How to make a good speech in public

on July 4th, 211, five years passed quickly, but I still can't forget that day. It was the ninth day that I went to the Chinese media to study broadcast hosting. In class, the teacher asked every student to stand up and recite in turn. The content was "The Old Man and the Sea".

When it was my turn, I couldn't open my mouth. My classmates looked at me with surprised eyes. I became more embarrassed and unable to open my mouth. My heart was full of frustration. I thought, Is this the host who is about to take office and eat by mouth? How blind is the leader to have a crush on me? !

Undergraduate and postgraduate majors are totally unrelated to broadcasting host. In order to enter the work role as soon as possible, I choose to study at my own expense. The class are all students majoring in broadcasting and hosting in universities all over the country. They all take advantage of the summer vacation to get a gold medal, and their skills are there. Recitation is their compulsory course, but for me, it is really too difficult. The difficulty is not that Mandarin is not good, nor is it that the sound conditions are poor. I thought to myself: so many professionals, who recite so well, will definitely make me look very frustrated. Besides, the immersion of science atmosphere for so many years has always made my expression tend to be calm and objective, so it is too embarrassing to recite with passion.

The teacher saw my embarrassment. He said to me and the whole class, "The more you want face in this line of work, the more you will lose face. The more shameless you are, the more you will grow face." I understand, my crux is mentality!

get to the point: the same is true of speaking in public! All people who are not good at speaking in public often have the biggest problem in their hearts!

if you are not good at speaking in public, you are often afraid to speak in public at first. Poor refers to the technical weakness, and dare not is the psychological weakness!

My experience tells me that I can't face the fact that I don't have a professional background and I can't do it well at the beginning. I'm too proud to be afraid of classmates' jokes, so I'm afraid from the bottom of my heart!

Many friends are clear-minded and thoughtful. Once they speak in public, they often blush, their hearts beat faster, and even they feel chest tightness and shortness of breath, and their voices become vague, which greatly affects the speech effect.

The reason for the above situation is often that people worry too much about the effect after speaking, and their ideological burden is too heavy: "Will people laugh at me if I don't speak well?" Will it appear that I am not good enough if I don't speak well? ...... "

Many people are afraid of losing face. When they are afraid, they either simply run away and refuse all opportunities to speak in public, or they go into battle with trepidation, so the more afraid they are, the more afraid they are of making mistakes.

If you want to talk about Kan Kan in front of everyone, the first step is to let go of your ideological burden. Don't ask yourself to do it well at the beginning. Tell yourself that it is normal to do it badly with little experience and exercise. Be brave to accept the fact that you can't do it well at the beginning, and then set goals step by step and make progress step by step. For example, you won this time if you didn't escape and bravely take up the task of speaking in public. Next time, you won if you made it clear in public. The next time, you won if you made your meaning clear and in place. The next time, you won not only because it is clear and accurate, but also because it is very infectious ... If you go on like this, you will take a small step at a time, not afraid of slowness. As long as you go up step by step, you will speak.

Many friends, when they didn't do a good job in a certain speech, always felt particularly humiliated, and the more they thought about it, the more sad they became, which became a wound in their hearts. In fact, people are self-centered, and no one really put your little things at ease. You didn't do a good job this time, and everyone forgot it after laughing! Therefore, there is really no need to cling to my own "shameful" thing, and I really can't get through it. I went online to search for a collection of mistakes made by CCTV anchors. People's famous mouths are hard to avoid making mistakes, and I am afraid of what O(∩_∩)O hahaha ~

"Wow, he is great. He speaks in public and comes with his mouth open, without taking it. ！” Illusion, absolute illusion! Those who come with their mouths open and say that they are very good and slippery are almost always prepared. Even if I really didn't prepare this time, it was only after a lot of repeated preparation that I developed my skill, and then I gave you an illusion that I seemed unprepared. Anyway, preparation is always the most necessary!

1. How to prepare a speech in public with a manuscript

Some special occasions, such as a speech at a meeting.

If you have a written speech, you need to write all the contents well, read it repeatedly by yourself, smooth out all the parts that are not smooth and awkward according to your own language habits, look up all the pronunciation that is not allowed in the dictionary, and then find a place that doesn't disturb others. Read it loudly and repeatedly, and practice makes perfect. Only in formal occasions will you not get stuck or stutter, and finish the whole article fluently and smoothly.

