Different people have different perspectives and different moods.

Different angles will make you see different things.

Learn to solve difficult problems from different angles

Reflections on the way of thinking hindering the transformation of angles

Everyone has his own point of view.

To change the perspective of seeing things is to change the way of doing things.

Another angle will make success easier.

Think from multiple angles.

Put yourself in another's shoes.

well-known saying

A Dream of Red Mansions ... Scholars look at the Book of Changes, Taoists look at lewdness, talented people look at lingering, revolutionaries look at rows, and gossips look at the secrets of the palace. -Lu Xun

Looking at Lushan Mountain from the front and side of peaks and valleys, from far, near, high and low places, Lushan Mountain presents various faces. -Su Shi

Sometimes you need to leave the usual avenue and dive into the forest. You will definitely find something you have never seen before. -Bell

If matches burn in your pocket, you should be happy, because your pocket is not a powder keg. If you have a thorn on your finger, you should be happy, because the thorn didn't go into your eye. If your wife changes her mind about you, you should be happy because she betrayed you, not your country. -Chekhov

With a position, our specific attitudes towards various specific things have emerged. Like praise or exposure? This is the attitude problem. Mao Zedong

There are a thousand hamlets in the eyes of a thousand audiences. -belinsky

Although the pessimist is still alive, the optimist is always young. -English proverb

Optimists see hope in disasters, while pessimists see disasters in hope. -English proverb

Shorter feet and longer inches. -Proverbs

A river has two sides. Everything has two sides. -Proverbs

Classic material

Happiness of the bearer

(Don't judge others from your own point of view)

Russell, the most influential British thinker in the 20th century, came to Sichuan, China on 1924. At that time, China was divided by warlords, and the people were in dire straits. It was summer and it was very sultry. Russell and several people accompanying him went to Emei Mountain in the kind of bamboo sedan chair carried by two people. The mountain road was steep and steep, and several porters were so tired that they were sweating. This situation makes Russell not in the mood to see the scenery, but to think about the mood of several bearers.

He thought, the bearers must hate their sedan chairs, and they have to carry them up the mountain in such hot weather. Even they may be thinking, why are they sedan chair people and not sedan chair people?

Arriving at a small platform halfway up the mountain, Russell got off the bamboo sedan chair and carefully observed the expression of the sedan chair bearer. He saw the bearers sitting in a row, taking out their pipes, talking and laughing, and didn't mean to blame the weather or the people in the sedan chair. They also told Russell jokes about their hometown with great interest, asked Russell some foreign things curiously, and laughed happily from time to time during the conversation.

Russell told this story in his article The Character of China People. And he came to the conclusion that it is wrong to look at other people's happiness with self-righteous eyes.

Hawking's fate

(optimistic view)

When I think of Hawking, I see the eternal deep eyes and quiet smile of this outstanding master of science. The world admires Hawking not only because he is a hero of wisdom, but also because he is a fighter of life.

Once, at the end of the academic report, a young female reporter jumped onto the podium, deeply admired the great scientist who had lived in a wheelchair for more than 30 years, and asked without mercy, "Mr. Hawking, Luger's disease has fixed you in a wheelchair forever." Don't you think fate has cost you too much? "

This question is obviously abrupt and sharp, and the lecture hall suddenly becomes silent.

Hawking's face is still full of quiet smile. He tapped the keyboard with his fingers that were still moving. Then, with the standard London cavity issued by the synthesizer, the huge projection screen slowly and conspicuously shows the following passage:

My fingers are still moving,

My brain can still think;

I have an ideal that I have pursued all my life.

I love and love my relatives and friends;

By the way, I still have a grateful heart. ...

After the inner tremor, the applause thundered. People flocked to the stage and gathered around this extraordinary scientist to pay sincere respect to him.

Jump out of a dead end

(Change the usual thinking angle)

Albert, a famous mental arithmetic expert? Camilo has never miscalculated.

