What humor does blind date say?

Most planned blind date partners have mastered each other's basic information, such as education, work, personality, family composition and so on. Before they meet. When I meet a conscientious parent or matchmaker, I even count a few moles on the other person's face from the photo. Therefore, the most important purpose of blind date is "whether it is pleasing to the eye". The standard of pleasing to the eye seems simple, but it is mysterious and unpredictable. Fortunately, men and women have the most basic curiosity. What does this blind date think of himself, whether it is love at first sight or not?

So you should make use of each other's curiosity and speak your comments boldly and to the point at the first time. This is much more nutritious than a lengthy self-introduction and not knowing the so-called topic. It not only looks natural and graceful, but also expresses your sincerity, which can attract the great attention of the other party at the first time. If she is really good-looking, you can say, "Nice to meet you. You are beautiful. " Remember to be sincere. If she looks average, there is no need to lead her to the United States. You can evaluate her temperament or dress or something.

Ruthless self-mockery

When dating, some people are used to holding themselves in the clouds and talking about how capable they are and how many people pursue them, thinking that this will attract each other, but they don't know that this is a sign of guilty conscience. Once the discerning eye sees through it, the taste of falling from the clouds to the bottom of the valley can be unpleasant. A truly confident person is good at self-mockery. President Lincoln will make fun of himself, especially his appearance: "Sometimes I feel that I am an ugly person. The ugly man met an old woman in the forest, and the old woman said, you are the ugliest person I have ever seen. The ugly man replied, no way. The old woman replied, no, you have a way, at least you can stay at home! " This joke, like today's "it's not your fault to be ugly, it's your fault to be scary", was used by President Lincoln to open the embarrassing situation of talking with people and was almost invincible.

Boasting often makes the other person think "so much", while self-mockery makes the other person feel "not so bad". This sensory difference can determine the other party's scoring standard for you. On the other hand, people who are good at self-mockery often have strong self-confidence, which will certainly be shown in your measured self-mockery and will also be felt by the other party. In addition, it doesn't hurt to start from yourself, even if you don't have a good proper limit, you can make the other person's attention more naturally on you.

Moderate display of humor

Zhao Benshan said to Song Dandan, "I'll tell you a joke. Then I will open the embarrassing situation. " Appropriate jokes and humor are always a good weapon to open an embarrassing situation. Blind date is a play. Even if there may not be an ending, at least we should make the blind date as enjoyable as possible and make it a comedy instead of a boring drama.

But humor is easier said than done. How to grasp the scale is the biggest problem, and it is not good to turn it into lip service. For example, Fiona met such a blind date and wanted to show humor in front of her, but the result was cold. Fiona asked, "Where do you work?" He said, "How do you know my uncle is tall?" Fiona said, "I like men with taste." He said, "Oh, I haven't bathed for days. You can smell it. " Fiona is so angry that she wants to leave directly-when the other person talks to you seriously, this self-righteous humorous answer will make the other person feel insincere.

Specific boring personal data should be understood clearly before two people meet. When dating, you don't have to struggle like an interview. At this time, you should show your personality characteristics, hobbies, what you have seen and heard. In short, you should act like a real person.