What's the name of the boy in Jin Ming and the name of WeChat in Jin Ming?

First, I think what is missing will be made up.

Nowadays, I often hear the saying "golden destiny and earthly destiny". Generally speaking, I feel that if I lack soil, I will make up for it, and if I lack gold, I will make up for it. As long as there are five elements missing from the baby's life, I will add them to my name. In fact, this idea is debatable.

For example, LMNT is in a baby's life, but the five elements of gold play an opposite role in his numerology. If you don't have gold, your fortune will be smooth, but if you have gold, it will increase obstacles. This is a mistake.

Fate depends on the "five elements", that is, the five elements that can play a dredging and traction role in the whole cycle of numerology field, rather than what is missing. Remember this concept when naming a baby.

Second, obsessed with the five elements.

We see that many parents know their baby's preference for using five elements, and then apply them mechanically according to their baby's preference for using five elements. In fact, for the baby's name, a good meaning is one of them. When naming according to numerology, you must consider the meaning.

For example, babies like to use local gold. In order to combine the five elements, it was named Wang Xinyao. Jinshui likes to use it, named: Yang Chengmiao.

Such a name only takes into account the five elements of happiness and loses its meaning. Such a name has no connotation and meaning, and the name has some numerology, which is not desirable.

The five elements of a word are not only judged from the radicals, but also need comprehensive judgment. For example, the "hilltop", which belongs to soil, has both soil and water. Should we take its water or its soil? Its radical is "water", which means fish swim in the water. Although there are mountains and soil, water still accounts for the majority, so water should be the main one. Another example is "light", one water and two fires. It seems that there is more fire than water, but you can't use fire, you can only use water.

Third, mechanically copy parents' surnames.

In order to reflect the parents' surnames in the names, the unified format of "father's surname+mother's surname+name" is mechanically applied, so the names are often strange and have no characteristics. For example, Zhang Liuyang, Wang Heyang should not appear in the baby's name at the same time.

In the traditional crown surname culture, the husband's surname is given after marriage, and the wife can take the combination of two surnames and the husband's surname. Married, so her name was crowned with the word Jiang, indicating that she will be a member of the Chiang family in the future. Her name is Jiang. This is the same at home and abroad. Foreign women will also be crowned with their husbands' surnames after marriage (China people are crowned first, foreigners are crowned last, because China people's surnames are first, but foreigners are the opposite).

What's more, when parents' surnames are added together, they become new compound surnames, not the previous surnames. In numerology, surnames represent heaven, so there are fewer such new compound surnames than ancestors. And the baby has become the beginning of this compound surname. Unless the children are very old, children with such names often lack the shadow of their ancestors.

Of course, it is not impossible to add surnames to reflect the feelings between parents, such as: grateful to meet, Han, Su Jianlin; Confess love, and become Li Muqiao; Liu, Sun, etc.

Fourth, use any popular words.

Among the names of newborns born in 2022 and registered in the household registration, the 50 words with high frequency are Zi, Zi, Yu, Ze, Han, Chen, Jia, Yi, Xin and Yu. In Baozhong, the frequently used names of 10 are: Haoyu, Haoran, Yuxuan, Aerospace, Ming Ze, Mozi, Zihao, Zirui, Zixuan and Zirui. These girls are: Promise, Promise, Xinyi, Zi Han, Han Shi, Xinyan, Yutong, Jiayi, Qijia and Zixuan.

The main function of names is that everyone is different, that is, you and me, so try to avoid those popular names when naming children, because many children occupy these names. There is a joke on the website:

Zixuan and Zixuan got into a fight and wounded Zixuan.

Ke Xin, Ke Xin, Ke Xin ran to stop the fight and knocked down Ruoxi, Ruoxi, Ruoxi. Zi Rui and Zi Rui ran to tell Ben Haoran, Haoran, Haoyu and Haoyu that they pulled Zi Xuan and Zi Xuan apart together and helped them up.

Yu Tong, Carman Yu, Yu Qi and Yu Han brought medicines to help you deal with the wound.

