An analysis of the reasons why boys refuse girls' confession

When a boy refuses a girl's confession, they actually have a hard time. They wanted to say sorry to the girl, but in the end they held back because they didn't want the other person to have nostalgia for themselves. Do you know why they refuse to pursue their girls?

1, the primary reason is definitely Yan value, but most people who are rejected are actually not ugly. There is a joke that goes like this: every average-looking girl thinks she is above average, such as me. She doesn't think she is ugly. But that's just how you feel. Men and women have different aesthetics. Only what they think is beautiful is really not ugly.

2, personality reasons. There are many boys and girls who don't associate with the opposite sex. For myself, if I chat with a boy, we don't seem to be cold on the surface. Even I know his preferences in advance, and the topics he talks about are all his interests. But in his heart, he just thinks that I am not happy with him and that I am catering to him, so I can only be friends with him.

On this issue, some people can make each other really feel speculative when facing various objects, commonly known as high emotional intelligence, or come to a meeting. For people like me who can't get along with the opposite sex, either meet someone who can talk naturally, or the other person will look at my external conditions first and then get used to it, otherwise there is really no solution.

Ways for boys to reject girls

Refuse directly. Boys don't like girls, even if they refuse, they will be tactful. Many boys don't like a girl who will choose to refuse directly. He will refuse your request and even tell you directly that you will not continue to develop. This is the most direct performance, which also shows that this man is very simple and good for both of them.

Verbal hints. In order to prevent the harm caused by superficial rejection to girls, some boys will also choose verbal hints, and will quietly hint at you on some occasions. It is impossible for you to continue to develop.

Mention your girlfriend. All of a sudden, he always mentioned his girlfriend intentionally or unintentionally, saying how good she is to herself, that the two people have a good relationship, childhood friends, and so on, indicating that he doesn't want to accept your feelings.

How to get back the boy you like?

1, know the type of girl he likes. It is attractive to make yourself excellent, but it is not easy to make the other person regret it. After all, turnips and cabbages have different tastes, and each man likes different types, so he will be attracted by different women. So try to understand his personality characteristics, which is probably the type of girl you like, which will help you achieve the goal of getting twice the result with half the effort.

2. Keep in touch at a certain distance. This is a psychological tactic that girls must make good use of. After the confession is rejected, if you contact the boy frequently and praise his circle of friends frequently, it will only put pressure on the other party.

After all, some boys may reject you because they are cautious about their feelings. In this way, the last regret will be doused by you. Boys' emotional reaction is generally slow, so keeping the psychological tactics of being at arm's length can make him notice you and see your Excellence on the one hand; On the one hand, it can play the role of lust.