The night before the wedding, the sister-in-law slaps the bride, what should I do?

It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with. In fact, the relationship with the sister-in-law is also quite difficult, especially when there is a protective mother-in-law who always protects the sister-in-law and the family relationship. There is simply no way to balance it.

Once a woman gets married, she will be considered an outsider by her husband’s family. Mother-in-law and sister-in-law are always of the same mind. When facing various problems in the family, her husband plays a key role and needs to be adjusted well. The relationship between everyone in the family.

If the mother-in-law is unreasonable and protects her sister-in-law no matter what happens, this kind of family relationship will never be balanced, and it will also chill the daughter-in-law and affect the relationship between the couple.

Being a daughter-in-law is not a simple matter. Although you live with your husband after marriage, you will inevitably have contact with family members, and you must adjust the relationship between the family and work hard. Integrate into your husband's family.

You must know that marriage is your own choice, and how to live a happy marriage requires your own management.

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Yuqian and Zhao Mingliang are college classmates. They have been together since college. After graduation, they both stayed in the city to work. In order to save money, the two of them worked together. We rented a house and started living together.

Usually, the money of the two people is used separately, but for the future of the two of them, Yuqian will always restrict the speed of Zhao Mingliang's spending, and even what money he spends, he must ask Yuqian Qian reported, and Yuqian often said that it was not that she was too strict, but that she was thinking about the future of the two of them.

During the Chinese New Year, Zhao Mingliang wanted to take Yuqian home to celebrate the New Year, meet his parents, and finalize their relationship. Yuqian agreed and went to the mall to buy some gifts. Prepared to be given to future parents-in-law.

Zhao Mingliang also has a younger sister at home, who is five or six years younger than him. She has just entered college, so the family is very doting on her. Yuqian also specially chose a skin care set for her future sister-in-law. Taste.

Unexpectedly, only after meeting her did I realize that this sister-in-law not only had a very bad temper, but also had a very petty talk. When she first saw Yuqian, she looked her up and down and said, "I thought My brother found such a beautiful sister-in-law, but he didn’t expect that she is not good-looking at all.”

Then, the sister-in-law opened the gift that Yuqian brought and saw the set of skin care products. After that, he curled his lips with disdain and said, "This brand of skin care products is not easy to use at all. I have stopped using it for a long time. You have the nerve to give it away and give it away. I don't want it."

Yu Qian's appearance Average, but not ugly either. She is a gentle type and does not look aggressive. Her parents-in-law also like her very much. However, for this sister-in-law, her parents-in-law are obviously more doting on her and said nothing. Yuqian can only He endured it silently.

Unexpectedly, the worst thing happened later. After the family finished eating, her mother-in-law quickly collected the bowls. Yuqian offered to help, but her mother-in-law said no, but her sister-in-law said coldly, "I'm just pretending." Don't pretend to be a little bit, my mother works so hard, why are you really helping her wash the dishes?"

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Everyone in the family heard what the sister-in-law said? , Yuqian was riding a tiger and couldn't get off. At this time, Yuqian didn't want to quarrel with her sister-in-law. After all, it was her first time visiting the house, so she had to be polite at least, so she went into the kitchen to help her mother-in-law wash the dishes.

While washing the dishes, Yuqian felt aggrieved. Why did she have to help her husband's family with housework when she came to the house for the first time? If she really gets married in the future, wouldn't she become their nanny? What her sister-in-law did to her today was really too much.

While Yuqian was washing the dishes, Zhao Mingliang stayed in the living room and watched TV. The family was enjoying themselves and had no intention of helping.

When Yuqian finished washing the dishes, Zhao Mingliang suggested driving out for shopping and eating out in the evening. After the family went out, in the mall, the sister-in-law took a fancy to a set of brand-name lipsticks worth more than 5,000 yuan. She had to ask Zhao Mingliang to buy it for her.

Yu Qian thought that as Zhao Mingliang’s girlfriend, she would not get such treatment, and it would cost more than five thousand yuan, so she gently said to her sister-in-law, “This set of lipstick costs more than five thousand yuan. It’s really too expensive. If you like it, ask your brother to buy you two.” Unexpectedly, as soon as these words came out, my sister-in-law slapped Yuqian angrily. He said, "My brother can buy me whatever he wants. Is it your turn to talk too much here? If you control my brother like this before you marry him, will I not be able to even get a bite of my brother's food in the future?" ? My brother spends money on me in this life, which is what he should do. We are brothers and sisters." Growing up, even Yuqian's family never beat her, but today she let her future sister-in-law beat her. After being slapped, Yuqian burst into tears, but her mother-in-law spoke at this moment, "Yuqian, my daughter is still young. She is not unintentional. Don't take it seriously."

Zhao Mingliang also said the same thing. The same tone persuaded Yuqian not to be angry, and she had no intention of asking her sister-in-law to apologize to her.

Seeing the attitude of their family, Yuqian felt completely chilled. She returned to the city alone, packed her things, moved out of the house where she lived with Zhao Mingliang, and completely separated from Zhao Mingliang. I'll never contact you again.

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What a family needs to get along with each other is always just an attitude. No matter how much the family members do, as long as they have a correct attitude and handle it properly, then everything will be fine. Will not cause conflicts.

However, if a bowl of water is not equal between a family, the relationship is destined to be unable to continue. You must know that the daughter-in-law was once the treasure in the hands of the parents. Even after getting married, she should be treated Due respect and care.

If a woman doesn’t respect her enough when she meets her husband’s parents, she can communicate well first, so that the family can live in harmony and live happily ever after.

As a bridge between the family, the husband must handle the relationship between the two well and not be partial, let alone wrong one of them.