Do people have to get married? I don’t know... I’m confused.

Do people have to get married in this life?

Marriage is a choice, not a necessary procedure. No one stipulates that people must get married. I think marriage is not a task or a goal. It is one of the ways to obtain happiness, not a necessary condition for happiness. If you meet someone who shares your mind, there is nothing wrong with getting married. In fact, everyone will have different views on such things. You don’t have to get married, and you don’t necessarily have to be happy if you get married. The most important thing is to let yourself live. Gotta be happy.

Marriage

Marriage seems to be a task. If you don’t get married when you reach the marriage age, the pressure will increase. Marriage seems to be a place of sustenance, placing your lifelong feelings on the other party. You are free to get married or not. There are also bachelors in this world. When you get married, there is someone on your life path who will always accompany you through the ups and downs. It feels like your life is very beautiful. When a person grows old alone, he will always feel very vicissitudes of life.

Marriage is actually a transition in life. It is of course possible not to have marriage, but after youth, you will find that marriage is indispensable in your life. Because he will give you the truest and most accurate positioning of life. Without marriage, you will find yourself very lonely and miserable in the end. You may not feel it now that you are in your youth, or you have been hurt a lot, or you think the world is too hypocritical. But when you meet Zhenjia, you will feel that marriage is so beautiful.

Some netizens said: People don’t have to get married, but this is what most people think and what your parents think. If you don’t care about other people’s opinions, you can go your own way. If you mind, you can go. Find someone to marry, but according to my experience, most marriages without feelings will not be happy, so you still have to be cautious. Moreover, fate is wonderful and you should believe that your partner will be waiting for you somewhere. It is also a good attitude to have it rather than have it.

Some netizens said: It varies from person to person, it depends on what you are pursuing and what you want. If what you want is for your parents to be happy, then you can make do with marrying someone you don't like very much, in order to fulfill your "filial piety" and fulfill your parents' expectations for you to continue the family line. Whether you are happy or not after marriage also depends on the person, because some things will change subtly. You may not understand her or like her at first, but maybe she is suitable for you, but you don’t know her well enough. In this case, you may slowly feel happy after marriage. However, if you two are not suitable for each other from the beginning, and no one is willing to change for the other person and become the person the other person likes, then your marriage is likely to be unhappy. After all... some things, Inappropriate is inappropriate.

Nowadays, celibacy is also popular. They feel that their lives are already fulfilling and happy, and they do not need to have male and female friends to enrich them. However, there is a problem regarding the solution of certain needs. People need a partner. This is an emotional need. It is also the Chinese thought of the times. It is better to have no descendants. (Of course, other countries have similar ones, and it is also instinctive. Right, and at the same time for the continuation of the family), but the idea of ??having no offspring is now weakened, so the most important thing is the emotional needs.