When the baby loses his temper, can parents fight violence with violence? How should they respond?

What should the baby do if he loses his temper? Many parents are fighting violence with violence. "Do you still have a temper?" "You think you still have reason, don't you?" In fact, this way is not conducive to the growth of children, but also affects their future personality. So what should we do in the right way?

1 First of all, parents should stop being angry, because on the one hand, your anger can't solve the problem, but it will amplify the child's anger, which will make him feel uncomfortable and dare not make any noise. Therefore, parents should control their anger first and communicate with their children in a calm tone, which will help to set a good example for their children and calm their baby's emotions as soon as possible.

Parents need to let their children learn that it is normal for everyone to be angry, but it is very important to handle their own emotions without causing harm to others.

To help a child, we must first know why the child is angry. Generally speaking, children will not be so noisy when they know that someone understands his feelings. For example, the toys that children often play with were taken away by the children in the neighborhood, and he showed a very angry look, and might make a hullabaloo about or even curse. At this time, you should ask him calmly what happened. After he tells the reason, you should fully understand: "It's really annoying that he took your toy without your permission." The child will know that you understand him.

Then you can ask a question and let the child think on his own initiative. For example, "what do you think you have to do in advance to make him remember?" Do I have to ask your permission before taking your toys? " If the child is still angry, tell him, "Anger can't solve this problem, can it?" The whole process is that parents need to accompany their children to solve problems. It might be better if this happens again next time.

If others are so childish that they don't listen to anything and start hitting people and throwing things, stop his behavior immediately and put him in his room to calm him down, but in this process, he still follows the previous principle, that is, don't respond to his anger with anger. Wait for him to calm down, and then take the time to let him know what he did wrong in the process. And through communication with children, let children know what to do when they encounter such problems in the future.

Talk to your child about anger when he is calm, and let him know that it is very important to control his behavior when he is angry. At the same time, it is suggested that the first thing children should learn is to control themselves when their behavior is out of control or outspoken.

5. Help children find ways to vent their emotions. He can put on headphones to listen to music, tie a sandbag to play, throw a basketball outside or take a shower. Let him record these methods, put them in a conspicuous place and support him when he adopts them.

It is a knowledge to let children learn to manage their emotions, which requires the patient guidance and education of parents. By then, we will not only improve our children, but also improve ourselves.