What are the performances of people who look down on you?

A person's biggest mistake is to overestimate his position in others' hearts.

You want to get help from others, but it is your wishful thinking. Most people will not help you, but will hinder your development in every way. There are quite a few people who "can't see how you are".

In interpersonal communication, we all hope to get along well with others and start a business together with Qi Xin. However, your idea is too naive. If you are excellent, others will curry favor with you. If you are poor, others will avoid you; If you muddle along, people will laugh at you. The attitude of others towards you is actually determined by your own conditions.

Some people smile at you on the surface, but actually look down on you at all, and even say some ugly things behind your back, trying to drag you into the water secretly.

People who really look down on you will have these four manifestations. I hope you can see clearly, and don't be deceived and think that you have met a good person.

1

When we are together, he either flatters you or perfunctory you.

When interacting with people, you often meet people who are very enthusiastic. He can always praise you, turn your shortcomings into strengths, and make up some messy achievements and impose them on you. His words make you feel high and think you are really something. In fact, his words are obviously hypocritical, and no one will believe them when they are told.

some people don't care about your feelings and don't want to listen to you when they are in contact with you. He always ignores what you say to him. He often says things like "uh-huh, ah, good, oh", and when he speaks, he doesn't look at you directly. Even when you talk, he slowly leaves and leaves you alone.

People who look down on you behave in a special way when interacting with you. Flattering your words is actually intended to make you happy, and they are also teasing you. When he perfunctory you, he is very unfriendly. It doesn't matter whether you are in front of his eyes or not.

People who respect you will listen to you carefully and answer your questions seriously. When he chats with you, his attitude is sincere, and he will not exaggerate your achievements or underestimate your potential. 2

Behind your back, he always gossips and laughs at you.

some people just "do one thing to your face and one thing behind your back". In front of you, he pretends to be friendly, but behind your back, he makes irresponsible remarks and regards your shortcomings and past events as his talk. He will even slander you, just to see you in a rage.

When I was at work yesterday, my colleague Lao Wu said to me, "You know, Lao Liu thinks you are a night owl."

I said, "What's the matter? Am I working overtime and staying up late every day? "

Lao Wu said, "That's not what I mean. The' night owl' that Lao Liu said means that you don't sleep at night, and you just send messages in your circle of friends and have dinner with your boss."

it suddenly dawned on me that what Lao Liu said out of thin air was just to slander me, and he simply looked down on me.

The person who looks down on you won't say anything in front of you, or even have any language communication with each other, but he will try to find your shortcomings and catch your handle. If he doesn't catch you, he will gossip and damage your image. If you are angered by his words, you just fall into his trick.

3

When there is a dispute of interests, he always goes head-to-head with you and never budges.

A person who looks down on you will never "yield to your advantage". He can't wait to take all your benefits to himself. He doesn't want you to get any benefits. For example, you are the owner of a supermarket and the business in the store is very good. He hopes that your business will get worse and worse. When he sees a customer coming to your store, he will stop others and say some ugly words to drive the customer away.

People who look down on you may be jealous of you. When you are getting better and better, they will get in the way and try to drag you into the water.

For example, if you are a teacher in a school, and you get the chance to choose a professional title through your own efforts, he will find all kinds of faults and collect so-called evidence and send it to the principal.

I hope you can pass the better person and admire you from the bottom of your heart. In case of interest dispute, he will yield to you and show great generosity. If others find fault everywhere, you should be on your guard against him, and keep your distance from him to avoid his sharp edge.

as the saying goes, "the east gate is closed while the west gate is open." Don't argue with people who look down on you. It doesn't matter if you take the initiative to give way and win for each other. Your generosity will make him feel ashamed, and also make his life wider and wider. 4

When you were in trouble, you never helped you, and you even threw yourself when you were in trouble.

when you are poor, your relatives and friends look down on you. However, you have to understand that relatives and friends look down on you, just don't help, don't do immoral things in front of you, and don't hit you hard and suppress you.

Only those who look down on you will suppress you. If your life is down and out, he hopes you will never turn over. He believes that when you are down and out, it is the most vulnerable time. As long as he hits you a little, you will never have a bright future.

As the saying goes, "A poor man is never poor." The more you are down and out, the more you should summon up courage and start from scratch, so that those who look down on you will look at you with new eyes. When he suppresses you, you can't stand up to him, but "bear the burden of humiliation". Just like Sun Bin in ancient times, when he was imprisoned by Pang Juan, he pretended to be crazy and looked for opportunities to rise. You should never do anything like "throw an egg at a stone", but try your best to preserve your strength.

"feng shui turns", be a man, you should look up to yourself when others look down on you, and don't be pessimistic. When you are a little better than others, others will envy you and look down on you; When you are much better than others, others can only look up to you.

in a word, you should live up to your expectations, even if no one thinks highly of you, you will be happy. Life, there is no need to live in other people's eyes, to live high's vigor.