My husband always tells me that I envy ancient wives and concubines. What does he mean?

It can be seen from this sentence that your husband is actually envious of the ancient male status in his heart.

In both cases, these words are just his jokes. Then he may just be envious of ancient men and think that life at that time may have a different experience. He also wants to experience the feeling of having both ends meet, wives and concubines in groups.

Another situation is that these words are from his heart. If so, you need to pay attention, because this sentence can reflect his true thoughts. He likes this kind of life very much, because the current social environment no longer allows three wives and four concubines, and now they are all monogamous. But he likes this kind of life, so he may be more likely to betray his marriage. What he really wants is to live with many women, and only one of you may not be able to meet his needs.

In daily life, we can pay attention to whether he has a tendency to betray his marriage. You can judge from his daily behavior to you. If you have children, you can also judge whether his mind is in this family from what he said to the children and some attitudes. If he loves this family very much, he will put a lot of energy into it.

However, if you find that his time at home has become shorter, or he is often away from home after returning home, and has little communication with you and your children, these situations may be a precursor to his other love affairs outside. Of course, you must fully observe before you can draw a conclusion, and your observation period must be long. It is possible that he was busy for a while because of his own company, which is easy to understand. So you must learn from different stages in order to get real results. But these are all my guesses. The real result still depends on your judgment.