Want to know how to speak with a sense of humor?

If you want to learn to speak, you can practice eloquence and read a series of books to increase your knowledge.

If you want to have a sense of humor, you can read more books about humorous jokes.

Then communicate with others more and improve your eloquence and sense of humor in practice.

Modern Chinese Dictionary explains eloquence as the ability to speak.

People who have a glib tongue have the characteristics of "having substance in words, being orderly, being reasonable and affectionate". Some scholars have a clearer definition of eloquence: in the process of oral communication, the expressive subject uses accurate, appropriate, vivid, ingenious and effective oral expression strategies to achieve specific communication purposes and satisfactory communication results ... At present, based on the high-speed modern life, eloquence plays a more important role than literary talent to a certain extent, which is more in line with the pace of life in today's society and has attracted more and more attention.

Eloquence training:

1, speed reading method:

"Reading" here means reading aloud, that is, reading with your mouth, not with your eyes. As the name implies, "speed reading" means reading quickly. The purpose of this training method is to train people to articulate, pronounce accurately and pronounce clearly.

2. Reciting method:

We have all recited the text. There are poems, essays and novels. The purpose of reciting is different. Some have to recite because of the teacher's requirements to complete the learning tasks assigned by the teacher; Some are to recite a famous poem or sentence to enrich their literary accomplishment. The main purpose of reciting that we advocate is to exercise eloquence. The recitation we ask is not only asking you to recite a speech or essay, but also asking you to recite it. This kind of training has two purposes: one is to cultivate memory ability, and the other is to cultivate oral expression ability. Memory is a necessary quality to practice eloquence. Without a good memory, it is impossible to cultivate exports. Only when knowledge is fully accumulated in your brain can you open your mouth and talk endlessly. If your mind is blank, no matter how glib you are, it won't help. Memory, like eloquence, is not a natural gift, and acquired exercise also plays a vital role in it. "Back" is the cultivation of this ability.

3. Practice vocalization:

Practicing voice is practicing voice, practicing voice. In life, we all like to listen to those full, round and pleasant sounds, rather than dry, hoarse and dry sounds. So it is necessary for us to develop a good voice and a nice voice.

The way to practice your voice is: the first step is to practice your breath. As the saying goes, practice your breath first, then your voice. Breath is the driving force of human voice, just like the engine in a car, and it is the basis of voice. The size of breath is directly related to sound production. Insufficient qi, weak voice, excessive force, damage to vocal cords. Therefore, when we practice our voice, we must first learn to use gas.

Inhale: Inhale deeply, the lower abdomen contracts, the whole chest should be opened, and as much air as possible should be inhaled. When you smell a fragrance, we can experience the inhalation method. Be careful not to lift your shoulders when inhaling.

Exhale: Exhale slowly. Let the breath exhale slowly. Because when we speak, recite and debate, we sometimes need a long breath, and only by slowly breathing can we achieve this goal. You can basically close your teeth when you exhale. Leave a small gap to let the breath pass slowly.

We should do more exercises like this here:

Take a deep breath. Count and see how many you can count.

② Run for about 20 meters, then read a passage aloud to avoid panting.

Read the following idioms according to the requirement of clear pronunciation and mellow voice: heroes make strong men, and Mazhuang is eager to be open and aboveboard, far-sighted, fruitful, bright-eyed, indecisive, with a long history and beautiful scenery.

④ Read and practice the password:

A. Eight hundred pacesetters rushed to the north slope, and artillery fired side by side on the north slope; The artillery dare not touch the pacesetter, and the pacesetter dare not touch the artillery gun.

B. Bitter gourd basket brother crossed the wide ditch and quickly crossed the ditch to see the strange dog; Just look at the dog's melon basket button, and the melon basket is empty.

C. Hong Xiaobo and Bai take a laundry list to collect radishes. Hong Xiaobo collected a basket of white radishes and a basket of carrots for nothing. I don't know whether Hong Xiaobo harvested more white radishes or small ginkgo harvested more carrots.

4, retelling method:

Simply put, retelling is to repeat what others have said. This method is widely used in the classroom. For example, the teacher shows students a slide, and then asks them to retell the plot of the slide or the dialogue of the characters. The purpose of this training method is to train people's memory, responsiveness and language coherence. The method is: choose an article with appropriate length and certain plot. It is best to read a narrative in a novel or speech, and then let the students who recite it better read it aloud. It's best to record it with a tape recorder, and then listen to it again and again. Until you can completely retell this work. When retelling, you can record the content of the first retelling, and then compare it with the original text to see how many times you can repeat it, repeat it again, and see how many times you can repeat all the content. This kind of practice is not only reciting, but also exercising the coherence of the language. It would be better if we could repeat it in front of everyone. It can also exercise your courage and overcome your nervousness.

5, imitation method:

When we were young, each of us would imitate, imitate adults to do things and imitate adults to speak. In fact, the process of imitation is also a learning process. When we were young, we learned to speak by learning from our parents and the people around us and imitating them. Then we can also use imitation to practice eloquence and imitate people who have expertise in this field. In this way, our oral expression ability can be improved over time.

The method is as follows:

(1) Imitate the specialty. Find a person with strong oral expression skills in life, let him say some of the most wonderful words, and record them for you to imitate. You can also record the voices of your favorite announcers and actors and imitate them.

② Theme imitation.

