My husband says to me from time to time, "Look how good I am to you." What's his mentality?

Generally, such a husband has two kinds of mentality: 1. Let you praise him. 2. Let you be nice to him, too.

Sometimes I often tell my husband that you are not good to me at all. You don't give me gifts or wish me a birthday on holidays. You don't know how good it is to me at ordinary times, and you always nag him when you are in a bad mood. At this time, my husband will be silent and feel that he has really ignored me recently. In the next few days, I will show myself at the first time. For example, help me wash dishes, mop the floor and move things. He will say, Look how good I am to you. That means, don't always say that I am not good to you. Actually, I'm nice to you, but you didn't notice.

Maybe again. I was very busy at work for a while. When I work overtime, I often come home late. He eats by himself and washes dirty clothes at home. When I come back, he especially wants to get close to me and tell me how good I am to you, which is actually a reward.

So, don't think too complicated about your man. Men's minds are really not as complicated as women's. It's simple. You only say that to get your attention. They are human beings and need warmth and hugs. Therefore, when your husband is kind to you, you should be kind to him in time. Love is mutual, and marriage can't be sustained if only one party works hard.

You ask this question and ask your husband what his mentality is. It seems a little defensive and unnecessary. Husband and wife should not be suspicious of each other like enemies, but be kind to each other and pay more than each other, so that the marriage can last, be good to themselves, their lovers and their children.

I hope I can help you.