My relationship with my husband is not very good. I really want a divorce, but I'm afraid of affecting my children and being laughed at. I am very annoyed now, and I don't know what to do.

As a child with divorced parents, I don't know if I am qualified to answer. If it is not a very big problem, I suggest more communication. After all, there is no husband and wife who don't quarrel, and the bedside is noisy and the bed is closed. You have children, too. You should think more about their feelings. Don't be too extreme in dealing with things. Don't feel bad because your husband ignores you or is indifferent. If you feel bad, you should learn to be generous. Most men still need women's understanding and consideration. If your husband is still like this, it is also recommended that both parents mediate. After all, parents should be more calm and less impulsive. I hope you can get back together!