How can I hold up the scene when I go to a high-end cocktail party?

At high-end cocktail parties, we usually watch more movies, such as well-dressed elites, men's suits and collars, and women's evening dresses; They shuttled through the wonderful music with red wine, and the decorations around them were "bling". The reception will add a better atmosphere.

Cocktail parties spread in the west, but in China, the scenes that should have appeared in movies and television are around us now, but most people don't know much about the culture of cocktail parties, and they don't know much about it. They are often lucky enough to come to high-end cocktail parties. Due to lack of experience, they usually joke and embarrass themselves.

I have a friend whose name is Xiaolian. When we get together and chat, people always make fun of him to add some atmosphere, Doby. The thing is, once, the company will attend a cocktail party, and Mr. Li will name several people to attend, including Xiaolian; She thought, since such an advanced place, you have to wear something grand; She specially rented an evening dress, dressed herself up and went to the reception. When she walked into the hall, she stood there stunned. Because others look at her differently, he looks at the whole audience, male dark suit and female long skirt (evening dress). Because it is all for communication, not for a big banquet, there is no need to do so, so Xiaolian has become a "different kind" in everyone's eyes. Lillian is quite embarrassed at this time. She tried to escape from this dilemma, so she walked into the corner. There are many cakes and drinking water in the corner. Lillian was thinking, in this case, let's eat first. So, she shoveled and ate; At this moment, Li suddenly called her, "located, what are you doing? Have you forgotten the task assigned by the company? " The two positions behind me are the fund manager of a company, so hurry to make friends; Xiaolian didn't think so much. She went straight to Chief Qian and smiled at Chief Qian. "And you are?" Money is always asked doubtfully. "Hello, Mr. Qian, I am located in a company; I happened to meet you this time after listening to your speech last time. Come and say hello to you. " Just as the two men shook hands, the expression on Mr. Qian's face changed a little. Xiaolian didn't notice that there was cream in her hand, so she just ate and didn't pay attention. Apologize to manager Qian, and she wiped her hands on the skirt at will. People around were surprised and didn't know what she was thinking. Money always doesn't care. Keep chatting with her. Xiaolian was thinking about how to complete the company's task, and her eyes kept turning. Just seeing a great big shot surrounded by a group of people, she said "goodbye" to General Qian in a hurry, regardless of what others thought of her, and went to the big shot, regardless of General Qian's face at this time. Xiaolian pushed through the crowd to the man and began to introduce herself. Tao Tao kept talking without giving anyone a chance to interrupt. Knowing that a young lady couldn't stand it, she took a glass of wine and handed it to Xiaolian and said, "Young lady, you are thirsty. Please drink some wine to moisten your throat. " In this way, the little face was squeezed out and let her bulge; Just when the waiter came with the wine, she didn't think much. She picked up the cup and dried it several times. After drinking, she felt light and fell down. It seems that she hit someone before she fell, and then she didn't know anything.

Because of this, every time the company has a similar meeting, it will be taken as an example, which is also a typical "good teaching material" of the company.

Then, let me talk about reception. There are all kinds of people at the reception, especially those in more advanced places and those with aristocratic temperament, which are slowly precipitated by time and money; Unlike some people, they are the embodiment of nouveau riche. At the reception, most people will put etiquette first; In fact, while paying attention to etiquette, social skills are recognized at the reception, which can reflect a person's emotional intelligence and let them swim in the reception.

You should also have a good attitude when attending cocktail parties, and don't exaggerate your clothes, posture, manners and emotional intelligence. Men usually wear dark leather shoes and women wear bright dresses. Don't exaggerate. Also pay attention to shake hands with each other, pay attention to clean hands and use appropriate force; When talking with people, you should concentrate on it and don't give up halfway; If the content of the other person's chat is boring, you can join someone else's chat and find a chance to leave.

At the reception, wine is the decoration of the pipe; Because people use their hands to avoid being casual, but to make people more casual. Drink a little wine, but don't drink too much; In case there are regrets. Therefore, at the reception, it is best to have certain social skills, rather than such a particularly embarrassing scene as my friend Xiaolian.