The lover men fear most in extramarital affairs

@The world has nothing to do with me, 21 years old, unmarried. I have a girlfriend, but I can’t help but have a private relationship with her best friend. At the beginning, I still enjoyed this feeling, it was exciting and satisfying. However, when I wanted to separate from my girlfriend and best friend, she was unwilling to do so and made trouble for me to break up with my girlfriend and be with her. The problem is that I love my girlfriend very much and have no idea of ??breaking up! Now I have to coax two women every day, which is really tiring! To be honest, you really can’t touch a woman who can’t tell the difference between a lover and a lover! How horrible! 　　　　　　　　　　, 25 years old, unmarried. My brother is very flirtatious. He has a girlfriend but he has always been in a relationship with another woman. Before he got married, he talked about breaking up with his lover, and he agreed without crying or making trouble! When we broke up, my brother gave her a sum of money because of his money-losing lover! Unexpectedly, on the day of the wedding, the lover rushed to the scene to cause trouble as soon as the bride got out of the car. He also showed proof that he had an abortion, as well as chat records, etc. The brother's marriage directly turned into a divorce, which became a joke in the whole city. How can I say it? I can only say that it’s up to you, but when you encounter such a vindictive woman, you really have to hide away! @香香人, 29 years old, unmarried, the most fearful thing is to meet a kind lover. Men have no conscience when cheating, but after long-term contact, the lover will not cause trouble to him and is considerate. When it comes time to break up, That day, my heart was really tortured. Don't break up, I'm sorry, wife! Break up, I feel guilty lover! Every time when it comes to breaking up, the lover does not make trouble or blame, but just sheds tears silently. Even a man can't stand it! Therefore, if you choose to cheat, you must abandon your conscience and learn to be cruel, otherwise you must not provoke such a kind-hearted woman, because she can make you feel ashamed just by looking at you with silent tears! @半stepvicissitudes, 35 years old, married for 2 years. I often walk by the river, how can I not get my shoes wet! The biggest fear is that the lover will get pregnant. If he is not pregnant, he can still coax the other person or give him some money to break up. But as long as the other person is pregnant, her mentality will change, and she will have the idea of ????wanting to spend a lifetime with you. Once it's taken care of, it's just a matter of spending more money and being more patient. If you don't handle it well, then wait for the person to fall on his back, the whole family to blame, and the divorce to end! Men who cheat are not necessarily those who don’t care about their family or their wives. If divorce results from cheating, this is the last thing a man wants to see! So, really don’t do something derailed easily, the consequences will be too serious. Even if you make a mistake for a moment, don’t keep in touch. You must draw a clear line quickly. @storytavern, 28 years old, married for 3 years. I am most afraid of lovers who don’t know how to advance or retreat. When two people are together, they know the result. You may not be so greedy at the beginning, just spend money and time on her. But as the two of them spend more and more time together, her appetite will grow. She will place her position as high as her wife's, ask you to travel with her on vacation, ask you to stay up all night, and even want to give you a baby in a whimsical way! If you meet this kind of woman, you must cut off the relationship as soon as possible, or ignore her and let her give up! @My love has expired, 39 years old, married for 12 years. The lover gets pregnant and then refuses to have an abortion. This is the biggest headache for men. You tell her that you will not marry her or divorce your wife, but she doesn't care! However, when the child is born, can you leave it alone? It doesn’t matter if people sue you! If you take care of the younger ones, you must take care of the older ones. You must be responsible for everything from the child's illness, study, and growth to the end! This is really an impulse for half an hour, and I will regret it for the rest of my life! My friend is in this situation now. He needs to take care of both his family and his foreign wife, otherwise his foreign family will keep contacting him. I am worried that my wife will know that I have always been satisfied with my lover with all my heart. Seeing him like this makes me feel so tired for him! Therefore, if you don’t have diamonds, don’t take up the porcelain job. You don’t want to be a scumbag, you don’t want to hurt your family, and you want to be embraced by everyone. Nothing in the world is that cheap. The lover men fear most in extramarital affairs 2 01. Zheng Hong feels that it is very depressing to stay with his powerful wife Xu Ping all day long. Even if Xu Ping can make money, he does not like it. Xu Ping opens her eyes every day and thinks about how to make money, and then sends Zheng Hong to implement it. Xu Ping often thinks of ideas one by one, and Zheng Hong tries them out time and time again. In this way, they opened a small shop in front of the high school in the county. From selling various shabu-shabu snacks, they added lunch boxes, daily necessities needed by students, and trinkets that girls like.