Finally, with everyone's help and persuasion, Zixuan, Zixuan, Zixuan and Zixuan shook hands and made peace.

Later, Wang Yinjiao only shouted four times at the kindergarten gate, and there was no one in the kindergarten.

Five, think that uncommon words have culture.

Modern interpersonal communication is becoming more and more frequent, and the use range of names is also very large. I don't know how many times I have to use my name along the way, from filling in the household registration to attending kindergarten, primary school, middle school, university, employment and marriage. Generally speaking, when choosing names, the motivation for choosing uncommon words is actually very simple, that is, to avoid being unconventional and repetitive, and to appear educated, but it will actually have the opposite effect.

For example, if a child is named, the teacher can't name it; When I saw a doctor, I didn't know anyone, so everyone came to read it indiscriminately, which was detrimental to the dignity of the name and had the original intention of naming it. We often see that children can't take the train, record the system and go to school because of their uncommon names, which brings great trouble to them.

Ms. Chen has a son named Su Wei, and there is a "Hua" beside the word "Wei". When children were first named, computers were not very popular, and registration was generally handwritten. But when the child becomes an adult, the problem comes. "After children work, they can buy insurance, take a train, fly, and see a doctor ... only through computer links. It can be found in the dictionary, but the computer can't type the words on the child's name, so it can only type the traditional Chinese character "Shu." The name and other account names are not unified, which brings a lot of trouble to my son's normal life. "

In addition, uncommon words are easy to be mispronounced, many people are often mispronounced, even make jokes, and are also easy to be nicknamed by others. In the long run, it will affect children's understanding and communication with others and hinder the effective play of the normal function of names. At the same time, unfamiliar and uncommon words hinder interpersonal communication. When a person can't understand another person's name, he will feel embarrassed and unhappy, and even unwilling to associate with it. For example, when submitting a business card, customers will feel embarrassed because of unfamiliar words, which is likely to affect the first impression and the smoothness of re-contact.

Six, copy ancestors and sages directly.

In traditional culture, names are generally avoided by ancestors. There is a saying in many places that children's names should be avoided as far as possible. The tradition of Han nationality emphasizes generations and names ancestors after ancestors, which not only disturbs the ranking of generations, but also is regarded as disrespect for ancestors.

For example, some of our ancestors were called Xiang Yan and some were called Huai 'an, so we should use this name or these two words as little as possible in children's names. One is to show respect, and the other is to avoid chanting. As far as the five elements are concerned, the same thing is to sing for it, which means to be in a dilemma. Therefore, from the perspective of inheritance, from the point of view that each generation is better than the next, we should try to avoid the names on our ancestors and fathers.

But as far as modern people are concerned, only the names are concerned, and generally the names of great men and celebrities are not used. However, because some people revere great men or celebrities, they deliberately take his name. Such as Li Dalin and Zhang Dayi, are all named after their names. Of course, people surnamed Zhao and Guan should not be named as "Zilong" or "Yunchang", otherwise they will be indistinguishable from today.

In fact, some things often happen naturally and naturally. Some respected people have their own names and life experiences. Some names are used by some people and are not suitable for ordinary people. And these names are often too big for ordinary people to control. So it is better to avoid the names, numbers and names of some highly respected people.

7. Ignore polyphonic homophonic dialects.

Some people's names look elegant on the surface, but because they will sound the same or similar to other indecent words, they will easily arouse people's ridicule, become people's banter and produce some funny comedy effects.

For example: rice bowl (rice bowl), Gong Anzhu (), kitchen knife (kitchen knife), Lu Hui (furnace ash), He Shang (), Peach Blossom (peach blossom), Li Zongtong (), Bao (popcorn) and so on. Others are easily misunderstood as derogatory terms, such as Bai Yanliang (), Shi, Zhu Yiqun (a group of pigs), Hu Lijing (a fox), Shen Jingbing () and so on.

If you are not careful when naming a name, it will easily cause a heavy psychological burden to your child, and it will be too late to regret it. For example, there is a student named Lele somewhere, and the teacher doesn't know how to call him in class. The teacher was stumped by this name. The three words of this name are all polyphonic and have eight pronunciations. Readers can organize themselves if they are interested.