On this day, he was performing, and someone came to the stage and gave him a question: "A train with 283 passengers entered the station, 87 people got off and 65 people got on; At the next stop, 49 people will go down and 1 12 people will come up; At the next stop, 37 people go down and 96 people come up; At the next stop, 74 people went down and 69 people came up; Next stop, 17 people go down and 23 people come up ... "

No sooner had the man finished than the mental arithmetic master replied disdainfully, "Pediatrics! Tell you, there is a * * * and-"on the train.

"No," the man stopped him and said, "I asked you to count how many stops the train stopped." Abbott? Camilo was stunned, and this group of simple addition and subtraction became his "Waterloo".

Napoleon, the real loser of Waterloo, also has a story. After Napoleon was exiled to St. Helena, one of his smooth close friends secretly brought him a chess set made of ivory and nephrite. Napoleon couldn't put it down. From then on, he silently played chess, killing lonely and painful time. The chess was erased and his life came to an end.

After Napoleon's death, this chess set was auctioned many times. Later, a master accidentally found that the bottom of a chess piece could be opened, which contained a detailed plan on how to escape from St. Helena!

Two stories, two regrets.

In fact, all their failures are in their mentality. Mental arithmetic only thinks of stale figures, while military strategists only think of entertainment. They ignored counting and chess. It can be seen that a genius can't walk out of a dead end if he spins around in his own mindset.

Paintings by two masters

(Different angles mean different right and wrong)

Grand Duke of Florence, Italy, entrusted painter Da? Finch and Michelangelo each painted a picture showing the scene of the ancient Florence war. After painting, both paintings caused great repercussions. Michelangelo's paintings show the brave and tenacious fighting spirit of Florence soldiers and the heroic spirit of standing up to defend the motherland, which has won unanimous praise. Da? The Florence soldiers in Finch's paintings are all crazy, and their faces are deformed. These soldiers seem to be in fear and despair. This painting has aroused people's disappointment and even dissatisfaction. Some people think this is an insult to the glorious Florentine. It was not until later that an art critic asserted that this was Da? Finch "failed once in his life". In fact, this is a wrong judgment. Michelangelo's painting is The Battle of cassina, which depicts the historical facts of ancient Florence's victory over the barbarian invader Babylon. The Battle of Anjali painted by Finch is a war between nobles in 1400. Da? Finch called it "animal madness" in disgust, and his paintings wanted to reveal the cruelty and evil of this war.

Last week's grain

(Changing thinking angle to solve difficult problems)

In ancient Greece, there were often brutal wars between city-states. In one of the wars, the Athenian city-states were besieged by rival city-states for half a year. At this time, the Athens Supreme Chief ordered the officials in charge of rations to carefully calculate how much food they had left and how long Athens could last. Before long, the officials panicked and reported that our food was only enough for a week. After a week, the whole city would starve to death.

Some officials who first heard the news were also panicked, and they advised the chief executive that instead of being besieged and starved to death, it was better to surrender in Kaesong and save the lives of a city's people.

At this time, the officer stood up, his face full of confidence and optimism. He said, we still have a week's food to support, which is great. Can't we make use of this week's breakthrough? Will the enemy's rations last for a week? Can't we think of a better way in a week?

Yes, there is still one week, one week, maybe the enemy can't hold on, and we won without fighting.

As the chief predicted, when their food could last for three days, the besieged enemy began to retreat, because their military food had been exhausted, and Athens defeated the enemy with confidence and hope.

Many times, there are two diametrically opposed views on the same issue. From one point of view, this is a dead end, from another point of view, this is a hopeful sunshine avenue.

The use of pencils

(Divergent thinking from multiple angles)

There is a school for the poor in Richmond, new york. 1983 A Czech doctor of law named Pujerov found that the criminal record of students in this school in new york police station was the lowest in the past 50 years.

