What should I do if people say that I am a transvestite? I just have a girlish personality, I speak in a low voice, I am not naughty, and I am very gentle. I can’t change it, but I can get my girlfrie

What should I do if people say that I am a transvestite? I just have a girlish personality, I speak in a low voice, I am not naughty, and I am very gentle. I can’t change it, but I can get my girlfriend...

Don’t let other people’s opinions affect you. Whether you can catch a girlfriend depends on your efforts. Sometimes people often lose confidence because they have been hit. This is the case with my deskmate. I don’t know what happened to him some time ago. He was always depressed. It took him a long time to react. He was timid and hesitant in everything he did. He looked very unsure of himself. I really wanted to kick him in the back. I couldn't stand it any longer, so I asked him what was going on. He hesitated for a long time before saying that he was shocked. He said that a girl made fun of him because he was short and looked funny when playing basketball, which damaged his male self-esteem. . I asked why I haven’t seen him play recently. It turns out that’s the case. I wanted to laugh when I heard it. I didn't expect that his self-esteem was quite strong, but in order not to hurt his young heart, I held back. In fact, I know that he has always been concerned about his height and is not very confident in front of others. He just wanted to make himself taller by playing basketball. Unexpectedly, he was hit instead and became even more inferior. But there is no use having low self-esteem. I really hope he doesn’t care too much and want him to be more confident, so I gave him a blessing bag. This is my secret lucky thing. Most people don’t know. I am in a family. I found it at a Taobao store called Help You Get Rich. The shopkeepers Fan Fei and Yuan Ying were very enthusiastic. They said this was a treasure of the store and many people liked it because consecrated items can bring people luck and strong energy. I gave the lucky gift to my deskmate and said to him, you see, Grandpa Deng Xiaoping is not very tall, but he can still stand at the top of the world. As long as you have confidence, you can also get the respect of others. After listening to my words, my deskmate suddenly thought about it. He cherished the lucky gift I gave him and even took it out to take a look at it if nothing happened. He is much more confident now than before and is still playing basketball like before. I am really happy for him. In fact, self-confidence means believing in oneself. It is not difficult to be confident. Changing your mentality may make a difference. Some practices that seem to be ineffective are often preferable.