Between relatives, they might become enemies. No matter how close the relationship is, why don’t you help?

The first is to lend money to relatives, the second is to not interfere with relatives' housework, and the third is to cooperate in business between relatives. As the saying goes, "brothers settle accounts," let alone relatives. Try not to talk to relatives about anything involving money.

As the saying goes: Talking about money hurts feelings. In our current materialistic society, most transactions between people are money. However, in life, we must remember one thing: do not lend money to relatives, no matter how difficult the other party is. We know that relatives may not care about these details because they are relatives, but when you lend money to your relatives, when you are short of money, you are embarrassed to ask the other party, although it is natural to pay back debts. , but collecting debts from relatives will make them think you are stingy, which will not only affect the relationship between relatives, but will also be criticized by others.

Secondly, try not to do business with relatives. Doing business with relatives is similar in nature to lending money to relatives. All are related to money issues. The difference is that cooperative business will involve the issue of profit distribution. If you are not careful, it will not only affect the relationship between relatives, but in serious cases, you may even become enemies, and eventually lead to a lawsuit. We have seen similar cases in the news. Most of the results were a huge commotion. In the end, the business was not done and the relationship broke up.

Another thing is not to get involved in relatives' housework. As the saying goes: "Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite." Every household has its own housework, and quarrels between relatives are their own business. As the saying goes: "A couple quarrels at the head of the bed and ends at the end of the bed." We got involved, and in the end the people reconciled themselves, but what we tried to break up was a different person inside and out. Because trying to break up a fight will inevitably lead to one party being biased. “It is difficult for an upright official to resolve family affairs,” let alone other people’s affairs.

Therefore, it is best not to help with the above three things about relatives. If you are not careful, you will offend the other party, and in serious cases, you will end up turning against each other.