Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu clearly love each other, but why are they always at odds?

Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are characters in the chapter-length novel "A Dream of Red Mansions". Their love story is also very tortuous, and in the end it also came to a rather tragic ending. One died and the other was forced to marry. He married someone he didn't love and finally became a monk to spend the rest of his life. "A Dream of Red Mansions", also known as "The Story of the Stone", tells the story of the gradual decline of four aristocratic families, including Jia Shi, Wang Xue and others in the late Qing Dynasty. Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are the male and female protagonists of this novel. Although they are in love, they are constantly quarreling because they are the two people who care about each other the most and always leave their temper to those closest to them.

The former alliance between wood and stone

At the beginning of "Dream of Red Mansions", the first chapter tells about the previous lives of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu. It was Shenying's waiter. Shenying's waiter used nectar to water Jiangzhu Xiancao every day. This kindness was remembered by Jiangzhu Xiancao, so when Shenying's waiter became Jia Baoyu, Jiangzhu Xiancao also His daily watering took on spiritual energy, and he became a human being. Incarnated as Lin Daiyu, she wanted to turn the nectar he watered into tears and return it to him. Such a story setting is destined to end in tragedy between the two people.

Single-heartedly

Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu treat each other wholeheartedly. In fact, their relationship is like that of young lovers nowadays. I always feel that you should understand even if I don’t tell you. , but the other party often does not understand what you mean, and will cause many troubles and quarrels for no reason. Lin Daiyu was originally a sentimental woman. She relied on others, so she was very careful about everything. Her sentimental character also brought many obstacles to the love between her and Jia Baoyu. These misunderstandings became entangled one by one, and eventually led to It became a tragedy.

Too close

In fact, one of the reasons for the constant quarrels between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu is that the two people are too close. Lin Daiyu is a lady, so she is very polite to her elders and people she is not familiar with. But as soon as she gets to Jia Baoyu, she becomes mean and constantly sarcastic and sarcastic about Baoyu. In fact, this is all It's because two people are too close that they leave their worst temper to the person closest to them. Although the two people had constant quarrels, it was harmless. Lin Daiyu was not liked by her elders because of her personality, and eventually died of vomiting blood on the day Baoyu got married.