What Wang Xifeng said to Lin Daiyu is very clear.

At first, what Lin Daiyu said at the beginning showed that she was in a high position, but Xifeng came late and seemed to think that she looked down on distant guests. After that, I felt that she had a high status and a girl's wife was not good. Will a girl's wife treat her badly? This is contempt for Daiyu. This was obviously flattering to the old lady, because Xifeng didn't stop, giving Daiyu time to answer. After Xifeng finished this sentence, it was impossible for Daiyu to answer, right? Xifeng is just pretending.