Parents and son

First of all, I have to say that this behavior of your parents is very common.

My parents are even worse than your parents~ But in my eyes, they repeatedly find trouble and say contradictory things because they love you and care about you. They show that they care about you to the extent that they "can't stand you" and always want to find trouble to stimulate you, because they need the presence of a parent.

On the other hand, there is a generation gap between parents and children, and it is difficult to communicate and talk together. Generally, it doesn’t matter if children don’t talk to their parents, but young people don’t have much of a social circle if they have a young person’s life. The concept of family, but when parents get older, they only care about their children and this family. What should you do if they love you and want to talk to you but have nothing to say? So I subconsciously found trouble. My mother once yelled at me loudly when I was listening to MP3 with my headphones plugged in, saying that I shouldn't listen. When I asked her why, she said it was disturbing her. After being depressed and thinking about it carefully, it is actually because they need you to feel close to you, and parents need to maintain their dignity as elders, so the phenomenon of "finding faults" appeared. I used to be as irritable as you and now I will I'm snickering behind my back, but at most I can't laugh or cry~~ If I analyze it like this, don't you think your parents are actually very cute? In fact, they are just cheating on you like children in an adult way~~

Because loving you requires you to have the feeling of father and son and mother and son, and this sense of existence and closeness~~ If you can understand it this way, I believe it You should no longer worry about your parents looking for trouble when they have nothing to do~~~You can try not to care about the unpleasant words they say to you or the unreasonable troubles they make with you~ Try to talk to them in a friendly manner and talk to them more when there is nothing wrong. Your own thoughts and future plans. For example, how do you want to make money? First lay a good foundation. When you are older, you can then consider finding a wife~ Then you need to find a good-tempered and filial daughter-in-law who can be good for the whole family, etc. You can definitely find some topics about your life to chat with your parents~~~There must be communication every day~Parents are old people. It is difficult to change their character and temper. Young people should learn to guide them~~If you do what I say Talk to them more and communicate more~~~ On the one hand, you can satisfy their dignity as parents - your son is discussing future life plans with his parents; on the other hand, you can satisfy the parents' desire to be close to their children; on the other hand, you have fulfilled your filial piety~ ~~On the one hand, your parents will definitely not find trouble with you so often.~~Everyone is happy~~

Parents spend their whole life for their children. After reading your description, it is not difficult to see that your parents are very caring. People who are budget conscious also want you to live a rich life. This mentality is very normal~~

Of course money is very important. Parents always hope that their children can make a difference and be able to live a successful life. High-quality life~ If you have a son, you will definitely hope that he can make a lot of money, right? Haha~

So don’t resent your parents’ ideas. On the other hand, you still need to communicate more with your parents and emphasize to them. Things other than money, such as pursuits in other aspects besides material things, as long as what you say makes sense~~ your parents will always accept it~~ being angry is not advisable~~ you will not be happy if you contradict your parents~~ the more parents let them Happy children will be happier in the future ~ Haha, just believe what I say for now ~~ It is normal to be angry when being unreasonably picked on, but if you see what your parents are thinking through incorrect analysis, you will only become more and more angry yourself. It’s not worth it~~~

I hope what I said can be useful to you. Finally, I wish you can handle these problems well~ I wish you a happy family and a happy family~~