I can't help complaining about my husband's shortcomings with others. What should I do?

We must get rid of this behavior. Everyone has shortcomings. If you can't tolerate it, if you are dissatisfied with your husband, just ask him directly, indicating that you hope his husband will get rid of this bad habit.

I think your husband will be very angry when he learns from others that you are always complaining about your shortcomings. After all, you two are the closest relatives. Why should you tell others something shameful?

As the saying goes, wash your dirty linen in public, and you can't tell others about your husband's shortcomings. If this is always the case, others will doubt your feelings. Since you have chosen your husband, you shouldn't do anything that will damage his influence. After all, people who lose their husbands are also people who lose themselves.

A good wife should learn to give your husband enough face outside, instead of always saying his shortcomings and embarrassing him.

Let yourself get rid of complaining, because complaining will make your friends less and less, because you bring negative information to others, make others feel bored and make listeners feel uncomfortable. There are many kinds of people, one can bring happiness to others, and the other can add burden to others. If you always complain, you are the latter, and you are increasing people's psychological burden. I believe everyone likes to play with positive and optimistic people.

Your life will not get better because of your complaints. On the contrary, if you are in a bad mood, it will get worse and worse, making others more and more disgusted, so you must control yourself when communicating with others at ordinary times. If you can still swallow your mouth. After a long time, you will form good habits and you won't complain.