Boys' WeChat paragraphs, girls' confessions. Girls change the subject. What do girls think? Is there any chance?

Many brothers have heard the words "I don't want to fall in love for the time being", "You are too sudden, I'll think about it" and "Let's continue to be good friends". Although I have been emphasizing not to confess, I believe that many brothers have confessed because of a temporary fever.

However, when many brothers confess, what my sister said has already told you what she will do to you next. Some brothers don't understand the meaning of their sister's words, so they continue to spend a lot of time, energy, money and feelings to impress their sister and win her favor.

And some girls are firmly trapping you, giving you hope and treating you as a spare tire. You still naively think that she is interested in you. Brothers who have been waiting for a girl for several years, please think carefully about how much love you have missed during this time. Is it really worth waiting for her?

Many brothers should know that if you confess, your sister will rarely refuse you directly in the straightforward way of "I don't like you". First, I don't want to hurt people too much, and second, I just want to avoid responsibility.

Avoid what responsibility? Let me give you an example. For example, you are having an affair with your sister, and you have some physical feelings with her. She is always shy to say something like "what a nuisance". Have you ever wondered why my sister would say such a thing? It's really your behavior that really annoys her. Then why doesn't she get angry and expect your next move instead?

In fact, she is shirking her emotional responsibility by doing so, because girls are more reserved and conservative. What would you think of her if she was too active or acquiesced in your ambiguous behavior? Very casual, very dissolute. So, in order not to let you have this impression on her, but they want to have closer actions with you, so they say this to tell you that she is actually very serious, and she is forced to have a closer relationship with you because you are too bad.

We often say that it is for this reason that boys should take the initiative boldly, because you can't let your sister bear the responsibility of "bad guys". Therefore, it is difficult for boys who are always clever when dating their sisters to like them unless they are particularly conservative.

With this in mind, you should almost understand what your sister said when she refused you. I have also made a confession when chasing girls before, but every time I have a result, I have been rejected. However, I didn't know until I read the complete works of my lover Ouyang that girls are attracted, not chased. Later, I never took the initiative to confess to girls, but adopted attractive methods, and many girls began to pursue me actively.

1 Inferiority Rejection

Classic words: "I'm not as good as you think", "You're too good for me, I can't repay you", "You're so good, I don't deserve it".

What is your first reaction when you see these words? Do you think this girl is too inferior to others, and rejected the excellent you? So, as a "warm man", do you want to comfort your sister? So you said these words, "It's right to be nice to you", "I don't need your return" and "You are the best in my eyes".

You think what you say is warm, but in fact you have fallen into your sister's trap. You will think that your sister likes you, so treat her like a girlfriend, take care of her and let her know that you don't dislike her. But you will find that no matter what you do, you just can't catch up with her.

Once you confess or ask her to be your girlfriend again, she will say, "I told you, you are too good for me, I can't afford it, and I don't want to keep you." A word left you speechless, and you yourself said it was right to be nice to her. What reason do you have to say that my sister ruined you and lied to you? All you can say is to blame yourself for being stupid.

When should I be nice to girls? After you made it clear that she likes you. Only if she likes you, your kindness and concern for her is warm. She doesn't like you yet, and you keep paying attention to it, which will only make her feel bored or be used as a spare tire by her.

2 hesitate to refuse

Classic words: "You are too sudden, I'll think about it", "Let's talk about it later" and "Let's get to know more".

Analysis: In most cases, when your relationship is only half, you will impulsively say your unique words. In fact, at this time, my sister has no expectation for her boyfriend. Maybe she will be moved or surprised by your behavior. But as long as she says such a thing, then you are finished.

When she gets some sleep and calms down, she will immediately understand that you are too casual, unreliable and insecure. So, in most cases, she will be cold to you from now on. If she continues to look for you the next day, it means that she is still interested in you. You must never ask her what she thinks. She didn't say anything just because she didn't want to hit you, so don't hit yourself in the face.

If you want your sister to like you, when you get along with her, you must provide her with emotional values, such as happiness, anger, sadness, excitement and jealousy. Only when there are emotional ups and downs will she feel more about you. Treat her blindly to make her happy, and in the end you will only become a spare tire unconsciously.

No matter how good the idea is, it's all in vain!