What are the disadvantages of having a second child with the mother's surname?

Because the attitude of people who are open to the two-child policy is changing bit by bit, I felt great pressure to have two children from the beginning, and the "real trend" later was the process of attitude change. Recently, as long as there are kindergartens or primary schools around, you can see many children who are second children. Because parents bring a second child or brothers and sisters to pick up their children alone. Judging from this phenomenon, the two-child family is actually very good. Because, at least children don't have to do this even if they have companions, they can do it by themselves. Because in the end, reliable relatives helped take the child away. Therefore, the two-child family once became the best representative of the family combination. The one-child family is no longer popular, and the two-child family is very good, but now many young people have become the parents of two children. The appearance of the second child "following the mother's surname" is fair on the surface and has many disadvantages. Parents should not ruin their children because of showing love.

After the child was born, she still took her husband's surname, so she was insulted by netizens as a pseudo-independent woman. But is it really that good to follow your mother's surname? In fact, if you think calmly, it is fair on the surface, but there are still many disadvantages. Parents should not ruin their children because of showing love. What are the disadvantages of taking your mother's surname? 1. Children may feel inferior and take their mother's surname, which is considered as a sign of kindness of their parents. Because, following the father's surname is something that has been valued since ancient times, and these things cannot be ignored according to gender. Finally, we must enter the family tree. If you can take the mother's surname, the relationship between husband and wife will be very good, so now Xiu En Ai lets the children take the mother's surname. However, this kind of mother's surname is often known only to oneself. Nowadays, many people can't understand the traditional ideas, especially after the children go to school, the students find that you have followed your mother's surname.

Many students joke. You can think that you are a wild child without a father, even laughing at you and bullying you, but the child doesn't know what happened. I just think I said it to someone else. So you can feel that you are really not confident. Therefore, only parents who take their mother's surname are in a good mood, which actually hurts their children a lot. The most terrible thing about children being treated differently is contrast. In fact, when you decide to let your child's second child take his mother's surname, as a mother, you will especially like this child with his own surname. It may be biased, but in the eyes of the older generation, they may be treated more discriminately. Because they are more feudal, they think that children who are not their surnames are not their own. Therefore, both children are born to the same biological mother, but they are easily discriminated against. Children are very sensitive. If you like yourself more, you will feel it.

So if you do this, the loved child likes to bully the unloved child, and the unloved child will feel inferior and unworthy of being loved. Therefore, following the mother's surname, we think there is no problem. Actually, children are discriminated against. Obviously all the same, but the family doesn't like themselves. This is still very psychological for children. Another problem is the disharmony between brothers and sisters. Now the second child should lend a helping hand between children. In other words, once parents are old, two people can help each other and there are relatives in the world. However, if the second child takes the mother's surname, he will have a dispute because he distinguished the relationship between the two children from childhood, and he will feel that he is not a brother or sister when he grows up. Because if the surnames are different, two people will think they are half-brothers.