③ Imitate at any time. We listen to the radio, watch TV and watch movies every day, so you can imitate with the announcer, performer and actor at any time, pay attention to his voice, intonation, manner and movements, and imitate while listening and watching, and your spoken English will improve over time. And it will increase your vocabulary and your literary knowledge. Here, it is required to imitate as much as possible, from the tone, speech speed, expression, movement and other aspects of the imitation object, to be creative in imitation, and to strive to surpass each other in imitation. When we were young, we all learned to speak by looking at pictures. The method of description is similar to this kind of talking by looking at pictures, except that we need to look at not only the pictures in books, but also some scenes, events, things and people in life, which requires more than talking by looking at pictures. Simply put, description is to express what you see, things, things and people in descriptive language.

6, role-playing method:

The word role is also borrowed from plays and movies. Refers to the role played by an actor in a play or movie. Our role here has the same meaning as our role in drama and film. Role-playing is to play different roles in a work like an actor. Of course, this play is mainly about language.

The method is as follows:

(1) Choose a novel and drama with plots and characters as the material.

② Analyze the selected materials, especially the language features of the characters.

(3) According to the number of characters in the works, find classmates and play different characters respectively. See who can play their role most accurately.

④ You can also play a variety of roles and cultivate your language adaptability. The purpose of this kind of training is to cultivate people's language adaptability, personality, and appropriate expressions and movements.

7, storytelling method:

People may have heard stories, but haven't they all told stories? It seems easy to tell a story, but it's not that easy to tell. As the saying goes, "it's easy to see flowers, but difficult to embroider"! Listening to other people's stories is very attractive. Some friends can even forget to eat and sleep when listening to stories, but it seems that it is not the case, dry and unattractive. Therefore, storytelling is also a gift, and not everyone can tell a good story. Learning to tell stories is a good way to practice eloquence.

8, actual combat training method:

When you speak in public on different occasions and in front of different audiences, if you are nervous, stage fright, flushed, blank-headed, confused and incoherent; The focus is unclear, the words are meaningless, and the organization is unclear; No literary talent, no new ideas; Lack of attraction, attraction, persuasiveness, etiquette speech and eloquence training The school has adopted a large number of multi-scene (classrooms, parks, squares, bus stops, buses), multi-audience (strangers above 100- 150), multi-theme (propositional speech, impromptu speech) and multi-practice (more than 60 times per person). In the last sentence, training eloquence is not a one-off event. We should stick to it and wish success.

Humor is a special emotional expression. It is a tool for people to adapt to the environment, one of the ways to relieve mental and psychological pressure in the face of difficulties, and also an innate perceptual ability with its special biological mechanism and social function.

Cultivation of sense of humor:

A person with a sense of humor first has a broad mind and a happy mood. Of course, humor also has technical problems. How to train your sense of humor?

1, and humorous heterosexual contacts. Usually there are more humorous men than humorous women, so it is easier to choose a heterosexual teacher with a good sense of humor than a homosexual teacher. More importantly, in view of the principle that opposites attract, silent women can often inspire humorous men.

Dinner is usually the birthplace of folk humor. Many times, we are not humorous enough, just because we are not lofty enough. You look down on small restaurants with mixed fish and dragons and impromptu meals, but you don't know that there are often masters of folk humor lurking in those boring meals. They can show their sense of humor on any occasion, face all kinds of unfamiliar or even unfamiliar people, beat the sea alive and ripen lettuce.

3. The purpose of instant humor is "takenism". Humor is a comprehensive ability, and the best way to get started or quickly is "takenism". You should learn from all humorous people, remember their classic words, and throw them out without hesitation once you have the right context. You should be careful to keep pace with the times and constantly enrich your "humor warehouse". Classic humor is humorous when others listen to it for the first time, a joke for the second time and piracy for the third time.

Internet is a gathering place for humor experts. You can browse some humorous websites and blogs.

In the uncertain situation, I take my family as my sparring partner now. When you deliberately cultivate your humor "bacteria", but you are not sure about the effect and discretion, you might as well be humorous in front of your family first to see if your carefully designed quips will cause the other person to smile. A woman whose humor can bring happiness to her family will naturally show confidence in social situations. Doing so will not only make you self-righteous, humorous and hurtful, but also help to create a harmonious family life, killing two birds with one stone.

6. You can talk less, but make sure that every sentence is well thought out. If you tell a lot of funny jokes and jokes at the dinner party, you will be left with a glib impression instead of humor.

7. You must be a good thinking student. At dinner, a dish comes up, you want to eat it quickly, and he wants to say something; When you meet a leader, you think about how to go out early, and he thinks about how to make the leader happy; You think it's easy for people to come with their mouths open. In fact, everyone with a sense of humor is not lazy. He should be diligent in thinking, like a soldier ready to fight, ready to mobilize his humor cells at any time. Therefore, if you want to be a humorous person, you must first know how to observe, love to think, be good at summing up, and at least recite a few cold jokes to master humor easily.

8. Be silent for 5 seconds and turn around what you want to say. Humorous girls are so popular because they seldom express their opinions directly, but adopt indirect methods. Indirect praise is subtle flattery, and indirect criticism is well-intentioned denial. First of all, we should change the way we speak directly. If you want to praise a person's beautiful clothes, you can say, "You recently asked Maggie Cheung to be a fashion director." If you want to point out that a sister wearing a fishing net in the street is bad for her image, let's say, "Is this the legendary DIDR's latest season's mesh shirt?"