The naughty child climbed into the neighbor's house to steal peaches, but broke his legs. The child's parents: must pay for medical expenses

When children are young, they will be full of curiosity about the world and want to try and see everything. Some children may even act a little naughty. It is understandable for children to be a little naughty when they are young, but if a child gets into trouble without principles, he will become a "naughty child". We usually find that behind a "naughty child" there is often an overbearing and unreasonable parent.

Xiao Yang encountered such a strange thing. Xiao Yang planted a peach tree in the yard for his family to eat. But unexpectedly, this peach tree caused trouble for Xiao Yang. The children next door were very greedy when they saw their own peaches. A young child chose to climb from the wall of his home to the next door to steal peaches.

However, the child fell from the tree because he lost his balance and broke both legs. Xiao Yang also felt very distressed when he learned that the child had fallen seriously. After all, a few peaches were not worth much. If the child asked, he would be willing to give them to him. However, the behavior of the child's parents turned Xiao Yang's original distress into anger. After the child fell, the family's biggest concern was not the child's injury but to argue with Xiao Yang and make Xiao Yang take responsibility.

On Xiao Yang’s persuasion, the child’s parents sent the child to the hospital. The child's parents believed that the incident happened at Xiao Yang's home and that Xiao Yang had to bear the medical expenses. Xiao Yang felt very aggrieved. It was like "when someone sits at home, trouble comes from the sky." It was obvious that the parents of the child did not supervise the child well, but they let themselves suffer. Bearing medical bills is simply outrageous. Because the child's parents came to him every day to argue with him, Xiao Yang felt that the impact was very bad on the one hand, and worried about the child's injury on the other. He had no choice but to compromise and agree to pay part of the medical expenses, and then he understood the matter.

No matter from which angle, Xiao Yang is not responsible for the child's injury. It is obvious that Xiao Yang is the victim of a "naughty child". The emergence of "naughty children" is closely related to parents' education methods. Parents' wrong education methods will lead to distorted growth of children.

1. Clear rules and principles

Adults can tolerate children who make a few mistakes when they are young. Even if children sometimes act mean and lazy, parents will find it cute. Young children are full of innocence and vitality, and they are also full of curiosity about the world. Some behaviors that are incomprehensible to adults may mean that children are exploring the world.

Parents cannot stop their children's curiosity across the board, and cannot prevent their children from trying anything. However, they must also set clear rules and establish responsibilities for their children. A child's naughtiness depends on the occasion. If a child's weirdness is placed in a situation of major right and wrong, problems will definitely arise. Issues of personal safety and personal dignity must be made clear. Children must not engage in behaviors that are dangerous to themselves or others, cannot personally attack others, and do not ridicule or bully classmates. These behaviors must be clearly prohibited for children.

2. Be good at communicating and reasoning.

As a parent, you must also "convince others with reason". You must reason with your children before punishing them, and educate your children through communication. Many parents believe that in front of their children, the most important thing is to maintain their majesty as a parent and make their children fear them, otherwise the family will be in chaos. Therefore, when their children do something wrong, many parents will insult and threaten their children to make them "memory", and some parents will even physically punish their children.

These educational concepts are outdated. Today's society values ??equality between people, and the same applies to parents and children. Parents must also respect their children and educate them through communication. When a child makes a mistake, you should not just reprimand the child but ask him to reason. Although the child is young, he also has a certain ability to understand. Don't always think that the child does not understand anything.

3. Lead by example

Parents are their children’s first teachers, and most of their children’s ways of dealing with the world are learned from their parents.

Therefore, parents should pay attention to their own behavior in front of their children. Usually we think that parents are adults and children are children. How can children evaluate their parents' behavior?

This has led to many parents doing whatever they want in front of their children. In fact, this is very detrimental to the growth of children. When children see that their parents’ behavior is inconsistent with the rules they learned from school, it is easy for them to I think all the rules set by adults can be broken. Once children form this kind of thinking, their sense of norms will weaken, and these children are prone to rebellious behavior. Therefore, parents must pay attention to their image in front of their children and set a good example for their children.

Every parent does not want their child to become an annoying "naughty child", but some parents' wrong educational concepts or indulgent education methods are invisibly turning their children into a "naughty child". Naughty kid". Should we change the “bad kids” or should we start by changing the “bad parents”?

Dear netizens, do you think Xiao Yang should bear the medical expenses of the "naughty child"?