What is the symbol of the end of the cold war?

1. What is the sign of the end of the cold war? The cold war is a state of cold violence in which one or both sides ignore each other because of indifference or contempt of one side, resentment of the other side, or boredom, dissatisfaction and injustice of both sides, and turn from friendly intimacy to alienation. The symbol of the end of the cold war is to get out of this emotional state. So what is the impact of the cold war? 1, the cold war is easy to cause a vicious circle. The cold war will make both husband and wife resentful, and even if they make up later, they will leave a psychological shadow. It will also increase mutual distrust. The quarrel and cold war in the future will multiply this shadow and psychological trauma. This is a vicious circle, and the final result will be divorce. 2. The cold war will dilute the feelings of two people. During the cold war, although they were safe on the surface, their hearts were already in chaos. When two people are together, they pretend to be strangers. They don't care about each other, ignore each other and treat each other like nothing. This will make the other party feel that the other party has become more and more indifferent to themselves, completely indifferent to themselves, and will gradually be disappointed with each other. It will gradually make each other feel that getting along is meaningless, and it will make the passion in marriage disappear until they are indifferent to both sides, even worse than being with strangers. Even hate each other. Not conducive to feelings. And this indifference will make the feelings of two people fade away in silence, and the feelings will gradually fade away. The final disappointment accumulates into despair. Second, what should we do during the cold war? 1, divert attention. When couples ignore each other, they all hope that the other person can talk to themselves first, because they all think that this can show that the other person cares about themselves, especially girls. But not all people will apologize first, so maybe two people will never wait for each other to apologize, so it is easy to have some messy thoughts, which may make them more uneasy and sad. Therefore, during the cold war, we can temporarily divert our attention and relieve psychological pressure. 2. Bring each other closer. Sometimes after the cold war, it's not that two people don't want to make up. It's just that sometimes one party is proud and doesn't follow the steps given by the other party, which may make the other party lose patience gradually. However, it should be noted that it is not a good practice to approach the other person when he is angry. The more appropriate time is to wait for the other person to be less angry, so that the other person can forgive you more easily. 3. Find out the causes of the cold war. Two people often quarrel over trivial matters, but such trivial matters can't make each other so angry, or even have a cold war with you, so it must be because something you do touches each other's bottom line, so if you want to break the cold war mode, you must find the reason that led to the cold war, otherwise the contradiction between you may always exist. What is the symbol of the end of the cold war? 2. How to ease the cold war relationship between lovers? 1, don't swear. We often see such a plot on TV. First, two people had a cold war, and then one got angry and shouted at the other, as if his face had changed. Why do I like people like you? You are so useless. I am so disappointed. Let's break up ... these are called love taboos, and they are all said at this moment. Originally, this was a trivial matter, and it could be reconciled in a few days after the Cold War. On the contrary, because of these words, it became a serious matter and eventually became the fuse that led to the breakdown of feelings between the two sides. Even if the two people behind are reconciled, these languages are stuck in their hearts like knives. Even if they are cured, they will still leave scars. Therefore, I think that when couples quarrel in the cold war, they must avoid saying cruel words. Maybe you were emotional at that time, and what you said may be the result of impulse or unintentional. However, if the speaker listens inadvertently and intentionally, the other party will usually remember these words easily. If it is serious, it will easily affect the future relationship. 2. Do the same thing. My colleague once shared with me his Method of Overcoming the Cold War. That is, two people make an agreement in advance. If there is a cold war, they will do the same thing together, which can be their usual hobbies, such as eating, watching movies and playing games. It sounds incredible. During the cold war, the two sides ignored each other. Who wants to play together? But in fact, this is where people are caught. The cold war between two people is usually not because of quarreling, but because they are unwilling to bow their heads and admit their mistakes to each other first, and both sides are unwilling to lose face. However, if two people have agreed to do the same thing in advance, they can calm down and interact with each other. I believe this will definitely accelerate the pace of reconciliation between the two sides. This is a very good method. 3. Find the reason from yourself. They say it takes two hands to fight. When two people quarrel, they usually have their own reasons. For a simple example, if you want to receive a gift on a special holiday and the other party doesn't give it to you, you will feel that the other party doesn't care enough about you. If the other party gives you a gift, you will be unhappy because the other party didn't give you a gift that satisfied you. There are always various reasons that make both sides unhappy. It must be caused by both sides. So find the reason from yourself. In love or marriage, once you love yourself more than you love each other, it is easy to breed contradictions. Therefore, during the cold war, if both sides can think calmly, maybe the problem is not entirely the other side, how can they do better? Second, the way to end the cold war 1. Take the initiative to bow to each other. It's nice to have someone who can quarrel with you in the cold war and has to bother to make up. So in front of important people, there is no particularly serious problem of principle. You can take the initiative to lower your head and make up with each other. After all, the other person is very important to himself, and it is not others who bow to those close to him. If you don't want to bow your head every time, you can make an agreement with the other party that the next time something similar to the Cold War happens, just because neither of you feels wrong, then bow your head once. So as far as possible to ensure fairness, no one will suffer, and this relationship can be well maintained. 2. Make a little joke at the right time. The atmosphere of the cold war between the two people was very tense. Neither of them wants to talk to the other actively, and one of them especially wants to break the deadlock, so he can pretend to talk to himself and tell a funny joke. As long as the other person can't help laughing, you will have a good start, and you will be able to communicate naturally and solve the problems of the Cold War. 3, take each other directly to eat delicious food. It is said that food is a comforting thing. I believe that no matter who can resist the temptation of food, it is a good solution to take the other person to eat food quickly. You don't have to talk to each other, just take it with you. On the road or at the place where you eat, two people will naturally talk. In the face of love, we always learn to quarrel because of some small things. Once this quarrel is not solved, it will definitely become the fuse of breaking up. The cold war is not the way to solve the quarrel. You must learn to be good at solving quarrels, so that your relationship can last longer and longer!