Chen Sicheng appeared for the first time after officially announcing his divorce. Why did his marriage to Tong Liya not come to an end?

The media announced that Chen Sicheng appeared for the first time three days after his divorce. He looked slovenly and looked nothing like a popular director. He was wearing a mask and sunhat, and there was no staff accompanying him. He was rushing to eat at a noodle shop. In front of me, whether in the crowd or sitting there, I am no different from a passerby.

After dinner, he went to the high-speed rail station with his bag on his back. His assistant waited at the high-speed rail station with the tickets. Without the company of his wife and children, he should have felt a little sad! It’s no longer the same as before under the camera, now and then!

The marriage between Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya did not come to an end. There was only one reason, and that was that the captive sheep met the wild wolf.

In an interview together, Tong Liya said bluntly:

"Every time after a quarrel, I am the one who takes the initiative to save you."

Based on this alone, It is enough to conclude that Chen Sicheng has used routines to deal with feelings, while Tong Liya is like a primary school student when it comes to feelings. She will give it all to you when she sees you right. But what about Chen Sicheng? Not only is it not all given to you, it must also be given to others, and not just one other person.

First, Beijing Love Story is a prophecy

Chen Sicheng and Tong Liya met in the movie "Beijing Love Story". Since then, the two fell in love immediately, and then entered into marriage. The road was too smooth, and the young Chen Sicheng approached the princess like a prodigal son. The princess had never seen people living like this, so she fell into it physically and mentally.

But the good times did not last long and soon the media revealed that Chen Sicheng had cheated on many women. At that time, netizens stood up and said:

"Look, I have known for a long time that Chen Sicheng’s character cannot be changed.”

And Tong Liya, like a sister and a mother, forgave this person who thought she deserved to be forgiven, a person as pure as paper. , how could it be possible to see through the other person’s core despicable nature at a glance.

The hidden danger is laid here. Cheating cannot be forgiven. Easily forgiving cannot make the other party remember it. What she gets is the habitual contempt of the other party. Tong Liya should still be living in a fairy tale world in her heart, thinking that everything is peaceful. It will definitely move the heavens and the earth sincerely.

Second, the psychological personality is too strong

Why is it said that the psychological personality is too strong? Just like when we make friends, if he thinks you are what kind of person you are, when you want to change a little bit in front of him, the other person will think you have changed and think you are targeting me< /p>

And Tong Liya is like this, her personality is too strong. If she forgives for the first time, then the second cheating will be natural, and then forgiveness will seem cheap, and they will be in love with each other in their hearts. They created each other's personalities.

In Tong Liya’s heart, Chen Sicheng is a person who cannot be changed, and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

In Chen Sicheng's heart, Tong Liya should forgive him for all his mistakes.

Why? Because this is the role of psychological personality, just like you understand a friend of yours. If your friend does not act according to your expectations, you will not doubt yourself, but you will feel that there is something wrong with the other person.

And it is because of this psychological personality that the two of them are imprisoned in each other's world without any change. In fact, they should break up the first time they cheat, even if they use breakup as a threat to make them value themselves. That's fine, but Tong Liya didn't. It seemed that in the end it was Tong Liya who comforted Chen Sicheng.

Third, there is no way for cooked tofu to become raw again

And in the later relationship, the two people get together less and separate more, or don't get together at all, then divorce is Inevitably, the problem arose. Tong Liya became sensible and fell from the fairy tale world into the current world. When she woke up, she was no longer under Chen Sicheng's control.

Maybe cheating Chen could use work pressure or various miscellaneous reasons to look pitiful to attract Tong Liya's attention, but that's not possible now, your tricks are seen through.

That will inevitably lead to divorce.

The situation has reached the point of divorce, and there is no room for recovery, just like cooked tofu cannot become raw again.

And now we see Chen Sicheng appearing for the first time after his divorce. In fact, this is the beginning of his awakening. This is the case for men. When a woman treats him well, he will be in a good mood. As soon as I'm good, I think about hooking up with others.

And when a woman treats herself badly, she leaves him, her mood hits rock bottom, and she loses everything.

The movie line was shown:

"If you don't cherish a relationship when it is in front of you, I won't regret it until I lose her!"

< p> This line has since become a classic. The reason is that men really have this virtue. If you help me take care of the family, I will be in the mood to go outside with colorful flags flying. But when I lose you, my mood will fall to the bottom. What are you thinking? None.

In the end, I feel that both of them are pitiful people. As things turn, all the grievances Tong Liya suffered were returned to Chen Sicheng in a lonely way.