After choosing a good name, remember to read it several times with your surname to see if it is fluent and think about whether there are any bad homophones. If you can't figure it out, let other relatives or friends at home help you look at it, find friends who are familiar with several major dialects in China, and let them read it in dialects to see if it is homophonic.

In fact, if homonyms are skillfully used in naming, it will make people feel subtle and unconventional. For example, Jiang is extraordinary, and "Jiang" and "Jiang" are homophonic, meaning extraordinary in the future. Zongchen, "Zong" homophones "Zhong", which means loyalty.

Eight, the name is universal, regardless of gender.

It's obviously a girl. You named her after a boy. You want a girl to be as strong as a boy, but you are laughed at by your classmates as a woman. And it's a boy. If you give a girl a name, this classmate laughs more, which will also affect the child's personality.

Since ancient times, men and women have been different. Throughout the customs of people's naming for thousands of years, we can find many laws. As far as physical structure is concerned, men are magnificent. Men are characterized by being big and powerful. So when naming a name, the male name is masculine, which sounds elegant, and the female name is feminine, which sounds gentle, feminine, lively and lovely.

Of course, but it doesn't mean that girls can't be strong or boys can't be gentle, just for the common aesthetics of ordinary people. If you want a little personality, a slightly neutral name is also ok.

Therefore, when naming a baby, we can't completely ignore the gender difference, which leads to the situation of "not male or female", which is harmful and unhelpful and should be paid attention to.

Nine, in favor of westernization

As a big country with a history of 5,000 years, it has its own inherent cultural values, moral values and aesthetic consciousness. When naming names, you should not laugh at yourself. To show personal characteristics, we should have a unique style, important characteristics and China background. This is the proper meaning of cultural confidence.

Too foreign names, such as David, John, Mary, Lisa and Anna, are understandable and sometimes fashionable. But in interpersonal communication, it may give each other a subtle impression of alienation and silence. It may also be thought that the name may be the descendants of some mixed-race or colonists, or people who worship foreign things and flatter themselves.

In naming habits, each has its own characteristics. Naming should be based on your own naming characteristics, habits and methods, and take names that can reflect your own characteristics.

Of course, with the historical process of the Belt and Road and the increasingly frequent cultural exchanges between China and the West, we can selectively absorb and use some foreign names. Using some unique values and cultural background, coupled with the background color of China, you can often get some pleasant and catchy names. For example, Wang Anqi (angel, little angel with wings on his back in literature), Helen Feng (Helen in Greek mythology), Rhett (the hero in Gone with the Wind), Shubei, Julie, Elena, etc.

If you really like a style of name, it is suggested that parents can give their baby an English nickname or a good name that combines Chinese and Western styles. Such as: Scarlett, Zhi Nuo Zhi Nuo, Sugar, Luck.

Ten: On the quality of the theory of examination name scoring.

At present, most of the evaluation and scoring software of net names adopt the naming method of three talents and five grids, which was founded by Japanese scholar Kenwen Yujizaki. Judging names by the number of words and strokes is too arbitrary and unreliable. At the same time, online name measurement only needs a set of computer programming, and its calculation runs counter to the traditional Yi-ology theory.

For example, in Xinhua Dictionary, there are words with strokes ranging from 3 to 33, all of which are related to water. If you look at the five-line grid, there will be different five lines without strokes, which is contradictory to the five lines of words represented by the three-point water.

Therefore, we should know that the strokes of Chinese characters only represent the form, and the meaning of words is the spirit of Chinese characters. Moreover, the use of the five-grid outline has increased many restrictions, and the pronunciation and meaning of many names are not very good, and many beautiful names will be missed.

Names have pictographs, numbers, sounds and meanings. These shapes, numbers, sounds and meanings can be integrated into the five elements, and each Chinese character has something in common with the numbers in Zhouyi, which is not created at will. Therefore, we must be careful in naming names.

The above is about the name of the boy named Jin Ming, and it is about the sharing of the five elements of numerology. Read the name of Jin Ming WeChat, I hope this will help everyone!