When you love someone, you must take into account the other person’s feelings.

Love is selfish and exclusive. No one allows others to share feelings with themselves.

If you fall in love with someone, you must take into account his feelings. You can no longer be like when you were single, indifferent to everything, calling friends of the opposite sex, playing around, or even having ambiguities. Love jokes. If you persist, you will harm your significant other.

Even the most generous person cannot tolerate his lover being too close to others. This is a natural instinct. It's not a "small-mindedness" thing, nor is it a shameless thing.

Don’t think that some people remain calm, but in fact there is already an undercurrent surging in their hearts, and what you do has already been recorded. It will explode one day. It can even cause disaster.

01

Never joke about ambiguous things

My friend Xiaomori is a seemingly cheerful person. They often joke with each other, and we often make fun of them too. The couple teased. The couple once had dinner with friends at a restaurant. By chance, a colleague who met his wife Xiaohong also came to the restaurant.

His wife Xiaohong was extremely excited and pinched and pinched her male colleague, making him grin. After enough, she dragged her colleague in front of her husband: "Come on, come on, Sensen, this is My dear, let’s get to know each other.”

Komori remained calm and expressionless, and just snorted from his nostrils. This has never happened before.

Everyone present also thought that the couple liked to joke, and no one took it seriously. However, when the dinner was over and they returned home, Komori's temper got worse and he punched and kicked his wife. committed domestic violence.

From now on, Xiaohong will never dare to make such international jokes with her husband again! However, their relationship also developed rifts from then on, and they eventually broke up many years later.

In fact, their initial conflict was just a joke, but it is better not to make such a joke. Because no husband would tolerate his wife being so coquettish, being too ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex in front of him, and stimulating him with words.

02

If you are married, you should be cautious with friends of the opposite sex to avoid misunderstandings

There are often scenes like this in emotional movies. When male and female friends meet, they seem to have a tacit understanding, chatting intimately together, and even having intimate actions. At exactly this moment, the man’s wife appears. Maybe it’s an encounter, maybe she’s following her. Anyway, she rushes up and gives the girl a mouthful. , or a well-educated person would ridicule her husband, then run away, and the husband would chase after her, and then explain to his wife: "Actually, it's not what you think."

But there is a hint in the play. , they are really in tune with each other. Feelings for each other. Or there must be some stories before.

In real life, such "misunderstandings" also happen from time to time. But the vast majority of people are more conscious, and will consciously or unconsciously alienate friends of the opposite sex who were originally good friends. This is actually a kind of self-protection for themselves.

In the past thousands of years, the etiquette system was that men and women were taught and received without intimacy. People are now more open-minded, but there are differences between men and women. You really need to have a sense of scale in your interactions. You cannot be too intimate with people of the opposite sex other than your husband and wife. This is also taboo and restricted by people's moral ethics.

03

Compare your own heart to your own heart. Without jealousy, there is no love

A person who is jealous of some of your behaviors actually cares about you. If If he sees you being intimate with someone else and he is still indifferent, then he must have no feelings for you anymore.

Thinking about it the other way around, isn’t it actually the same thing? Who is willing to give up his or her heart and soul to others?

Some people are very dignified and will not express their grievances easily, but they can deceive others but cannot deceive themselves. Sometimes, they dare not be angry. To be honest, I can only hide behind my back and sulk. Over time, my body will be broken by anger.

I remember when I was a child, there was an uncle in the village who was often angry with his wife because of some of her behaviors. At that time, I often heard adults telling stories about this woman. She never cared about her husband’s feelings and often provoked some The unruly man comes home. This woman is very strong. The man dares to be angry but dare not speak out. Even though he is unhappy, he does not dare to say too much. But he fell ill as soon as he came back.

This uncle died in his forties. Everyone said that he was angry to death. Some people say that when he was young, he was in excellent health and had no problems at all. Later, because of his wife's problems, he became depressed and angry and became seriously ill, and finally died of treatment.

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If you love someone, you must take into account his or her feelings and not let your own temper run wild.

If you truly love someone, you must think about him or her. When I think about it, I can no longer indulge my own temper. Love is selfish and unique. People who are carefree and fast-paced will never get true love.

If a person does not take into account the feelings of his lover, he is hurting him. Love cannot be shared. If you don't know how to cherish it, you will hurt yourself in the end.