How can I make my husband understand that dad is an indispensable part of parenting?

Many men become fathers soon after getting married, and they are inevitably caught off guard. Some fathers will actively participate in their babies' lives, while others are a bit indifferent and probably want to escape. It is the responsibility of being a father. How can a wife make her husband understand that father is also an indispensable part in raising children?

What role does the father play in the growth of his child? In the structure of children's personality, five states are automatically divided, namely: father state, mother state, adult state, free child and adaptive child state. Only with the self-balanced development of these five states can the child have a sound personality, so these five states are indispensable.

Before the baby is 3 years old, the baby can feel the attitude of his parents towards him every day. This attitude and family atmosphere will be deeply imprinted on the baby's personality development process. During this period, the role of the father is to help the baby improve the personality of the "father state", to make the child feel the care and love from the father, and to set a positive example for the child.

If the father is absent during the growth process, the possible consequence is the loss of father status and personality. If the father is not involved in child care, the children will lack a sense of justice, courage, responsibility, etc. when they grow up.

In addition, some single mothers raise their children alone and take on the role of father. When such children grow up, they may even lose their maternal status and personality, and become lacking in sympathy, selfish, and selfish. Not thinking about others, etc.

Dad can understand the baby's needs. When the baby cannot express his needs in words, he will cry inexplicably. The mother will only think that the baby is hungry, sleepy or sick, but the father can understand the baby's real needs from the baby's crying. Sometimes the baby will cry in order to attract the father's attention, so the father should interact with the baby more often to meet the baby's emotional needs.