What is it like for your boyfriend to save money?

In many families, saving money has become their consistent style, so their children will inherit this style and continue to save money in the future, thus causing many problems. The laughing stock. The editor remembers a paragraph I wrote last time, which is the most suitable to describe this group of people. It is said that a young man was afraid of poverty at home, so he had to save money wherever he went. One day, he checked into a hotel , he felt that the hotel charged him too much, so he tried every means to bring something from the hotel that could save him money. He looked left and right, and finally reached for the tap. In fact, he got some from the hotel. The water was indeed nothing, but he actually took two big buckets home with buckets, fearing that his family would waste a little more water money. In addition, he even pretended to be a waiter and filled each hotel room with water. He took all the free toiletries back to his home, and he actually took all of the more than 40 sets of toiletries home. He never used the restaurant’s disposable chopsticks when eating in the restaurant, because he always brought a pair of his own, and then We can only sigh silently for people who save to the extreme by putting the disposable chopsticks in the restaurant home and selling them later.

However, recently many people on the Internet have made jokes about their boyfriends being too thrifty. Some girls said that their boyfriends never go to restaurants to eat and always cook at home. , Yes, this is indeed very good, but this boy only used a pair of bowls and chopsticks to cook. The two of them used this pair of bowls and chopsticks to eat three meals a day. After you finished eating, I ate, and I ate. You eat and wait. As soon as this incident was exposed, many netizens were dumbfounded. However, is having a thrifty boyfriend a good thing or a bad thing?

How to identify whether your boyfriend is stingy or frugal?

Beginner stingy, boys at this stage, to put it mildly, are proud of their status, or to put it bluntly, they want to be stingy, but they don’t have the guts to get to the bottom of it. Most of them still care about face, but either they are really short of money, or it is due to family education. They usually find a good reason for their stinginess: equality between men and women. What is gender equality? For them, equality between men and women means that all expenses are equal. What I am talking about here is not ordinary AA, but AA with technical content: they carry a ledger and a calculator with them, record all the expenses of dating, accurate to two decimal places, and then calculate Half a point.

Intermediate stingy, for boys at this stage, saving money has become the first priority for them. Face is no longer important. Their only purpose is to spend less or even no money. Such boys are no longer even willing to be AA. Their purpose is: save money if you can, and it’s best if you don’t spend money! They will try their best to make girls bear the expenses of the relationship: "I didn't bring my wallet today, so you can pay for this meal first!" "Oh, I don't have enough cash, so how about this, you pay first, and I'll forward it to you on WeChat when I get home." If you meet a boy who wants to save face, you may even pretend to pay. One of my best friends and her ex-boyfriend went to a high-end restaurant for dinner. The boy had promised in advance that he would treat his best friend to the next best meal. However, when it came time to check out, the boy slowly took out his mobile phone and prepared to pay via WeChat. But I was told by the clerk that I could only pay by credit card or cash. The boy woke up from a dream: "What, why didn't you tell me earlier? I didn't bring any cash, and my dad recently blocked my card!" The best friend had no choice but to say awkwardly, "I'll do it."

In fact, sometimes it is really difficult to judge between stinginess and frugality. It depends on who you are dealing with and what is happening. As long as it is not a matter of principle, it is still worthy of forgiveness. It can only be said that it depends on the living environment and the situation. The education they receive is different. Some people prefer to enjoy themselves, some people prefer to be pragmatic, some people prepare for a rainy day, and some people value money too much.