What if a joke is a joke?

First of all, if a girl calls you a "joke" and intends to tell others about you, it may be a very hurtful behavior. Such remarks will not only make you feel embarrassed and embarrassed, but also hurt your self-esteem.

In this case, I suggest you take the following steps:

1. Stay calm: Although you may feel sad and angry, try to stay calm. Don't overreact to this girl, or it may make the situation worse.

2. Communicate with her: If possible, try to communicate honestly with this girl. Tell her how you feel and let her know that this sentence hurts you. If she understands your feelings and is willing to stop this behavior, then you can try to solve the problem.

3. Maintain your dignity: If this girl is unwilling to stop this behavior, you need to maintain your dignity. Tell her clearly that you don't want her to tell anyone about you. If she continues to do this, you will have to take action to protect yourself.

4. Ask for support: If you feel very hurt and depressed, it is very important to ask for support. Find some trusted friends, family members or psychological counselors to talk about their feelings. They can give you comfort and support.

Finally, remember that everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. Don't let other people's comments affect your self-esteem and self-confidence. It is important to keep a positive attitude and move on.