From what aspects can we see the truth of the boy?

It is said that girls' minds are hard to guess, but boys' minds are also hard to guess. Girls should be good at discovering boys' minds, so as not to get hurt in love. Distinguish which boys really like us and which boys are just a temporary novelty.

Let's see how boys behave when they like a girl.

What behaviors can show that boys really like this girl?

1) Pay attention to your appearance and make yourself more handsome.

When many boys like girls, the most obvious reaction is to start paying attention to their own image. Instead of being sloppy, they often look in the mirror and pay attention to the collocation of clothes every day.

I used to wear whatever clothes I wanted to go out, but after I had a girl I liked, I began to pay attention to what clothes to wear with what pants, what hairstyles are popular now and so on.

It is not only women who please themselves, but also boys who like girls pay great attention to their appearance.

2) Pay attention to the girl's dynamics and collect information about her.

If a boy likes a girl, then he will pay attention to her every move, and he will carefully read every dynamic sent by the girl, whether it is pictures or words.

When the post is sad, he will leave a message below for the first time to comfort her and care about her.

He will try his best to collect information about her and give her a little surprise.

Careful boys will also try to understand the girl's past and collect information from her friends or previous developments.

Although he couldn't accompany her in the past, he wanted to know which movies girls like to watch, which books they like, which road they like, and so on.

What the girls say is from the heart. When the girl mentioned that she wanted to go to a city to see a building, the boy went quietly, took a photo of the building and put it in a circle of friends, hoping that the girl could see it.

So when a boy begins to pay attention to a girl and pay attention to every word she says, it means that he already likes this girl.

3) Always keep in touch, don't be hot and cold to her.

If a boy often uses busyness as an excuse, it means that his love is not enough. If he really loves her, no matter how busy he is, he will take time to accompany the girl, even if it is only for a short time, he will take time to meet her.

And I often keep in touch with girls and send a message every day. It won't be hot and cold. If you think about it, you won't chat. If you have something else, you can put it aside.

To give an actual case, a new colleague came to Xiao Wang's company. Xiao Wang fell in love with her at first sight and decided to pursue her. But with the contact between two people, Xiao Wang found that the original freshness was gone.

I used to send messages to girls when I was free. For example, if a female colleague is busy at work and doesn't drink water for a long time, he will send a message to remind her to drink water. But now he doesn't seem to like this female colleague so much. When he was bored, he talked about it with lesbians. As long as there is something else, he will leave this female colleague behind.

This is the difference between liking and not liking.

So when a boy keeps in touch with girls, it shows that he likes them enough.

If you just fish for three days and dry the net for two days, you can talk when you think about it and ignore it when you are busy, then such a boy should stay away as early as possible. He just used the girl as a tool to kill time.

4) Behavior becomes abnormal, and a cold man becomes a sunny boy.

Some boys are usually bored and don't want to talk to others. It can be described as high cold, and they always have a kind of right temperament. But in the face of the girl he likes, he becomes very talkative and tries his best to make the girl happy.

Because he likes to watch her smile and stare at her. Gao Lengnan suddenly became a sunny and warm man. This abnormal attitude is their small "loophole".

Some boys are willing to say irony in the face of girls they like, just like when they were children. The more they like her, the more they want to bully her.

When I was a child, some boys often pulled her pigtails in order to attract girls' attention, which seemed to be "bullying" her, but in fact they just wanted her to be more impressed with herself.

Some boys seem mature, but for boys who don't have rich emotional experience, their maturity of love is still in the naive stage.

When I meet a girl I like, I actually like it very much, just don't say it. And I will often joke with this girl, laugh at her, say her shortcomings, watch the girl get angry, and then try to coax her.

If a boy is particularly willing to play jokes on a girl and make fun of her, it is probably because the boy likes this girl. Although this method seems a little naive, it is a way for them to attract girls' attention.

5) There are endless topics with girls you like.

Boys are particularly willing to chat with their favorite girls when they are in contact with them. Some boys said that chatting with girls they like will be very cautious, every sentence should be considered repeatedly, and they will try to find the next topic and don't want the chat to end.

Therefore, a boy who likes himself won't reply a word like "Oh" or "Hmm" easily when chatting, because he is worried that the chat will be over if he replies like this.

Moreover, they like to talk about the future, even about marriage. He will drag the girl to fantasize about his married life, because he already regards this girl as his future wife in his heart.

So boys are always trying to find new topics in the process of chatting, so in most cases it is because they like this girl.

6) I am willing to bring the girl I like to the party.

He will introduce this girl to his friends and family, because he wants this girl to blend into his circle and really come into his life. I will take her to family gatherings, friends gatherings and other activities, and I hope everyone around me will like this girl. This is a sign of love.

7) Seeing girls will shrink back or even escape.

Some boys will become shy when they meet girls they like, and even dare not approach them.

Are there any boys around us who say the wrong thing when they see the girl they like, dare not look at the girl, blush when they talk, and even don't know how to give her a gift?

I have such a friend around me, who likes a female classmate in the class and takes the initiative to copy the exam materials for the girls, but in order not to let the girls know his mind, he pretends to make a copy for everyone around him, and then pretends as if nothing has happened.

If a boy suddenly becomes shy, it is also a sign that he likes a girl.

8) The desire to protect and possess becomes stronger, and others are not allowed to slander her.

Boys have always been possessive. If he likes a girl, he will protect her very much, and will say that this girl is excellent in front of friends and will not allow others to make fun of her.

When he hears someone speak ill of this girl, he will become very aggressive, so all his friends around him will be very polite to this girl.

When other boys want to get close to her, he will become sensitive, as if he had sworn his sovereignty.

These behaviors are small "cracks" when you like girls. It is not difficult to find them as long as you observe them carefully.

Most boys will refuse something in front of the girls they like. Let's see what they have.

If a boy likes a girl, he will refuse to do these things to her.

1) A boy won't hurt his beloved girl.

Lies are taboo in love. If a boy really cares about girls' feelings, then he won't lie.

Because he knows how sad the girl will be when the lie is exposed, he can't bear to let the girl he likes bear it.

Moreover, he also hopes that the relationship between the two people is relatively simple without any impurities, so he will be honest with the girl he likes and will not deceive her easily.

2) Empathy, taking care of girls' feelings.

In front of the girl you like, boys will not boss around girls, but will respect their ideas and become gentle and considerate. I will try my best to take care of and care for girls, and I will not be self-centered in everything.

3) Girls will not haggle over every ounce even if they have minor faults.

If a boy really likes this girl, he won't haggle over every ounce, be too harsh on her behavior, and won't always find fault with her.

Even if a girl has a little mistake, she will be very angry with her, and she can tolerate her little temper and all her little faults, because in his eyes, these are places worth liking.

Just like if this boy wears a new pair of shoes, he will be very angry if others step on his shoes. However, if he is stained by the girl he likes, he will not be angry, but will feel very happy, because liking will make him not haggle with the girl.

So if a boy has these behaviors, then he likes this girl 90%.

Girls can also judge whether this boy really likes himself through these behaviors, and don't be confused by some illusions.

If you really like a person, even if you want to hide your little thoughts, you will inadvertently reveal some "flaws".