How did Zhuo Wenjun and Sima Xiangru resolve the emotional crisis?

The story between Zhuo Wenjun and Sima Xiangru is that a wealthy daughter and a down-and-out talented man met, fell in love, and stayed together. However, their parents blocked them, so the wealthy lady ran away with the talented man. , many years later, when the talented man returns to his hometown with fame and honor, it is the result of a big reunion.

Zhuo Wenjun's family is very rich, and he doesn't even know how many generations he has been rich. He has thousands of hectares of fertile land and many rare antiques. Zhuo Wenjun grew up with beautiful clothes and delicious food, and his father Zhuo Tiansun invited a famous teacher to give Zhuo Wenjun lessons, so it was easy for Zhuo Wenjun to recite poems and make things difficult for him. He was especially good at music and musical instruments, and his piano skills were also very good.

Zhuo Wenjun married for the first time when he was sixteen years old. Unfortunately, her husband passed away within a few years, and Zhuo Wenjun became a widow and had to return to her maternal home to live.

Zhuo Wenjun’s family lives in Linqiong County. Wang Ji, the magistrate of Linqiong County, has a good friend named Sima Xiangru. Sima Xiangru was extremely disappointed in his career. In order to comfort his friends, Wang Ji invited Sima Xiangru to live in Linqiong.

Zhuo Tiansun heard that the county magistrate Wang Ji had a good friend, so he held a banquet at his home to entertain Sima Xiangru and let him feel the hospitality of Linqiong people.

Sima Xiangru resigned, but couldn't stand Zhuo Tiansun's hospitality, so he had to promise to come to the banquet as a guest. Zhuo Wenjun had heard about Sima Xiangru's talent early in the morning. When he knew that his father had invited her to his home, he wanted to take a sneak peek to see what this talented person really looked like.

So she hid behind the screen and watched secretly. But what is unexpected is that Sima Xiangru accidentally discovered it and could not expose it, so he had to pretend not to know.

During the banquet, Sima Xiangru was invited to play a song. Sima Xiangru did not refuse, so he played "Phoenix Seeking the Phoenix" to express his intoxication. Sima Xiangru was deliberately flirting with girls. Although Zhuo Wenjun knew why Sima Xiangru was talking about this piece of music, he secretly stretched out his head to look at Sima Xiangru.

After looking at it this way, it is obvious that Zhuo Wenjun was immediately attracted by Sima Xiangru who played the piano. He was so handsome that he wanted to marry him. After the song, Sima Xiangru asked his bartender to give Zhuo Wenjun a gift to express his liking for Zhuo Wenjun.

That night, Zhuo Wenjun packed her burdens and secretly left the house to find her beloved Sima Xiangru. As soon as they met, they hugged each other tightly and were silent for a long time before they remembered that she had sneaked out of the house and her father would definitely catch her when he found out, so they rushed back to Chengdu overnight.

Zhuo Wenjun is really a very bold woman who dares to pursue love. Even modern people can’t settle for life just by doing it! What's more, elopement was an ugly thing for ancient women.

The next day, Zhuo Tiansun woke up and was told that his own daughter had run away with Sima Xiangru. This unfilial daughter, I wanted to sever the father-daughter relationship with her. I was so angry. also.

It was only after Zhuo Wenjun arrived in Chengdu that he discovered what Sima Xiangru's family was like. It could be said that Sima Xiangru was very poor and could not support them both, so they returned to Linqiong. Someone opened a tavern.

Zhuo Wenjun was drinking in front of the hall, and Sima Xiangru was washing the wine utensils behind him. The business was going well. Zhuo Tiansun felt humiliated and heartbroken when he saw his daughter like this. Zhuo Wenjun had done such rough work.

He couldn't bear to let his daughter be like this, so he gave Zhuo Wenjun a rich dowry, which would allow the couple to live a lifetime of food and clothing.

Later, Sima Xiangru was favored by Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty and was granted the title of Lang. Men change their minds easily once they become powerful. Sima Xiangru actually told Zhuo Wenjun that he wanted to take a concubine.

Zhuo Wenjun wrote a poem in reply to Sima Xiangru, called "White Head Yin", in which "I wish to win the heart of a person, and we will never leave each other until we grow old together" has been passed down for generations.

But this did not cancel Sima Xiangru's motivation to take a concubine. He replied a letter to Zhuo Wenjun, which read: "One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, ninety, millions, thousands." Is the word "hundred million" missing in Dudu's absence just because my husband means that there is no memory between us? Zhuo Wenjun felt extremely heartbroken and wrote another "Poetry of Resentment".

Every word is a complaint against Sima Xiangru and a reminiscence of the good old days. As soon as Sima Xiangru read it, he also thought of the days when they stayed together in the tavern, and of their early love. I feel extremely ashamed and want to make good friends with Zhuo Wenjun and never mention the matter of taking concubines again.

Faced with her husband's empathy, Zhuo Wenjun did not cry hysterically, but wrote poems to save her husband. She is really a woman with great wisdom.

If you are tired of watching, here is a joke to cheer you up:

The Victorious General

A woman said to her colleague: "You know what? ?Every time my husband and I argue, I always end up winning. “Why? "Because if I lose first, I'll ask for a do-over." ”