Today, I heard my uncle laughing at me behind my back, saying it was not good for me. He borrowed 300 yuan from me today, and I gave it to him readily. Sometimes,

It is normal for people to be criticized. After all, you can't make everyone like you, but it's a little contemptuous of your uncle to do so as a relative. Of course, you are right to choose not to make trouble, but not fighting back against this kind of person does not mean that it will make him worse. For example, if you run into him criticizing you this time, you can go over and say to him with a big smile,' Uncle seems to hear you talking about me. "Do you want anything from me?" Another example is when you hear a rumor, if you have complete evidence "authentication, material evidence, time, place" and so on. You can find him and remind him in a gentle way without hurting his face, so that he can understand that you already know that he speaks ill of you behind your back.