The girl's WeChat reply is very cold.

The girl's WeChat reply is very cold. Now is the WeChat era. Any pursuit of girls can't get around WeChat chat. Most boys are single because chatting is always impossible. So, what is the reason why the girl's WeChat reply is very cold?

The girl's WeChat reply is very cold. 1 1, the chat time is wrong, and the girl has no time to reply.

Everyone has his own business, and no one stipulates that others must put down their work to reply to your message. Therefore, when sending messages, girls don't reply. All you have to do is wait, because generally speaking, girls are busy and won't return your message, but will return when they see it.

So you should try to choose some free time for girls, such as after dinner 1 hour and before going to bed. These are good opportunities for chatting. If the timing is well grasped, the efficiency of communicating and chatting with girls will be greatly increased.

2. The first impression is so bad that girls are too lazy to reply.

Now everyone uses WeChat, so WeChat has a circle of friends. Think about it. What is the first step after adding girls? It must be looking at a photo. So do girls. If your avatar is an anime character, the whole circle of friends doesn't even have a clean and tidy photo. Girls will have a bad first impression on you, and girls will basically not waste time on you, because girls' youth is only a few years, and they have to leave it to worthy boys.

3. Chatting is so boring that girls are not interested.

This is a common situation. At first, girls are often willing to reply to chat, but after chatting for a while, they find that chatting with boys is too boring, which is nothing more than what you are doing, have you eaten, have you slept, have you got off work, and so on. To tell the truth, life has been so difficult, and you have to let girls continue to face such questioning and chatting. How can you stand it? No wonder girls use mm-hmm to perfunctory you when chatting.

The girl's WeChat reply is very cold. 2 How to chat with girls

1. Grasp the core needs of girls

Everyone's patience is limited. Most of the boys who entered the cold period with girls were bored because they didn't show high-value content in the process of WeChat chat, so it became a message that girls could return or not. Because she can guess what you are going to say next, she doesn't want to chat with you.

If you want to get out of the cold period faster, you must first know the core needs of girls. Generally speaking, you need freshness, mystery, emotional comfort, security, vanity and care.

We should reach out to girls more actively, and exercise our ability to perceive unique, strong and real needs from their manners and manners through constant chat practice, and chat in a targeted way to make the chat more harmonious and effective.

2. Provide emotional value for girls.

Girls are easily influenced by emotions, especially when they are stimulated by the outside world, such as a touching human text. When they see poor animals on the roadside, they will automatically bring them into emotions and feel depressed and sad. When chatting with girls, if the topic and atmosphere are very dull, it will naturally not affect girls and will not produce any emotional fluctuations. It's hard to impress girls with this kind of chat.

Therefore, if you want to get out of the cold period quickly, you need to appropriately "stimulate" the girl, make her excited, excited, curious and sad from time to time, and create a "flirting" chat atmosphere, so that her mood fluctuates greatly, just like riding a roller coaster, and she is willing to chat with you.

Using push-pull skills in chatting can make girls' emotions change from doubt to happiness to a little bit of emotion, so that girls' emotions can be diversified.

Therefore, when you enter the cold period of chatting with a girl on WeChat and want to continue to develop with her, you must quickly change your thinking, actively create passion, make the other person feel fresh again and arouse intimate chat interest. Otherwise, once the cold period is too long, you can only miss a chance to take off the order in vain.

The girl's WeChat reply is very cold. 3 There are three common phenomena when the relationship does not break the ice:

1, girls don't return messages.

When they are unfamiliar with girls, girls don't return messages. There are several reasons why they don't want to return. Girls don't like WeChat chat.

Don't reply to the first contact, because you don't know the specific reasons why girls don't reply, so don't complain, don't ask questions in a chain, and don't deny yourself easily. Not replying doesn't mean denying you, maybe it's just because you are unfamiliar and haven't found your own value.

2. Girls are indifferent.

The main performance of girls is to reply slowly or too briefly, such as: uh-huh, oh, hehe, boring, punctuation, basically no content, lack of desire to communicate. This makes boys feel that girls are cold. In essence, girls have not found the value of boys.

3. Girls are too polite.

This situation may be due to the higher education level and higher quality of girls. However, after several exchanges, the girls still maintained a polite attitude, not taking the initiative, not teasing, and not engaging in emotions. That's because at this moment, girls have not found value in boys, but girls have reserved opportunities for boys to show their value.

There are three ways to break the deadlock for different types of girls:

The first type: teasing traffic.

Through the observation of girls' circle of friends, it is found that girls send a lot of jokes, such as satire, jokes and short stories. At the same time, they also have the characteristics of loneliness, such as life skills performance, spitting, making wishes and asking for help.

After adding this kind of girl WeChat, you can take the initiative to tease girls by simply saying hello.

What is teasing?

Teasing is not discussing problems, but talking happily.

In this process, to show girls their sense of humor and entertainment spirit, we can intensively intersperse some chat skills that can boost girls' mood, such as playing games, paving the way, showing off, pushing and pulling, flirting and so on.

The second type: considerate flow

After adding girls' WeChat, boys can start a topic from the withdrawn features reflected by girls' circle of friends (life skills show, spitting, wishing, asking for help), show concern for girls, and make girls feel that boys know themselves and have expectations for boys-can he care about me and solve the problems of emptiness, loneliness and indifference for me?

The third type: cold reading stream

Observing through the circle of friends: Girls show many ideas, such as reasoning, sentiment, philosophy of life, values and so on.

After adding this kind of girl's WeChat, don't be busy teasing, find opportunities to arouse girls' interest with cold reading chat skills.

Because girls show their thoughts in the circle of friends, it shows that girls don't want to be a superficial vase, but want to be a woman with connotation.

Boys' cold reading of girls' wisdom, values, knowledge, way of thinking and personality will make girls feel that boys know themselves very well, and more importantly, girls are more sure of themselves. In essence, this is a kind of recognition and praise for girls.

If you praise directly, it will make girls feel flattering, so be tactful and make girls more useful.

Cold reading: it means that boys interpret a girl without knowing her very well and say some ambiguous words, such as, although what, but what; What it looks like and what it is; What do I think? Maybe how do you ... such a vague description will make girls make a favorable interpretation of themselves, and feel that boys see things deeply and know themselves well. For example:

1. Although I laughed heartlessly, I still saw the problem very sharply.

In fact, you know what you want, but you will wait for the opportunity quietly.

I don't think you will accept other people's opinions without thinking. You have your own opinions, but occasionally you will be opinionated.

So, what is the sign of success in breaking ice?

1, girls reply continuously;

2. Girls take the initiative to ask you personalized questions (hobbies, mate selection criteria, drinking, love history, life skills);

3. Girls complain to you (tired, cold, in a bad mood);

4. Girls praise you (very handsome, really smart, reasonable and great);

5. Girls tease you (you are so bad, you are so poor, you are so annoying);

6. Girls take the initiative to care about you (have you eaten, are you tired, what are you doing);

7. Girls invite you (take the initiative to invite and suggest);

8, girls show themselves, show what (show figure, send photos, invite you to see her circle of friends);

9. Girls are emotional (jealous, angry, angry).

These are all signs of the success of breaking the ice, and they all indicate that your relationship will become closer and closer.