How far is it? Will the distance after retirement still be the distance you originally wanted?

"There is always a dream. When the leaves turn yellow in autumn, I will not go to work but hang out every day!" This is the text in a cartoon I saw online before. I think many people read it. You may all laugh in the end, this seems to be the dream of many office workers! I remember that I had such a daydream when I was a child. In fact, for many people, it is not difficult to realize this dream, that is, wait until retirement, but really wait until retirement, will the distance still be the distance you originally wanted?

A long time ago, when I was in elementary school, my favorite thing was reading. At that time, my mother could borrow many novels and popular science magazines for me from the library of my work unit. During those years, I read Many books, it was at that time that I began to have the dream of traveling around the world. I remember that I once saw such an inspiring story: It was said that there were several street children in the United States whose dream was to travel around the world. Many people laughed at their wishful thinking after learning about it. After all, even eating was a problem, so why travel to distant places? But these children have always insisted on this dream. They have been working hard to do charity and good deeds, and they are very optimistic about life. Later, after being reported by the media, this incident moved a billionaire and finally made their dream come true.

Perhaps many people would just laugh at it as an inspirational story, but I took it seriously at the time and was greatly inspired. I also began to yearn for the distant place even more. I even regarded going to the distant place as a journey. A belief to constrain and spur oneself. When I was a student, I was much more self-disciplined than I am now, and I was a good kid with both good character and academic performance. However, many times, fate will make the trajectory of life often turn midway, causing you to make a big turn and then go through hardships, and then come back again. Let you go back to the starting point of your original dream and start again, that's what I am like, maybe this is life, no one will always have smooth sailing and get what they want.

Regarding the distant place, I don’t know how many people are thinking: "Wait until I have money, hum!" It seems that if you have money, you will have everything! In fact, can you do this when you really have money? It seems difficult, because there are still many trivial matters in life that are holding you back. You may not be able to let go of the opportunity to make money, your lover who will stay together forever, you are worried about the risks on the road, your health is poor, you are afraid of hardship and tiredness, etc. Don't laugh, this is a fact. I once saw a man write a will before traveling because he couldn't let go of too many things, including children, wives, lovers, property, etc. In short, it was because he had money. In fact, it was just an ordinary trip, the risk factor was not very high, and it was not an adventure at all.

Regarding the distance, it is often difficult to take the first step. After all, people should have a sense of responsibility at all times and not be too willful. The difference between people often depends on their execution ability. Taking too much into account and being afraid of hardship and tiredness are difficult to match with indulging in landscapes, poetry and distant places. The first time I traveled far away, I was filled with fear, but once I made up my mind to travel, there seemed to be less to worry about.

Taking a quick trip may seem easy, but it is actually not easy. First of all, you have to dare to let go. And for those who have been on the road, it is not just a matter of letting go, but also a matter of letting go. You also need to be willing to give up, and you also need to have a strong heart and love, because you are not going to wander, but to experience the most beautiful appearance of this world with all your heart! If this is not the case, let’s not talk about the happiness index. It is better to stay at home.

Another important point is the issue of funding. Either you have the ability to make money, or your family has enough money for you to spend! Traveling without considering your own conditions and regardless of the consequences is a waste of money. No matter how far you go, the distance is still far away from you. You may be even more disappointed when you come back. After all, not everyone can become a professional traveler.

For the average person, it shouldn’t be difficult to go out once or twice a year. You can do it according to your own circumstances, and you don’t have to go far. It is the stupidest idea to wait until you retire to do everything. There are too many unpredictable things in life, because you don’t know which will come first, tomorrow or the accident. Do what you want to do in your lifetime, you must do it as early as possible!

Life becomes a kind of beauty because of dreams, and life becomes interesting because of expectations.

Just try your best to be the best version of yourself, God will arrange everything!

To know how far the distance is, it does not have to be the end of the world or the ends of the earth, but you need to see the world and have some basic understanding of the world. For example, when you go to eat Western food, you cannot ask for a portion. Medium-rare steak, because the steak's rareness does not have to be an even number, and when going to ethnic minority areas, you'd better know what the taboos are in advance to avoid making jokes and embarrassments. Traveling is a kind of practice, which allows you to gradually develop a normal mind, take your time and walk slowly. Stop where you like and enjoy the scenery, feel the warmth and warmth of the world, be grateful and respectful. When you have this mentality, anywhere can be your distance, your end of the world. Even if you stay at home, you will still have something to see. The flowers in the garden are blooming and falling, and the clouds are rolling and relaxing.

The distance and poetry actually live in your heart, in every bit of romantic feelings, they are strong or weak beautiful memories, and they are the expectations and longing for the next time on the road. In fact, the distance It’s not far away, and the poetic and picturesque scenery is right beside you. The so-called poetry and distance have always been about discovering beauty in the ordinary and making ordinary life extraordinary.

If you cannot face your current life calmly, then the distance is still far away for you. The best mentality is: Wherever the body is, the heart can be, and wherever you yearn for is mine. The distance, my end of the world!

Picture description: The first picture was taken on the North Ali Line in Tibet, and the rest were taken by me in front of the living room window, some in summer and some in winter.

Beauty needs to be discovered and sought. There is no shortage of beauty in the world, and the beauty of many scenery is different in different seasons.