do what they should do at their age, and find their own shortcomings instead of blindly looking at their own advantages. Perhaps this will reduce the number of elderly women and divorced women.