Why is the affection between "post-90s" and "post-00s" getting weaker and weaker?

I am a 96-year-old man, and I would like to express my views on this issue.

When I was a child, my mother would take me with her every time she visited relatives, and I was happy to follow her. But it's different now. My relatives don't move much, and I'm too lazy to go to my relatives' house. I would rather stay at home and play games in a daze than visit.

I think this phenomenon is mainly caused by the following reasons:

0 1, relatives' "be caring and attentive"

When I was at school, my relatives at home liked to ask me how my grades were. I worked, and they asked me how my work was; Married, they are still worried and ask me when I want children. In short, the "care" of relatives is everywhere.

I was deeply impressed when my cousin was "crying" by one of my aunts at her uncle's house the year before last. My cousin is 89 and got married last year. She hadn't been in love before the Spring Festival the year before last. As a result, her relatives gave me a piece of advice, saying that she "should get married", "can't set her sights too high", "girls over 30 are hard to find" and so on.

They are all relatives, but they can't turn against each other. Finally, after being said a few words by her parents, she collapsed and cried. Alas, the scene was really speechless at that time.

02. Small families are becoming more and more independent.

The environment after 90 s and 00 s makes their family relationship more and more cold. We used to live with relatives and help each other whenever we met anything, but now our contact with our families is gradually decreasing.

Usually, everyone is very busy, and we only get together for dinner and chat during the Chinese New Year. The content of the chat is nothing more than those platitudes, and neither side is very interested. But in order not to be embarrassed, we have to keep talking.

Of course, this is not limited to the post-90 s and post-00 s with relatives, even if you spend less time with your parents. Children have to study all day, parents have to think about "high money" all day, and there is really little time to do something interesting together.

03. Now the network is developed, which makes the post-90s and post-00s unwilling to communicate with others.

In the past, our entertainment activities were relatively few, so it was very happy to visit our house and get together. But it's changed now. Some young people are really addicted to the internet. Some people watch videos for hours, while others can play games all day without getting tired.

It is obvious that the genetic relationship between post-90 s and post-00 s is weak, but some friends don't care. They think this is the "general trend". Of course, some friends think that relatives should strengthen their walking. In a word, different people have different views, and the lifestyle that suits them is the best.