Przherov launched a long investigation on this. Q: A saint? What did Beinert College teach you? In the past six years, he received 3756 answers. Of these answers, 74% replied that they knew how many uses a pencil could have. He first visited the owner of the largest fur shop in new york, and the owner said, "Yes, Pastor Beinert taught us how many uses a pencil can have. The first composition we entered school was on this topic. At first, I thought that pencils had only one purpose, and that was writing. Who knows that pencils can be used not only to write, but also to make rulers and draw lines when necessary, and also as gifts to express friendship; Can make a profit when selling goods; Pencil lead can be used as lubricating powder after being ground into powder; It can also be temporarily used for makeup during performances; Wood chips can be made into decorative paintings; A pencil can be sawed into several parts, made into a chess set, and used as the wheel of a toy; When there is danger in the wild, the pencil can be used as a straw to drink the water in the crevices; When encountering bad people, sharpened pencils can also be used as self-defense weapons ... in short, a pencil has countless uses. Pastor Beinert made us poor children understand that people with eyes, noses, ears, brains, hands and feet have countless uses, and any one of them is enough for us to survive. "

Preeg rove later interviewed some st? Students who graduated from Beinert University found that no matter their status is high or low, they all have a job and they all live a very optimistic life. Besides, they can all name at least 20 uses of pencils.

Listen to people's voices.

(think and act from the other side's point of view)

Joe, the king of American car sales? Gillard has a deep understanding. Once, a celebrity came to him to buy a car, and he recommended the best model to him. The man was satisfied with the car and took out $65,438+00,000 in cash. It was almost a deal, and the other party suddenly changed its mind and left.

Joe has been worried about this all afternoon and can't figure it out. At night 1 1, he couldn't help calling the man: "Hello! I'm Joe? Gillard, I introduced you to a new car this afternoon. You were about to buy it, and suddenly you left. "

"Hey, do you know what time it is?"

"I'm very sorry, I know it's already 1 1 o'clock in the evening, but I can't think of anything wrong after reviewing it all afternoon, so I'm calling you for advice."

"Really?"

"heartfelt words."

"Very well! Are you listening to me attentively? "

"It's very hard."

"But you didn't listen to me this afternoon. Just before signing the contract, I mentioned that my dog Jimmy was going to study medicine at the University of Michigan. I also mentioned my dog's academic performance, athletic ability and his future ambition. I am proud of him, but you have no response. "

Joe doesn't remember the other person saying these words because he didn't pay attention at all. Joe thinks the deal has been settled. Not only is he not interested in listening to what the other party is saying, but he is also listening to another salesman telling jokes in the office.

That's why Joe failed: that man needs to praise an excellent son besides buying a car.

Joe? Gillard just didn't "think and act from each other's standpoint." He just took it for granted that it was a deal. Everyone knows that "thinking and acting from each other's standpoint" is a golden saying, but it is really difficult to do it. This is what successful salespeople do.

Teach you a lesson with praise

(It would be better to look at it from another angle)

Among the Babumba people in Africa, there is still an ancient life ceremony. When someone in the clan makes a mistake because of improper behavior, the patriarch will let the person who made the mistake stand in the middle of the village and make a public appearance as a punishment. At this time, the whole tribe will put down their work and come from all directions to "teach" the wrong person with praise.

The besieged people will automatically separate the old and the young, and then start with the oldest person and tell the wrong person in turn what good things he has done for the whole tribe in his life. Every nation must describe the merits and good deeds of the perpetrators in sincere language. You can neither exaggerate the facts, nor swear words, nor repeat compliments that others have already said. The whole ceremony of praise should last until all the people have finished their positive comments.

Babumba people are very smart. Their attitude towards people who make mistakes is "Although you have made mistakes and shortcomings, we still love you, care about you and accept you." . Since you have done so many good deeds and good deeds for the whole tribe and have so many advantages, please seriously reflect on it and sincerely correct your mistakes. Our whole tribe firmly believes that you must have the confidence and ability to become better. "