I can tolerate how others laugh at me and satirize me outside, but the closest person to you and me is my father. From childhood to scolding me and educating me, it is ridicule.

Hello, first of all, I'm glad to give you some help. After reading your question a little, I think it's a good question. Why? Because of similar problems, many people in the society have had similar experiences, including myself, and I have been confused about the future. It seems that this is a headache, of course, for you at present. But when you get out of this confusion and find your own direction again, you will become more clear about your life direction, which is for sure. So I say this is a good question, and you are not the only one who is so confused when encountering such a problem, especially many smart, capable and ambitious people have encountered such an experience. My friend, in my opinion, your age is still very young, and 95 years is the age to fight for your own ideals, in a social saying &; Uot is in the flower season &; Uot I think, although you have encountered such misfortunes as confusion and loss in your life, it is a great blessing to have such an opportunity to reflect when you are so young. You know, many people may not have a big reaction until middle age or even old age. This is absolutely correct. I have seen such people, many of them. Please forgive me for not giving you candy. I want to throw cold water on you, so I hope you will forgive me for saying this before I start. I don't need your score. I answered this question out of a willingness to help others. Friend, have you ever deeply reflected on where you are today? Have you ever gone out to work before? Did you go out after careful consideration and overall planning? Why didn't you make any money working outside? Why do your three sisters get along better than you? Why don't they ask their parents for money? Why don't you want to go to primary school until the fifth grade? Why are you expelled from different schools again and again? Why don't the three sisters go out to work with you? Why are you in several electronics factories and the chances of changing factories are so high? Why are you tired? Why do you get this result when others are reading books at this age and earn more than 10 thousand yuan a month? Why? Please tell me why. If you can't answer my question, it really means that you have to reflect. You don't know why you are like this. Really a failure. If you know, then I want to tell you this. A person who truly knows his mistakes and reflects on them will definitely change, so he has not changed, but his face is clear and his heart is confused. Then which one are you? Needless to say, you have given the answer in your heart. Don't get me wrong, I'm not mocking you. If so, why should I tell you this? Combine what I said in the full text, and you can understand what I mean. Just a friend, can you at least start today? Have serious, profound and repeated reflection and thinking, okay? I advise you not to look back too much and indulge in the shadow of failure, which will only increase negative thoughts. What's in it for you? I don't think you can get this far because you have a low degree. Why didn't you graduate from primary school? Li Ka-shing didn't graduate from junior high school. What about now? Ma Yun is only a junior college student. How is he now? Bill Gates dropped out of college before he graduated. How do you think people get along now? There are many uneducated farmers. They get along well, do some business and have a good life. I'm sorry I didn't graduate. That's no excuse. Low education? Sorry, that's no excuse. I can find a few people with low academic qualifications, all of whom are lower than you, but now they are all doing well and better than you. What does this mean? Are you useless? Are you low in ability? Aren't you clever? No! It is because when people are confused, they choose to face it positively instead of passively. When others are afraid of being tired and suffering, they choose to adjust themselves and work hard. When others are arrogant and change jobs frequently, people are still trying. When people are treated unfairly, they choose to be patient. They have a good attitude and good character, and know that people can't bow their heads under the eaves. So a few years later, some people achieved nothing, while others achieved something. So in the final analysis, it is not a question of academic qualifications, but mainly a question of personality and mentality. Steve Jobs, the father of American Apple, once said: It is great that uot has a beginner's mentality. & UOT, I'm telling you, I said mentality is very important. Without a good attitude, you may not be able to do a simple job well and satisfy your boss. Is the electronics factory tired? Of course, but there are hundreds of people in an electronics factory. Are you the only one who feels tired? No, everyone feels tired, but have they left? Even if some people leave, why do you think others leave? Why do others leave, but they choose to stay and remain indifferent? This is a big problem, seemingly simple but also learned. Do they covet comfort? Maybe, but on the one hand, it proves that they are stable At least in this respect, such people can work in any factory for a long time and do it well, right? You can deny my opinion, but is it true? I think you should understand? All right, that's enough cold water. Finally, I choose to hand you a cup of tea. Life is like a cup of tea. Although tea is not as delicious as a drink, it is a real life. I have some suggestions for you. First, adjust the mentality, straighten the mentality, sum up the lessons of failure, and treat yourself correctly and comprehensively, that is to say, why you are caught in such a reason, find out that reason, and avoid repeating the same mistakes in the future. Second: Don't change factories blindly. I think this is very unwise. If you go in and out of a factory, you are declared bankrupt in the eyes of the boss. If you want to go back in the future, will you feel comfortable even if others want to see you? Girls are more inclined to electronics factories now, because the salary is ok and they are definitely tired, but which one is not? You tell me? Beggars are very busy begging now The key is to have a hard-working mind, not a hard-working mind I'm sorry, in fact, you have been eliminated by society and will be finished in the future. Mentality is very important. It doesn't matter if you don't have a degree. As long as you work hard, your future life will not be very bad. That's for sure. Third: make a dream plan according to your hobbies, that is, a plan to pave the way for the future. If you want to help others all your life, that's another matter. Find any electronics factory or clothing store. At least if you are hungry and tired, the clothing store will take care of you, but the salary is not as good as that of the factory, and there will be a commission. The only advantage is to exercise eloquence. I think a girl is only 20 years old now, and she can work hard for at least five years. If she gets married at the age of 25, she will definitely take care of her family. It is impossible to gamble so much. Life is just a gamble. So at least you have five years to gamble, and you want your family, relatives and friends to pay attention to you. It is simple to change your opinion, that is, to make some achievements, as Chairman Mao also said &; Uot has three mistakes and seven grades. & UOT If you show your grades, your mistakes will be covered up. Who will come to see your mistakes? Right? Can you listen? Well, I won't say much about this. Let me give you some advice. Now the development prospect of e-commerce is very good, and it is estimated that it will be good in the next ten or even twenty years, at least I think so. When you have capital, you might as well learn to open a Taobao shop and brush your reputation from the virtual. When you have capital and more information in this field, you'd better have a belt. It will be good for you to engage in Taobao full time then. Although Taobao is a deep pool, as long as you do it seriously, carefully and patiently, you don't have to be so tired in the factory, and you still earn more than the factory. Of course, this is another story. I suggest you stop asking for money from your family, not once in the future. Now that you are an adult, you should earn your own living, do more housework at home and work hard outside. Haha, I suggest you go to the electronics factory, but don't go back to the previous one, which will have a bad influence. Find a new sport, at least until you get used to it. You are not afraid of being tired and can bear hardships. It was good to think about it at that time, but it was best not to jump ship immediately. This electronics factory should do at least half a year, and half a year should be exercise. I'll go first. Before jumping ship, the premise is that you have found a job, and the salary and benefits of that job are higher than your original job. In short, in all respects, if the salary is not high, at least the prospect is better. Know what I mean. Don't always change jobs. The first will have a bad influence, and the second will suffer. Besides, I advise you to put off dating at such a young age and put your career first. I think the factory is a mess and there are too many girls. What women do now is that men are not bad and women don't love them, which is too much. As a result, it is they who suffer. If love does not develop into marriage, it is just like playing. Of course, it's also good to talk about habits with a man with good personality. I'm sorry, it seems a little too much, but for your own good. It is not recommended to always have a job, but it is also not recommended to always change jobs. It is ok to change jobs, but it will take a long time. Don't say that you will leave after working for a month or two or three months. Then don't do it well, the loss is too great. First, it will affect you, second, energy, and third, you will lose yourself! Factories can exercise a hard-working mind and adaptability. Clothing stores can exercise communication skills. It is the same. As for the barber shop, you can get communication skills and skills, and you can earn two or three thousand yuan if you get along well. But I think it's better to forget about women unless you're interested. You can exercise your courage and adaptability. Can adapt to this messy place like internet cafes. Needless to say, you know. Service industries, such as waiters, can exercise their eloquence and endure hardships in bars, cafes, hotels, restaurants or small restaurants. Well, I won't say anything else. Again, think before you quit, and work hard after you quit. If the factory is well run, you can be a supervisor. If the hotel is well run, you can be the head waiter. If you have an ideal, you should remember that everything you are doing now is for this ultimate ideal. Starting a business requires several things: first, sufficient funds; Second, you are well-connected and not friends, so don't make friends easily. Third: supply, and fourth: perseverance and patience. Just say these points, if you have them, you can do well without starting a business. Anyway, don't worry about eating and drinking, just say so much, it's up to you. If you feel uncomfortable, you want to scold me. Welcome to visit! If it makes sense after listening, thank you very much. If you are speechless after listening, it means that you really need to reflect. Dear, I said a lot seriously, and typing so many words is really tiring. I don't want you to score. I only want one thing: listen to me and wish you good luck.