Note: Speaking in public is not reading the text. Even if you have a manuscript, don't read it from the book. You should grasp the rhythm, pay more attention to the feedback from the people on the spot, and make some eye contact appropriately!

2. How to prepare for speaking in public?

When speaking off-script, there is no manuscript reference at the scene. I am most afraid that my mind will be blank when I am nervous, and thinking about it is a nightmare ... In fact, when you are preparing for a speech off-script, you forget words, mostly because you only pay attention to every word and forget to form an outline in your mind.

It is forbidden to write down everything you want to say word for word and then memorize it! That's undoubtedly adding a huge burden to your brain, and there are many people and things at the scene, and there are many things that interfere with you. It is also very common for you to forget what you have memorized for a few days.

how? The best way is to outline what you want to say, and then speak to the outline one by one! Think over and over again and say, you can write down some keywords and supplementary opinions under each outline!

at this time, what is formed in your mind is called thinking, and every sentence you say will be arranged and presented according to your established thinking!

Personally, I prefer to speak off-script, without the constraints of the manuscript. It will be more natural to speak according to the prepared outline and in my own way, and the communication effect will be better!

3. how to prepare the speech at the unit meeting?

speaking at a meeting is definitely the most desirable part of speaking in public for professionals! Because in the workplace, speaking at the meeting is an excellent opportunity to show your talents! ! !

The person who has a glib tongue at the meeting can always give people a feeling of great ability, regardless of the real background, and the leaders will always think that he is an excellent young man with ideas! Study it, it's all routines, you can do it.

Let's talk about something that is beside the point, but you must pay attention to it and know it-

You should grasp the timing of your speech well, which means expressing yourself. If you don't grasp it well, you will become a nuisance who likes to show off.

For example, after work, everyone is hungry and waiting for dinner. The leader said, does anyone have any ideas? Don't answer at this time, everyone is hungry, even if you spit lotus flowers, it's not rare! Also, the leaders have all finished their speeches, and the conclusions are basically settled. In order to show democracy, who has any comments? Don't speak at this time. Your speech is brilliant, which makes the leaders too mediocre. Your speech is not brilliant, which is a waste of time!

when will you speak? When something is very important, everyone is very anxious, and there must be an opinion, you must speak and make a good speech, and your talent will be discovered! ! !

get to the point: how to make a good speech? Again, get ready! ! You may want to say, how to prepare the speech at the meeting? There is no theme!

of course!

Generally, important meetings will be notified at least one day in advance, and the contents of the meetings will be widely publicized. You can think deeply about the part of the meeting that you have ideas about. If necessary, you can search online, supplement your own opinions, form your own ideas, sort them out and wait for the meeting to say! Although it is not as troublesome as preparing for public speech, you will stand out from the crowd with a little preparation. Because many people don't pay attention to it, you pay attention to it and you win!

how to prepare for an interim meeting?

Listen carefully to the contents of the meeting, pay special attention to what the leaders said and those colleagues who spoke very well, and form your own ideas and opinions while recording. When speaking, briefly summarize the good opinions mentioned before, indicating that you agree with them very much and will seriously implement them, and then briefly add some of your own opinions. That's enough!

Clear pronunciation and mellow voice, full of breath and loud voice. Unless you are a professional broadcaster, it is difficult for most people to do it, but the most important thing is that it is not necessary. Sometimes even if you do it, people may say that you are too fake and too pretentious!

But in any case, whether you speak or not, you must be comfortable when you combine your flow, speed, frustration and disconnection!

"No matter how good a doctor is, it is difficult to cure his own disease"! When listening to others, people can always point out their faults, but it's often not their turn. It's always hard for your own ears to listen to what you say.

I suggest that you record what you say with a voice recorder or the recording device on your mobile phone, listen to it repeatedly, and then transmit your voice to another carrier and then to your ears. At this time, your ears will objectively and intuitively hear the problems in your speech, and then you can prescribe the right medicine! Listen to the recording of your speech repeatedly, and correct the problems that make you uncomfortable one by one. Whether you speak or speak, it will sound more and more comfortable! ! !

the above are some personal opinions and suggestions on speaking in public based on my work experience. I hope they will help you? o(∩_∩)o