Jokes sometimes hurt people. What are the so-called jokes that hurt you?

There is a saying in China? The speaker didn't mean it, but the listener did? . In our life, we will play all kinds of jokes, but some jokes may touch a sad past in our friends' hearts. I don't know if everyone has been hurt by other people's jokes.

First of all, a malicious joke

Second, an unintentional joke.

Third, a joke in disguise

Malicious jokes and personal attacks are also a kind of jokes that everyone hates very much. Because of people's physical defects or things they didn't want to say in the past, they are often regarded as jokes. It may be said that joking is an unintentional nonsense character, but his behavior is a malicious behavior that hurts others. Such a person will not be liked by friends for long. So, don't take the excuse of being outspoken seriously.

Don't pay too much attention to this kind of joke. Usually between really good friends. It doesn't matter if the joke involves some privacy, because everyone knows its source. But sometimes something sad happens in life. When your friends don't know, it will hurt you to joke about it again. Maybe you were angry and angry with your friends, but when your friends know what happened, they usually comfort you, so don't take these unintentional mistakes too seriously.

Advanced skills, malicious jokes in disguise, these jokes belong to high-end advanced skills, and you really can't do it without any life experience. The characteristic of this kind of jokes is that they are packaged under another topic. Some of them are extremely ironic when you hear them. You can't hear him scold you without any experience. The problem is that even if you know, you can't fight back. The first reason is that such people are often very good at controlling the atmosphere at the scene. When you want to fight back, it often means that you are sitting right. The second reason why you can't fight back is that this situation often appears at family gatherings, which is generally said by the older generation. Others listen to it funny, but they just can't laugh. Everyone who may be forced to get married has a deep understanding of this.