Every time I go back to my hometown, my mother and my father will quarrel. What should I do as a child?

Originally, it was a happy thing to go home, but what greeted me was the quarrels of my parents, which made me feel really uncomfortable. Faced with this situation, as a child, you should mediate and persuade, and do your best to make the two get back together.

First of all, we can play the family card and say helplessly to our parents, "Can you please stop arguing? I finally got home for once." ?You are their most beloved child. For your happiness, your parents will also restrain their temper and stop speaking harshly. Once the parents have calmed down, we will have a chat with one of them to find out why they were quarreling. As a bystander, you objectively analyze right and wrong, and do not take sides, let alone fan the flames. But how to solve it specifically? Parents have their own way of getting along. As children, there is no need to get involved too much.

If the conflict is not too big, the problem can basically be solved at the dinner table, and they don't want to quarrel, but there is only one step left. Mothers generally have a softer heart. You can start with your mother, "Mom, I'm hungry. You can't just quarrel and ignore me. Make me something delicious." ?Cooking with my mother, doing some homework, and listening to her chatter a few words. After you've finished cooking, invite your dad over for dinner. If he refuses, tell him that you're also cooking today, so you can give him some face and try his craftsmanship. At the dinner table, pour drinks or wine, the family clinks glasses, and the matter is over. If they keep a cold face, act coquettishly, tell some jokes, and lighten up the atmosphere. Your parents will give you face, and the atmosphere will be relatively harmonious.

In fact, some couples have a noisy way of getting along. They are used to it and have come through it over the years. They will not become alienated because of quarrels. After a few days of cold war, they will naturally reconcile. . As long as the situation is not serious, the child can just let them be. Optimistically, this may be a hobby of couples.