If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is poor, a "world war" will easily break out. What should I do?

The poor relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law mainly lies in the triangular relationship: oneself and husband, oneself and mother-in-law, husband and mother-in-law.

I think to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, we should start from three aspects:

1 Handle the relationship between husbands. Because her mother-in-law is her husband's mother, first of all, as a daughter-in-law, she should respect her mother-in-law. With all due respect, many quarrels can be avoided. Talk to your husband about this problem alone. Talk about the behavior caused by different ideas. I hope my husband can understand. This avoids telling the husband and mother-in-law directly that it is not good. No one likes others to speak ill of their mother in front of them. So pay attention to the way and tone of your speech. After all, you want to communicate with him for the good of this family.

2 get along with your mother-in-law. At this time, avoid confrontation with your mother-in-law. Even if she nags, you should pretend not to hear. If you really don't listen, don't make personal attacks. This will go up a height. Many times, my mother-in-law is nagging herself. When you finish, it's all over.

3 Your attitude. In dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we should have our own clear attitude and views on children's education or other things. Children's education should discuss an education plan with their husbands and follow this. After all, it is most important for children to educate themselves. Mother-in-law sometimes just dotes too much, thinking that her daughter-in-law doesn't know much and lacks experience, so she grabs the belt.

As the hostess of a family, we should not be wronged blindly, but should think bravely and rationally about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and use wisdom to resolve it. Sometimes my mother-in-law has to be coaxed.