Only a wise man knows humor.

Mr. Lin Yutang said: people's wisdom is open, and besides dealing with all kinds of problems, they still have spare capacity, so they are humorous. That is to say, only if you are smart enough can you play the world in a humorous way.

The same friend revisited me as a singer.

Li Jian made up the position and won the first place.

Hong Tao asked him how he felt, and

replied: I didn't dare to think too much.

After laughing, my friend asked: How can I be so humorous?

What puzzles my friends is that every little joke to ease the embarrassment

gets silence.

Silence is Cambridge tonight.

I was speechless, and I didn't know where to start.

Maybe you can try to answer what humor is first.

the essence of humor should be ridicule.

Of course, the ridicule here should be well-intentioned.

With some talent, humor will naturally appear.

The lowest level of humor is to ridicule others.

If we are a little more bitter, we can simply call it abuse.

But low-level humor is not simple, and it also needs wisdom.

A joke like this is recorded in Xiao Lin Guang Ji.

a Confucian scholar pays homage to his ancestors every time he writes.

an ancestor commented on his essay, saying, "In the past, in Ouyang Gong's composition, he spoke from the top three, and

the sub-essay was absolutely like Ouyang's third best."

Confucian scholars are overjoyed. A friend said, "A certain man laughed."

Confucian scholars said, "Compared with me, Ouyang, why should I laugh?"

Answer: "Ouyang Gong went up three times, which means on the pillow, immediately, and in the toilet; Third, it refers to the toilet. "

Confucian scholars can understand.

now, the essence of leverage is no exception.

On Mother's Day, a friend made a circle to bask in his mother's hair, and wrote a message,

God can't be everywhere, so he created his mother.

The friend replied: If God can't be everywhere, how can he create another ubiquitous species?

friends are speechless.

Low-level humor is an excess of intelligence and a loss of tolerance.

Advanced humor satirizes human beings.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu won the essence. Miss Bao is described in Fortress Besieged:

Some people call her "Deli Shop" because only Deli Shop displays so many warm and warm meats in public;

Some people call her "truth" because it is said that "truth is naked".

Miss Bao was not naked, so they revised it to "partial truth".

In Fortress Besieged, the master said: A person's shortcomings are just like a monkey's tail.

When a monkey squats on the ground, his tail is invisible.

Until he climbs like a tree, he puts the back for the public to see.

Qian Zhongshu's humor is obviously not innate.

This kind of humor is a childlike innocence polished by time and wisdom.

To learn this kind of humor,

you need to put your body in the most material real world to realize it, and

put your mind in the simplest spiritual world to be detached.

this is also a kind of sharpness and profundity.

the highest humor is self-mockery.

the original meaning of self-mockery is self-liberation.

In Bai Juyi's works, it should be "dealing with myself".

people who have been broad-minded since ancient times are always happy to laugh at themselves.

Confucius once said, "There is no blessing, but the beauty of the Song Dynasty, which is hard to escape from this world."

Zhu Tang was a glib talker, and the Song Dynasty was a handsome man who defended the country.

this sentence means: being unable to speak is still ugly, and the social road is difficult to take.

Looking back at the portrait of Kong Qiu in junior high school history books,

you should be able to feel the resentment of Kong Old Master Q.

it is true that self-mockery is difficult.

Wisdom is essential, and self-esteem and self-confidence are the cornerstone.

You have to have an open mind to get the true meaning of self-mockery.

don't be self-dwarfed, implying that you are incompetent.

the beauty of not being self-deprecating is that you are stuck in the mire of inferiority.

Mr. Lu Xun wrote in "Self-mockery":

"Hide in a small building and be unified, regardless of spring, summer, autumn and winter"

is deeply open-minded and shallow helpless.

Mark Twain was once invited to dinner.

During the dinner, he said to a lady, "Madam, you are so beautiful!"

unexpectedly, the woman said, "sir, unfortunately, I can't answer you in the same way."

Mark Twain, who is quick-witted and sharp-tongued, replied with a smile:

"That's all right, you can tell a lie just like I did."

Many humors are reflected in logical inversion or logical inconsistency.

break away from the previous discourse system and build a new logical chain.

This will lead to conflicts and make people laugh.

Humorous people have to learn to think logically.

A similar story was recorded in Tai Ping Guang Ji.

Yang Su greeted Bai: "Now there is a big pit, which is several hundred feet deep.

If you go in, how can you get out? "

Hou Bai said, "I don't need anything else, just a needle,

stick a hole in my brain, let the water out of my brain,

fill a hole, and I can float on the water."

Yang Su is curious. Why is there so much water in her head?

Hou Bai said, "If there is not so much water in his head, why would he jump in?"

this is the reason for mental illness.

The logical jump is exactly the same as Mark Twain's rebuttal.

you have to be smart to learn humor.

Mr. Qi Gong traveled to Wuxi with a friend.

A friend bought a pair of silk underwear at a high price, and said to him,

"Although it is expensive, it is really comfortable and light to wear, just like wearing it."

Mr. Wang replied, "I can get this effect without spending money."

Humor is a philosophical attitude towards life.

this is the difficulty of humor.

Mr. Qi Gong was poor all his life, and looked at things outside him like clouds.

He who sees through the world sharply,

can be regarded as not being happy with things, not being sad for himself.

So be humorous and have a transparent heart.

this transparent heart is also wisdom.

What's worth pursuing and what's worth giving up

when dealing with yourself;

Make friends,

What can be forgiven,

What can't be forgiven;

when entering the society,

what rules need to be crossed,

what moment is the bottom line.

all are wisdom.

Humor is the lubricant of wisdom.

In p>1941, when Hong Kong fell,

Liang Suying and a large number of cultural celebrities left by boat.

Japanese planes kept bombing, and mines kept ringing in the water.

The whole ship was scared to death.

Only Liang Shuming was asleep and didn't care.

people in the same trade asked him if he was not afraid.

He said, "I can't die. What about China if I die?"

this humor also needs the courage to take your time.

a humorous person will not be defeated by fate.

In the midst of suffering and bad luck,

with the courage given by this, humorous people

stand above their destiny.

Wang Zengqi said in "Life is Fun",

I was a rightist once,

I was really lucky,

otherwise my life would be even more dull.

Mr. Wang Zengqi obviously knows how to respond to the shallowness of life with humor.

what is humor?

Humor should be the expression of wisdom.

After all, life is absurd,

People have to smile.