How should we spend our wedding night?

First of all, before marriage, both parties should learn some basic sexual knowledge and understand the structure and physiological characteristics of male and female organs, so as to avoid making some jokes about mistaking a woman's urethra for a vagina on their wedding night.

The groom should properly restrain his eagerness for success and avoid rudeness. Before touching the sexual organs, we should be gentle and considerate, try our best to caress the bride, relieve her tension and doubts, and thus arouse her sexual impulse. After the bride's feelings and sexual impulses reach a certain level, the vulva is wet before sexual intercourse. During sexual intercourse, the groom should control his impulses and move slowly and gently. If he fails once, he can try several times more.

The bride should overcome the tension and fear, cooperate with the groom happily, and relax the vaginal muscles, which is conducive to the smooth progress of sexual intercourse. If the hymen is broken and painful, the bride can bend her legs upward, hold them with her hands, and hold her breath downward, which can relieve the pain.

Some women have narrow anterior vagina, so they can apply some lubricant to make the penis easy to enter or the man will slowly expand the vagina with his fingers before sexual intercourse. Some young couples are very tired because of the wedding. At this time, they may not have sex for the first time. They can rest after expressing their love and postpone their first sex until the next night.

Many young men and women look forward to enjoying the sweetness of love on their wedding night. However, experts remind newlyweds not to expect too much from the sex life on their wedding night, and the reality may not be as beautiful as expected.

For most newlyweds, although they have gained some sexual knowledge more or less before marriage, they will inevitably be too nervous once they want to practice. Under the nervous and anxious mood, women may have sexual pain, and men may have impotence and premature ejaculation, which may lead to sexual dysfunction on the first night of marriage. If you encounter some serious accidents, such as male foreskin incarceration, the bride suddenly faints, vaginal laceration, mental irritability and so on. You won't be able to enjoy yourself.

Even if sexual intercourse is successful on the first night of marriage, it is mostly difficult to achieve the expected ideal. Because the coordination between husband and wife requires certain skills, they will not be mastered at once when they are newly married. Its perfection and maturity need both sides to explore gradually in sexual life.