The store also expanded from one to three, and the money earned was more than five times that of before. Xu Ping used the money she earned to invest in real estate and has bought two buildings in coastal cities. The days are getting better and better, and the money he is earning is getting more and more, but Zheng Hong is becoming more and more unhappy. He hates this kind of life being bossed around by his wife every day, and feels that he lives without male dignity. Just at this time, a gentle and beautiful woman, Yuan Weiwei, appeared in his life. She greeted him every day with kindness and consideration. Zheng Hong couldn't control it and betrayed her. Zheng Hong, who was having an extramarital affair, was very affectionate towards his new love, Yuan Weiwei. Especially after drinking, Zheng Hong told Yuan Weiwei everything. How much money does my family earn every day, where did I buy a house, and what investments do I plan to make? All the money in my family is completely wiped out. Know people, know faces, but don’t know hearts. Zheng Hong is sincerely fond of Yuan Weiwei, just because it is rare for him to feel the admiration and appreciation of a woman. The woman also praises him for his greatness and her support. He is so beautiful that he can "fly up". But he didn't expect that Yuan Weiwei had other thoughts and didn't take him at all. What she said was just to please him, but was actually aimed at his family's money and shop. Especially after listening to Zheng Hong's drunken confession, Yuan Weiwei became more confident in realizing her plan. 02. "Dear, I'm pregnant. Are you happy that I'm pregnant with our baby? Now that we have a child, I want our family of three to be together forever. You and your wife should divorce!" Zheng Hong was stunned for a moment. Yes, his betrayal was just to vent his dissatisfaction, and he had no real plans to leave his wife Xu Ping. After all, she was so capable, and Zheng Hong couldn't live without her. But now that things were developing, it was no longer up to Zheng Hong to decide what he wanted. After Yuan Weiwei gave birth to the child, she came to the house with the child in her arms to "force the palace" and asked Xu Ping to give way to her. Yuan Weiwei also wanted to be the boss's wife. She felt that if she were to be the owner of this store, she would not do any worse than Xu Ping. But she misunderstood. Xu Ping was able to make her business so prosperous, and she was not someone to be bullied easily. The lover men fear most in extramarital affairs 3 1. @梅MR., 33 years old, is most afraid of his lover coming to his door. “Actually, my wife and I have always had a good relationship, but when she was pregnant last year, I couldn’t stand the loneliness, so I stayed outside. I have found a lover, but I have no feelings for her. I am just greedy for her body, so I am most afraid that she will come to her and cause trouble. I am afraid that my wife will get divorced if she finds out. In fact, I still feel very sorry for my wife. " 2. @ Mr. Xia, 38 years old, I am most afraid of being entangled by my lover. "Actually, for lovers, they just get what they need. There is no real feelings. I prefer directness. If both of them feel that there is no If you feel like it, you should break up easily. If she entangles you too much, I will be very annoyed. I am also most afraid of such a lover." 3. @MR.Wu, 43 years old, I am most afraid of my lover leaving me. "Actually, I am afraid of my lover leaving me. I still like my current lover very much. We have been in this relationship for more than four months. She is an intern who just graduated from college, and I happen to be her supervisor. I already like her youthful vitality. , she took the initiative when we got together. She said she likes uncle-type figures. I bought her a house last month and spent a lot of money on her, so now I'm afraid that she will suddenly take advantage of it and leave me. " Emotional conclusion: Although we know that it is difficult for a man to cheat, it is very immoral to betray his family and his wife like this. Even if the two of them do not divorce later, you will still be in trouble if you are discovered. I can't hold my head high in front of relatives, friends and my wife, so in the end I hope that a man will think carefully about the consequences when he cheats.